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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I caught my bf making out with a friend but my friends say he was being faithful. What should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and me to a party. Well I caught him making out with a friend. I was so mad slapped him. He keeps tellng me he didnt her let her kiss him. Everyone is telling me (including his best friend) he was being faithful to me. What should I do?...

Should I date him to prove to my Mum he isn't bad??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - hi. So, im a freshman and im fourteen and i like this senior whos seventeen and will be turning eighteen shortly. He likes me back and he wants to start hanging out with me outside of school. We talk alot and we text message non stop. but i brou...

I phoned his ex-wife and things blew up. I don't know what to do now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. He was married 15 years ago and got divorced not long after. He has always stayed friends with (lets call her kelly). Anyway i have disliked their contact and i do not see the point as they have ...

Should I forgive my ex for ruining my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - About a month ago, I started talking with my ex-girlfriend again. We drifted apart due to living in different cities and her dealings with her ex-husband and her children. Since our breakup, I started dating my current girlfriend. Unfortunately, ...

Do you think I am being unrealistic in thinking she will text me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - Hi I went out with my mates to the pub last night I did not drink as I was driving anyway to my problem we started talking to a group of girls my mates went outside for a smoke and left me to play pool with one of the girls the pub was closing ...

Planning an evening out for my birthday - would it do any harm to go to the bar "he" frequents? This will make it clearer that I like him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I need abit of advice with small problem. Well there's this bloke who i know and well we do flirt and he has told me where he goes for a drink well we don't get to spend much time together because he's working a lot well a friend of mine said well...

Hooked up with an ex after 5 years, I was left with the impression he still loved me and we agreed to contact but now he doesn't return my calls?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I went home for Labor Day weekend and saw my ex from high school (we dated for 2 1/2 yrs) we were pretty hot and serious then, but then we broke up when we both left for college. We stayed in touch for about 8 months but then I started dating ...

I have lost faith in love....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I'm afraid to fall in love. 2 reasons. One, my boyfriend of 3 years passed away last year. But I still can't get over him. I think of him everyday, even when I'm out with other guys. Another reason is that I have no more faith in love anymore. C...

Why be in this relationship if I just feel single? He never has time...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, i have been goin out with my boyfriend for 12months. I have known him very well since school so 9 years...Finally we got togther after months of him chasing me cause i had a bf for 4years. He promised he would treat me better than my ...

He's ignoring me after we made out and I feel horrible! Since he has a girlfriend, is this cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I did something terribly wrong last night. I went to a club with some friends and a guy last night. This guy and i have a past but i thought it was over since he now has an out-of-province girlfriend. That seems to be a problem tho because i got pr...

How do I mend my broken heart after he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 24yr old female and my boyfriend is 26 just recently cheated on me. Trust me the pain just wont go away and I've been going out every weekend to parties to get wasted, cause sitting at home just depresses me more. The other day called to say ...

Am I a glutton for punishment or just DUMB?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - i think i'm either glutton for punishment or clearly DUMB....i've known this guy since school...we are both 25...a year ago we found each other since graduating..and got back together..it was on and off..as he just ended his marriage and had a ...

Is it really love already?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - hey everyone. i feel like a bit of an idiot here!! anyway i met this amazing guy last week, i ended up staying in a camping site and there we met, he came into our tent and we had a great night having drinks. we ended up kissing and so on, but ...

Have I scared away my long distance boyfriend by going too fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing someone for about 2 months now. We have some histoy, we dated a few times in high School. I have been seperated from my husband for a little over a year and it is definately over for us, he is just draging his feet. We ...

Do you think he doesn't want to know?? Should I text again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - Hi all, Im 34 have 2 children and have been seperated from my husband for 3 months. i went out last weekend and met this guy there was instant physical attraction between us. We exchanged numbers and spent all evening together. he is 4 years young...

Do I have the right to feel hurt, used and angry or am I just being stupid??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - To summarise: (1) Met a guy through friends, 18 months ago. Fun, attractive, successful, gift of the gab but some issues as he'd been betrayed after long term relationship. (2) Fell head over heels in love with him and was pleased to hear ...

I have a crush on my best friend, but he told me that he likes a different girl. Do I tell him my true feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy last year, and we've been best friends since then. Tonight..he suddenly started a conversation about our crushes. He used to say I'm special and cute and all those flirty stuff, and I flirt back, but we both know we're joking. But the ...

If she trusts me then why is she all over my cell phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - We Need to grow up! Am I Right? my gf and i seem to have trust issues were exactly the same except i show how i feel and what im thinking and she keeps it all in. She tells me she trust me but then she signs into my cell phone account... (not tru...

Is he metro or is he gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I just recently started dating this guy hes very metro gets his eyebrows done which is fine! has to clean all the time he has ocd with cleaning the hous everyday.. he says hes a virgin and everygirl he dated broke up with him cuz he wouldnt have sex ...

Does he really want to marry me or is he just joking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend recently asked me to move in with him and said "Who knows, we might get married, I'm very spontaneous" We have been together about 10 months if not a little more. The thing is I don't know whether he was being serious or not. Be...

Is she legal or could I get in trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - hallo ! i need some advice. so, please help me out here. i am 22 and my girl friend is 17 years and 9 months. she will be 18 next 3 months. we have been going out for 3 years. do you think it is illegal or I could be in trouble for it. just for...

I think he doesn't like me any more now that I'm not so shy! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - ok. i REALLLLLY like this guy. he and his g.f broke up and me and him are pretty good friends. i dont really know where to start. he told ppl he likes me. and he told me. heres the problem. hes the touchy kinda guy and im too shy for that. b ut now...

How can I meet a girl at a t a club?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - i'm goin clubbing tomorrow night. All my friends always get girls etc. How can i also find a girl have some fun? Any tips. Any experiences you lot had? Good? bad?...

Should I take my relationship day by day until the end of the school year? And then break up with him? I just don't know if an LDR will work after we graduate.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now, and he has always displayed great loyalty, care and love for me. The feeling is mutual. We are from different graduating classes of the same college and he will be graduating a year ahead of me. ...

I'm 18 and have this thing for women much older than me, how would I go about dating one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - Hi i am 18 and have found I have a thing for older women in there 50s and 60s. They just appear so sexy to me and would love to date one, but dont have a clue how to go about getting an older woman that age. Thanks, Jack...