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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I was so fond of him and I'm losing a friend, albeit a lousy one! What would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I met a guy last year through work. He invited me out to dinner a few weeks after we met and I was going to stay at his house for the night as i live quite far away. We met at a cafe bar before going to the restaurant. When I arrived a girl was talk...

Middle-aged guys, help! I'm 18 and he's older, but I think he likes me back... What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - One of my best friends (I'll call him Ross) used to live in a place with a few other guys up until a couple of weeks ago, when he went away to university. One of them, I'll call him Mark, I've always had a bit of a crush on. Weird thing is, he's ...

Am I doomed to stay with this man -till death do us part- just so I can keep my kids together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. Can anyone help pls? about 5 months ago my husband suggested we try a 3sum to spice things up in our sex life, to make matters more complicated my husband said it should be with an ex of mine (well i say ex, i had an affa...

Is he just using me to get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

24 September 2008 (?) - hey for 3 nights running i've been with the lad i like. Huggin, holding hands and tonight we kissed , the problem is his friends just said to me that ''his love of his life goes with someone else'' whom he used to go with. Is he using me to get ov...

Is it bad to get my hopes up that this boy likes me, as my friends like to think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - All the time I'm talking with my friend about the smallest interactions i have with the boy that i like. They always joke around and stuff with me. Sometimes they say "oh he likes u" and stuff like that, and I just blow it off like 'yea right' and ...

I got them together... but my heart skips a beat whenever I see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so I go to school with this guy who is a year younger than me and has a crush on my best friend... well I think I may like him, but I don't know why. Everytime I think about him, I see him with my friend, and I'm the one who kinda got them ...

Please tell me how can I get over this and just be happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - i was going out with this guy 'ray and i really like him. after 3 days of being with him, he tells me he kissed his best friend the 1st day we were together, and the same day he dumped me, i've been told because he thought i was going to dump him. i...

My ex kissed me twice, though he has a long distance girlfriend. Do I continue hanging out with him and see what happens?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I have not seen my ex-boyfriend in nearly 6 years. During that six years, I have had two very serious relationships and he was engaged (and broke it off) and then living with a girlfriend (and then moved away from her.) He currently moved ...

Always a Best Man, never a Groom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - This is my situation. I have been outta the dating game for a very long time. My last serious relationship was 10 years ago. I've dated maybe twice since then. I have a full-time job and am always busy with that and family. I'm considered middle ...

How does he feel? My friends think that he blows hot and cold because he doesn't know what I want, as I tell him I don't want a relationship..but I DO!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - im really confused. ive been seeing this man from work for a while now. no-one at work knows about it as we decided ages ago we wanted to have a casual relatiohsip. But now im beginning to have feelings for me but im not sure how he feels. Some...

He comes from a rich family, I come from a poor one...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I come from very different backgrounds. He comes from the perfect family, they helped him buy his home, he is still on their insurance, he is supported in all he wants to do. I come from a very different background. I get no ...

I feel like being the "other man", what to do? Give her a reasonable time to leave her controlling boyfriend? (she said she would, but it has not happened yet)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I met this girl some months back. Initially we were friends and spent lot of time together. Then, she slowly disclosed her problems with her controlling long distance boyfriend. I helped her out as much as possible, and in the process we fell in ...

What to do about my unemployed Prince Charming? I honestly think guys that can take care of themselves and their woman are sexy! How can I encourage him to get a job??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now and it's been going pretty good so far...well, sort of. He's smart, funny, attentive, compassionate, caring, and great in bed. The only thing is he doesn't have a job! When I met him he ...

I like to flirt but when I do have feelings for a girl I'm not the same, I don't know what to say or do, any tips for me and for my first date with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - hello everybody, well i'll try to tell what is my problem really quick.well i'm really a very shy guy, and i like a lot to flirt with the opposite sex.So i don't have problems with it. But when i really do have feelings for a girl, i become "stu...

Pro's and con's of dating your ex's best friend? Any advice and stories from women who have dated an ex's best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Could do with some advice and stories here from women who have dated an ex's best friend. My ex and I had a very complicated relationship, it didn't work out, it ended on very bad terms. However through out the relationship and indeed before, I ...

I really love this girl, and I don't want to lose her. What are my best options right now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Hi there, I had been going out with my girlfriend for a year, and things were great, we never argued, we got on really well - as best friends, made each other laugh, and both really loved each other. Basically there were no problems whatsoe...

My girlfriend is violent and refuses to compromise. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend regularly and violently freaks out over ordinary problems. This morning she was angry because I stayed up late on the internet in our room after she went to sleep (having put in earplugs, as we live above a main road, and simply said ...

Should I back off? I'm not sure what to do with him, as I am so out of the loop on this dating lark!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hello, I am a 33 year old woman who has been dating a 40 year old man for 4 months now. We spend every weekend together and, two weeks ago, we went away for a holiday for a week. During the holiday, I told him that I was falling in love with him...

My jealously keeps ruining my relationships, but is it my problem or his? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hey Guys..Im in a bit of a dilemma…I have written to you guys before about my insecurity problems…I am very insecure about myself, and get very jealous in relationships. This is the reason that I split with my last boyfriend, becuase he couldn’t ...

Every night we don't talk, I'm worried she's talking with her ex! I'm not really sure what to do...

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24 September 2008 (M) - I met this girl back in high school, we dated for a couple of months, then we broke up. We talked off and on from then until now (4 years later), sometime during this off and on talking she moved away. She just recently ended a relationship, and ...

There are 3 guys in my life, but I don't know what to do! I'm so confused.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hey I’m jus a confused 14 year old that needs help ha!......well I’m stuck between 3 great guys one is my boyfriend (age 16), the other is my ex (age 18) and the other is the sweetest guy that I jus met about 2 weeks ago(age 17)! Ok the problem is I ...

Should I send this email to my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Here's the backstory. Before we started going out, we worked together and became good friends by being there for each other through tough times in our respective lives. Once she left the job, we started officially going out, and we were ...

My question is, how do I know if I like him or not? I would hate to be leading him on!

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24 September 2008 (F) - I'm 21 and up until a month ago had never dated. A friend set me up with this really great guy. He's very sweet and understanding but i'm not sure if I like him or not. There is a part of me that thinks I do, especially after I talk to him, but ...

He likes me but he's been hurt, while I'm ready for a serious relationship. Should I leave it alone or continue seeing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I really like this guy that I've been seeing for about 3 weeks now,and he's telling me that he doesn't really want a relationship. I like him so far and he feels the same,so should I just leave it alone or continue to hang with this guy even though ...

I forgot to take my birth control pill a few times, now I think I might be pregnant! I don't know how to tell him if I am. What will I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My guy friend has a son that is four that doesn't live with him. He only gets his son every other weekend. Me an this guy have been messing around for over four months now. He acts like he really cares about me and everything. But Sunday we had ...

I keep asking her about all these guys, now she thinks I don't trust her. Should I be worried, should I trust her? If so, how do I show her that I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend thinks that i dont trust her. There is this guy at her school that she used to like and she has just found out that he likes her. So now when she gets home and I call her the conversation usually starts off with "So did he say anything ...

This guy I like has a two kids with his girlfriend, but says he wants to get to know me better. Should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5692 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - i have feelings for a guy and he also has feelings for me.i been talking to him for about a month now and about two weeks ago he told me that he has a two year old little girl and a seven month baby and he also lives he with his babies mother.now he ...

How can I let a boy at school know I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - There's a boy at my school that I like, and when i see him hanging out with other girls, i start to feel jealousy. But it's not against him, because i know he doesn't know about how much i like him. The most i ever did was send him a rose last ...

How can I get a guy to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - How I can make guy ask me out?.. he likes me and i like him! but I'm really shy to talk to ask him out! we are gonna see tomorrow! I really need some helpppp! ...

She likes me, she likes me not. What the heck is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5696 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Hi I have liked this girl at school for just over a year now. She knows this as i have told her in person. At first she didnt feel the same way about me which i was totally fine about, but then she started to say things and do things that sugg...

Shes got a boyfriend. Would it be wrong to try to 'wait' for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Is waiting for a girl to become avaiable a bad thing. There is a good friend of mine who i really like but yes she has a boyfriend so typical. I have never met anyone as amazing as her she has every aspect i could ever want in a girl she is my ...

We broke up because he thinks I deserve better! How can I change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me. He thinks i deserve better... he is still in school, and i graduated last year and got a good job. He feels he is not good enough for me, and last night told me he is putting his feelings aside and doing the ...