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Archived questions from: 30 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I get really jealous when other girls flirt with my best guy friend. Surely I can't like him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm really sorry this is so long but it requires a fair bit of explanation :D So a few years ago I was stranded in this class, in which I was the only girl. That sucked. Then this guy (then kinda funny/nerdy looking XD) sat next to me and was ju...

I need some help asking out a girl from work - suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi all, I was hoping for some advice on something that's been on my mind for quite a while now - I'll try and keep it as short as possible :) There's a girl at work who seems really nice and I would love to ask her out on a date/drink/whate...

I was right on the edge of orgasm, but she just couldn't bring all the way. Any advice for her out there, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend wants to give me a hand job. She was trying the other day and it felt really good but she just couldn't quite get me there before her she got tired. Now she feels bad because she couldn't do it and i've been able to get her to orgasm ...

Neither of us are ready for full sex, so how can I satisfy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i want to satisfy my boyfriend sexually. but neither him nor me is ready for sex. i need tips of good things to satisfy him without having sex.... thanks 3 ...

Twice we have tried to do it and I've not managed to get an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a young male with not much sexual experience (twice only) but I am now very happy in a relationship with a girl I love and want to have sex with. The girl is a virgin but she's told me she is ready. The trouble is, twice we have trie...

I miss my baby with all my heart. I shaped up and changed for her. Please - does anyone know how I can win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - On the last day of high school in may of 05, some random girl i didnt know came up to me and told me her friend liked me. That night i got to meet the girl in person - and boy was i scared. Since then we have been together until the 23rd of ...

Boundaries with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am (was) dating a guy that I knew had a "past" (prison "stuff") and I still went out with him. I have a habit of saying "I'm Sorry" and he told me to leave and respect his boundaries. Then the other day I tried to surprise him with a home made ...

Which guy is playing me and which guy likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Okay I just want to know which guy is in playing or likes me. I would like to have a male point of view but females can too. The thing is with these guys I don't even flirt with any of them, I just act like myself, and I am shy,but generally ...

How should we split up the bills?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for many years. He owns the house free and clear, and has since before I moved in. Since moving in, I have paid various bills, all food/non-durable items, half the property taxes and given him money monthly to ...

How can I make sure we don't drift apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Iv been with my boyfriend for a month and hes going back to uni this weekend and its 3 hours away! He says that we will still see each other every weekend still cuz thats all we see each other now as he lives a few hours away! But he wont have a car ...

Do these signs mean he may like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - theres this boy who i like and i got one of his mates to tell him (in the past he has said that i was "bum" and "beautiful" ) i thought becasue of what he said i actully had a shot of him liking me.but when the boy said he told him. he was in a rus...

I have a mental block when it comes to my girlfriend and I lose my erection!

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30 September 2008 (M) - everything is great btwn us ... but we have this problem with our sex life.. we've had sex on and off for the past couple months.. but we've gone awhile without sex.. when we try i lose my erection as soon as we are about to have sex... i'm hard ...

Is it possible for someone to love and not lust after you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hi there.... I am hoping to get a bit of advise regarding my current relationship. I met this guy 9 months ago. we have a great relationship and since day one we have been inseperable. He is 37 has never been married or had kids. We started ...

I feel our child kicking in my stomach and it breaks my heart!

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30 September 2008 (F) - I am having another problem, our first problem ballooned to a nightmare. My first blog was that I am 7 months pregnant and found nude pix of his ex and him on his computer, he did not want to get rid of them and days later he said he did, and hated ...

Am I being naive or am I just plain dumb in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I've been together and living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The first 6 months were like that out of a fairy tale novel; surprise trips, PDA, affection, respect and a complete gentleman willing to do anything to make me smile/laugh. After ...

Is he confused or could he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey ok you know when people think a lad likes you because of how he acts and stuff and from past things that have happened and they say they think he likes you but hasn;t admitted it to himself yet what do tehy mean by hasn't admitted it to himself ...

I feel paranoid about my LDR. How can I ease my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i've been in a long distance relationship for a year now. We live really far away and only get to see each other once every 6 weeks. I suppose i'm an paranoid person at heart and i'm always worrying about how many times i should phone him etc. But ...

His jealousy has reached levels that scare me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I really am at such a loss of what to do, or even what to think at this point... I have been dating a man from Italy (I am American) for a little over 6 months. We met in a way where our trust in one another needs to be strong enough to get be...

I'm a lesbian and I need advice!

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30 September 2008 (F) - dearcupids! i really dont know what to do at the minute, well, im 17 and i am a lesbian, i was pretty ashamed at first, didnt want to admit to myself or my family but it was easier than i thought, when i introduced my girlfriend to my family, she ...

Should my boyfriend be watching porn?

This question has 43 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by ot...

We all work at the same company but who should I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - It seems this guy #1 I really like at work is giving me more attention lately after his relationship went sour with his girlfriend of 2 months. He liked me before this other girl but for some reason went with her. Meanwhile I had gotten flirty ...

Why is he ignoring me? We had sex but I want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Ok here we go... I met a bloke 2 weeks ago and he's a friend of my housemates. We all went out and got drunk one night and I let him sleep in my bed. One thing led to another and in the morning we had sex. He lives about an hour and a half away fro...

Do I wait for this girl or see someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hi,I have been with a girlfriend for almost 2years and of late she doesn't call me,i told him we get married this Dec but she told me that if she is holding/delaying me she better leave me.Along with it another lady has really approached me very ...

What does this girl want from me? Can anyone tell me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hello, i have a problem with some girl that i dont know: i went to new school and this girl in that school i just dont know her but she is always with a girlfrein of her in school. the story is when she sees me she laugh with her girlfrein...

I love him, but should I keep working at this!? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, I hope you can help. I called the Samaritans but feel guilty, because I feel pretty blue. I met this man when I was 18. We went out and got married twelve years later. Since then we have split up loads of times but always got back ...

I need gift ideas for this female friend. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hey all, I'm just wanting to know gift ideas (preferrably comments from girls). I have a good friend I have known for almost 4 years. I've always liked her a lot, but thought I was out of her league, about this time last year I found out she ha...

Should I ask her out on a second date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Hello dear readers, well my story is that i dated first a girl who is my university, first date was great, we talked a lot , she laughed also...but all the time she didn't give me the opportunity to come closer to her, maybe i sad some stupid things ...

What do younger guys think about FWB?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hey, just a quick question - what do younger guys think about the whole 'friends with benefits' idea? Recently I broke up with my boyfriend and although I get lonely and miserable, I don't want another committed relationship for a good while. I ...

Begging for help: pregnant and very broken.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I feel very desperate I need help before I completely break down. It was love at first sight. And for 2years we had never experienced such immense happiness while being with someone. We really fell in love. We had all those typical talks th...

Pregnant girlfriend wants to leave the state!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Well I guess I should say first that she, after yesterday, is now my ex-girlfriend. We had been dating since late February and moved in together in mid May. Our relationship has had it problems, more so than the typical relationship. She did cheat ...

Is this guy interested in me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I'm not sure if this guy is really interested in me or not.We've hooked up on and off since January (by the way it was a completely non-physical relationship). The 1st time we stopped talking because he heard that I had a boyfriend which was ...

Should I move in with him? My boyfriend says it's over if I don't....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. He wants me to move in with him, but my family don't really like him and don't want me to. They say that I'm too young and that they don't think I'm ready. I originally said yes but when I told my Mam she ...

My life doesn't seem fixable. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have a brief separation in progress and since being online i dont emotionally feel bothered. I am not sure how much stress im copying with separating from my partner, and this worries me. My need to communciate with other people via inter...

Are these feelings real or am I using him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I was dating this guy for 1 1/2 years and we really loved eachother, but it just didn't work out. We had a great time together while it lasted though, so it really wasn't to bad. Well anyway, we have been broken up since about the end of May and I ...

I'm sexually frustrated, how can I let him know I need to feel wanted and taken once in a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am 41 years old and I started dating a 34 year old. I do not think he has any previous experience with women and I do not think he knows how to please a woman orally or even in bed. He is a great guy, very gentle but how would I let him know that ...

I'm almost certain he doesn't like me. But now,.he's showing an interest...what is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Well, there's this guy I've known for a very long time. For about a month or two recently, there were many rumours that he liked me. I thought they were true cos he got all concern over the littlelest things that happen to me. But currently, he ...

She's infatuated with this married man...so I am thinking I may never have a chance again! Advice needed!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me about a month ago. We have a 2 1/2 year old son. We are sharing custody. Our relationship had been declining for months as the pressures of school, work, raising a child, and living with my parents chipp...

Am I over-reacting when I think...she may have lost interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - There is a girl Im really interested in who is in one of my college classes. She seems to be interested in me also. Recently she told me that we should hang out soon. A week passed and she didn't say anything about hanging out. This weekend I ...

Are there any good old guys still out there? Where do I go to find him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - After I got divorced I started to date. Seems that I am horrible at choosing a good,honest guy to date. So far the few Ive dated want only a casual thing and they are way selfish in bed and two minutes and they are done and thats it no ...

Dating a year and I want to meet his family...but when I suggest it...he gets so defensive! What is happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and still have not met his family. Everytime I bring it up he has one excuse or another. He also shuts his phone off everytime we are together and will not talk to people over the phone in front of ...

We broke up and for a change..I was the one that got really hurt! How do I cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i just don't know how to deal with this.. usually when i go out with someone i'm in control and i break up with them and they get sad. it's pretty much always been like that. but now i just got broken up with.. and it hurts so much. i've never felt ...

Caught in a triangle here! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I moved to a new city and met a great guy I fell for instantly. We would flirt a lot, and It was pretty clear what was going to happen. But one night, his roommate tried to kiss me. I turned him down politely but now the first guy told my friend he ...

How long into dating did you become an official couple?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy a couple of month ago, we started dating soon afterwards, about 3 weeks ago, we talked about what situation we were in, I was a bit upset when he said we weren't in the stage of relationship, because we act like we are gf and bf ...

Scared my bf will find someone else while he's away working! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend just left for two months to work i miss him sooo much.i dont know how to get over this im soo scared he will find someone new or realize he is happy without me. im tired of crying about it i mean i realize he is working and cant be ...

No place to tell her my feelings or even make a small move!? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - How can i get a girl i like into a situation where i can tell her how i feel and maybe even make a small move? it's hard to do the at her door thing because she lives with her parents and i think it would be too awkward and off putting for her......

I can't trust my boyfriend-- this is destroying my relationship! please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hello I need a lot of help here, I am in a relationship with this really wonderfull guy, he does everything to please me, he is very introverted but for his actions I know that he really cares about me, we have been 8 months of relationship, I am 27 ...

Caught between my family and my forbidden lover! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy ( lets call him Mr.A) nearly a year ago, he's a tough guy with piercings and tattoos but as i got to know him i realised he is quite sensitive and sweet. When i told my family about him they had their doubts but were happy that i was ...

The words at the end of her message meant something! What exactly did she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - hey ok im kinda confused as to how this was ment basically theres a lad i like who also showed he liked me and stuff and he had a mate in another class who was a girl and this particular day someone out our class sorta did something as if to tell ...

She loves someone else, but I want to be with her! How can I win her over? Or should I even try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey everyone, this is my 1st question on here and i dont exactly know how to say it, well in order to understand it 1st off, u need to know the basic story. we are incredibly close, she is the only one who knows what i truly am like, ive known her ...

When we make sounds he cums quicker than if we're quiet...Why???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - i dont know this is kinda an awkward question but my boyfriend - everytime we have sex he finishes[cums] quickly, but the weird thing is that he finishes faster when there are sounds, like moans you know. but when there arnt any moans it lasts ...