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Archived questions from: 25 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should the fact that he has a lot of comments on his online profile from a girl in the year below bother me?? Should I talk to him about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - hi. i have a new boyfriend. i really like him. but we're not really communicative yet. like we're shy to each other. but i went on his page and almost all of his comments are from this girl in the grade below us, and he comments her of course. i ...

What does ''in too deep'' mean? How am I supposed to take this?

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25 September 2008 (?) - Heyllooo :) can i ask , what does ''i feel like im in too deep'' mean as the lad ive been seeing said it to me before , how am i supposed to take to this offensively ? or in a good way ? does this mean his feelings are too strong and he crnt esca...

Does the fact that he is missing me means that he loved me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I had a relationship for about 10 months with the perfect man, he's really smart (a scientist) and so nice to me, he gave me flowers and all tipe of presents for no reason, he cooked for me every time we were together, treated me like a princess. ...

Why do I still feel sad about him? For 4 months he put me through hell!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I finally broke things off with my emotionally abusive boyfriend a few weeks ago. During our short relationship (4 months but we've known each other for years), he put me through hell and also had some 'dark secrets' he told me. Well, one of those ...

What's he hiding???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and me had sex but for some reason he kept his boxers on. When I tried to pull them down it he would jerk away. Why? ...

Should I let him follow his dream??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I met my partner nearly 16 years ago he is married and has two grown up children. We have been together as a couple for nearly 14 years. i have never asked him to leave his wife and never would. He himself came from a broken home and has always said ...

His wife passed away a few years ago. Is it safe to be with him now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - almost 30years ago I had a relationship which lasted for 3 years, he was married, we had a child who is now 27yrs old, He chose to stay with his wife and family, My son wanted to meet his father, Contact has been made,we have spoken, his wife pa...

Why does my friend hit on every guy I date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have a close female friend--I'll call her "Anne"--whom I've known for about two years. Anne and I get along very well in most regards. Since it's rare for me to find a girl with similar interests, I've forgiven her things in the past that would ...

Am I weird for not having french kissed someone yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hey Guys :D In need of a little advice. I am 16 and I want to know if its weird that I am a vl and haven't fully kissed a boy. I have pecked someone on the lips but never frenched kissed someone. Am I weird? Thanks for any advice you give...

Is he the stereotypical Turkish guy or could he be for real?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Ok here is the story...I met this guy on holiday in Turkey. He lives there and was a barman in my hotel. He is 18 and I am 16. So there isn't a large age gap. He constantly flirted with me and kept tryin to get me to go walks and kiss me. I wasn't ...

I hate how clingy and insecure I am so how do I stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I'm looking for advice on how to stop being insecure, and how to talk to my boyfriend about the way I feel. My boyfriend is a good guy, but he is often moody and withdrawn. He goes from being really clingy and caring and affectionate to being really ...

If he doesn't see me as a girlfriend, where will this end up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for 8 months now. Ever since we met we have been inseperable. I think I have fallen in love with him and I have told him this. I feel like I want to be have the girldfriend title but he says he does not want to put a title to ...

Can someone help me sort out if I'm in the right relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - First of all I am 23 and my girlfriend is 20 I have been with my partner for about 5 months now. We got to know each other very well and started living together about 3 months ago. We get on really well and I am absolutely crazy about her. She h...

Am I just being silly? Please put my mind at rest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hiya, Me and a guy im seeing slept together for the first time yesterday and now for some reason im so worried and nervous. I'm on the pill so i really dont know why? And i've never forgotten any. Am i just being silly? Please someone put m...

Are these my boyfriend's pictures or could it be his brother's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone : ) ... My problem is that I've become very insecure about myself and I'm worried that I may over react about a lot of things cz of the way I feel about myself. Sometimes when my bf and I go out I see him look at other girls even tho...

Do men in their 30's want women as just friends or do they usually want more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - You swap numbers with someone (just as friends) that you have known in the pub for a few months and they txt a couple of days later asking if your well and saying have a nice day, you reply, then they invite you round for a cup of tea, you have a ...

The distance made us realise we miss each other, I told this to him but I'm not sure where I stand now, what he wants to happen between us and if he is willing to make it happen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for about 5 years we have always had a close bond we have seen each other have one bad relationship after the next and have always been there for each other to pick up the peices. sometimes this close friendship bond turns ...

I fancy my mum's boyfriend's son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - ok heres the problem My mum is going out wiv this guy she has been wiv for 8 years and he has this son called sean, and ive started having strong feelings for him, sometimes i just feel like kissing him He has a girl friend and i hav a boy frie...

I love him but does he just want to sleep with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for several months. I lost my virginity to him hoping we will end up dating but he said he just got out of a 3 year relationship. I dont really know why, but I kept on sleeping with him for 2 months. I know it was stupid, ...

Does this guy fancy or have a crush on me?

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25 September 2008 (F) - Righty, Yes this question comes up alot, but i dont care. =] Okay, does this guy fancy/have a crush on me. I'm not sure if he does, because i was talking to him in geography last week and he randomly came out with 'Your fit!' then i said what and ...

I am in love with my teacher and I don't want to be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Cut a long story short, i am madly in love with my geography teacher. i am a 17 year old Bisexual (very nearly 18!) female and she is 25 years old and apprently also bisexual (but this has never been confirmed although i do get what some will say ...

How can I put myself in position where I seem more like a romantic interest than a friend?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - While I was in one of my college classes I caught a girl checking me out. Later that day I talked to her and it was relatively awkward. I've talked to her since and the awkwardness has dissipated. She seems really nice and is someone I'd like to ...

How do I sort out my girl problems?

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25 September 2008 (M) - hi, im 16 tand have been with few girls but none have which have been in my mixed school. it seems like all my friends have met or went out with someone in the school but i havent. its not that i dont talk to any girls cause i do. how do i so...

Marriage proposals: do you have a story to tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - Hello All, I am wondering if anybody can help me. I am currently researching for a new book that I am writing and looking for stories of marriage proposals with a difference. Anything from the ultra romantic to the down right funny or corny. Do you ...

We've done the odd sexual things but not actual sex, I don't dare to please him in case it goes wrong and he thinks differently of me! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - wel me and my boyfriend have been together alomst a year, and we've done the odd sexual things but not actual sex, but im scared, and i havnt done anything to him either wich im also scared about incase it goes wrong and he thinks different of me, ...

Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - I want to do sexual intercourse with my girlfriend in a hotel. Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room? May I arrested by the police?...

Does anyone have a happy ending to a story like mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - This is a story about life, and why its too precious and limited to hav regrets and unexplored loves. I have a regret and the more time goes by, the more the regret eats away at my conscience. its long and probably not of big interest to u, b...

He wants to kiss me, but he's too shy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been have been dating for like 3 weeks and last week he told his friends that he wanted to kiss me and i want to kiss him too but he keeps chickening out!!! he leaves me notes in one of my classes and he tells me "at lunch" ...

My gf's is upset that I don't like her displays of affection in public! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend is big on public displays of affection but I feel uncomfortable with it. It's much more than just holding hands and a quick peck, she's licking the back of my ear and running her hands over my body. She's so crestfallen when...

I find myself accidentally in love with this past gf, who I just want to see, be around. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - 3 years ago, I had a pretty bad fall out with an ex-girlfriend. And now everytime i think about the relationship, some assholic memory of me will arise and I hate it, it makes me hate myself and i get embarassed thinking about it even if im alone ...

I'm 14 year old with a 17 year old boyfriend. I just want to hang out with him, but my dad doesn't trust us.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - im a 14year old girl that has a 17 year old boyfriend that is turning 18 in two days. i really like him but my dad doesnt want me to date him and my mom think that she wouldnt care as long as she meets him. i want my dad to meet him too but i dont ...

What is happening to our relationship? Is it me or is it her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 17 and I've been going out with my girlfriend who is 16 for 7 months now and I truely love her. Recently, she has been getting very angry at me for no particular reason and blaming everything on me. Even though I am not doing anything...

My boyfriend hasn't said 'I love you' yet... is there something wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - I know people say i love you way to much.. but iv'e been with my bf for 2 months and he has never said i love you...i know he likes me a lot cause all his friends tell me how happy he is and how he always talks about me.. but i was wonderin...

We're both in the armed forces, but she wants to leave the Navy solely for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

25 September 2008 (M) - i started seeing this girl just before i was about to transfer to the army from the navy. i made it very clear that i was transferring and she was fine with that. After training i decided to leave the army so i could take our relationship to the ...

How do I deal with my overly needy boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a few weeks now, it was originaly not my plan to even have a relationship, but then he came along...but latley he has been really annoying. i dont get free time to my self he gets whiny when i spend time with my ...

How do I deal with a harassing ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating since July. The only issue in our relationship is his ex. They were childhood sweethearts and they broke up over a year ago because she cheated on him multiple times. Now he's with me, but the main issue w...