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Dating: Help and advice

We got heavily drunk and now we can't remember anything from that night!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I was out recently, got heavily drunk and went home with a girl. I have never had sex before and the last thing I remember was sitting on her couch saying “I’m going to go to sleep”. I woke up the next morning on top of her friend’s bed (in her ...

How should I aproach my crush, who I haven't seen for months, without looking desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3281 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - this time last year i became envolved with someone we wernt official or anything but we were seeing each other for about 8 months i was in love with him but never told him as hes not the type of lad who will settle down. he moved abroad in may and i ...

We broke up a month ago and finding out he may be in a new relationship hurts me so much. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about one month. He basically dumped me because he said we were having problems. We were together for four years. Now I sometimes go on his myspace page ... I guess because I really miss hi...

Should I tell him I made a mistake for breaking up or should I just try to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - seven months ago i broke up with my bf coz he wasnt paying atention 2 me. since then i havent been able 2 date,am stil madly in luv wit him. i think abt him a lot n it is very painful coz i dont think he misses even though he calls me once in a ...

How should I flirt with him without looking desperate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I'm almost 17 and i never had a relationship before... Now i have a crush on guy that we are on the same class and we' re sitting sometimes together, but i don't know what to do, how to approach him. I'm afraid that i'm gonna make fool of myself. Do ...

What does it mean when someone kisses you on the head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - im gonna explain this in brief, it was a week since i have last seen him, today, we go out a bunch of us, as we are waiting for a friend, for different reasons, the guy i like(and i am starting to think likes me back) get out of the car, then he ...

How do I cope with my husband's reaction to my past?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I met my husband when I was 17. I told him I was a virgin but I wasn't. Below is the story. Its a bit long but you need to understand the circumstances. Please bear with it I really need some good advice. At just 16, I met a 23 year old guy ...

What's the best way to tell her I fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend split up a few days ago, and now i have a full on crush with one of my girl mates. ive know this girl mate for 2 years she use to date one of my friends but we are both single now, her n her partner split up the same day as me n ...

These girls that hate me for no reason have been filling his head with stuff! What's going on with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - In order to answer this question, you have to read this one: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-no-clue-what-hes-thinking-does.html Okay, today something else happened. A few weeks ago, I wrote a blog on my myspace and there are 4 gir...

What can I do about the feelings I have for my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - well see im not very good or big with emotions but i think i might like one of my jrotc teachers i dont know why but i do and it hurts when he's not teaching that day. please help....

What can I do to solve this love triangle problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - theres is this guy that likes me. but i like his best friend and his best friend and i won't work out because he cares about his friend.. but the guy who likes me won't ever give me up to his friend. what should i do? should i just forget him and ...

How can I aproach this guy and talk to him without sounding desperate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - okay.... please help im getting insane ! hahahaha okay, im 16 and i talk to guys .. but not really... people see me as shy when talking to guys... there's this guy tho... he's in my resistance training class and OMG, i like want him soo bad....

Is it normal to keep on wanting sex but when there's a chance to get it to not want it anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Is it normal wanting to have sex constantly .. but then when i see a lad and they try to come onto me i dont want it but even when i mess about with my friends .. (girls) i still dont want it ?? help x...

What can I do to stop worrying about my boyfriend's fidelity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok well I met this guy.. I fell in love.. Usual stuff really! Well he's been distant with me lately... And he is on holiday and not even texting me... Oh he is in the saem country so he can it is possible... And I know it is also possible that he is ...

What does the phrase "I did love you but I am in love with you" mean to a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I have heard men say " i do love you but im not in love with you" but what does it mean opposite of that " I did love you but I am in love with you" What does that phrase mean to a guy? ...

What are his reasons behind joining this website?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i had a child with a man who i not only loved but who i thought wanted to be with me and our daughter as a family. I have found out that after we split up he went on an adult websight and has ticked boxes in which he has said he is looking for ...

I've never had an orgasm, but I don't like masturbating... Is there any hope?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My problem is this - I've never had an orgasm. I've read a lot of tips that advise you to explore and touch yourself, but masturbation really doesn't appeal to me, and the times I've tried have only left me bored and somewhat frustrated. I...

Should I tell my sister what her husband did to me when I was younger? Or should I just tell him to stay away from my children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - When I was about 11 my sister's husband touched my breasts and asked me if I "want to have some fun and games". I knew instantly that this was wrong and said NO and moved away from him. He then said he was just joking and didnt mean anything by it. ...

Would I do right if I tell her husband about her cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I am Divorced and live alone, I met a married women in a local pub and asked her to call for a coffee one day when I wa off work, As she was married I was suprised one day when she turned up at my door. We chatted for a while and nothing happened ...

Am I wrong for feeling upset about him looking at porn?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if it's just me or not but i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months and i found out that he was looking at porn on the interent when we first starting dating and a few times after that, I know its normal but it gets me quite ...

Is this man leading me on or does he really want to meet me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I am 39 years old and have 3 children, im seperated but i have been chatting to a man in scotland for over 6 months now on the internet. We have spoken on the phone and seen each other on web cam, we talk for hours every night. He has 3 grown up ...

Am I wrong for wanting my own space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Right OK. Basically I want to know if I'm right. I feel that my girlfriend of nearly 2 years is expecting way too much from me. We only live across the street, and I'm a very private person who loves their own space. Tonight (but lots of othe...

Am I just a sex buddy for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Please help me understand what a fuck buddy is and to clarify if my "boyfriend" is actually a fuck buddy. I met him about three months ago and he's been so busy with his work and business. I see him twice a week and sometimes once. Becau...

Is there any point in waiting for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Okay, my ex broke up with me to get back with her ex because she said she was confused. She broke up with him recently, but now she tells me that she still cares a lot about me, but she just needs time to be by herself. Thing is, she still ...

He has been looking at porn since I got pregnant! How do I aproach him about this issue?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for just over a year. We dated for four years before deciding to get married. We seemed to be on the same page about all the big decisions, including having children young. I am now almost 6 months pregnant. I ...

What can I do about this boy who likes me? I just see him as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi aunts and uncles! i have a really bad 'crush' issue!!! its a total mega cringeeee. right i used to fancy this boy but i found out he had a girlfriend and i got over him that was a while ago and recently ive started to like this other lad. but...

Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...

I'm afraid that if I choose one of them, the other one will get hurt! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This boy says he realy likes me and i realy like him but this other says he likes me and i like him aswell i dont know what to do!!! if i go out with one boy its going to hurt the other boys feelings!!!! what shall i do??...

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

How can I get rid off the feelings I have for my first love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I dont suppose anyone could give me any productive advice on my situation but here I am trying anyway.... There was a boy who I went to school with who I had a crush on for the longest time I could remember. When we went to secondary school...

My boyfriend's friends don't like me! How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I need some advice on what to do about my boyfriends friends. When we first got together they kept saying things about me including his brother. I didn't let this get to me to much but one day it just really upset me and I cried in school. My ...

I'm pregnant and in despair! Is there help for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Well ive been dating this guy about a year. And about three months ago i found out i was pregnant. Things were going good. Well he suddenly wanted to start going out with his friends and then recently his ex fling has started having contact with ...

How do you get close to someone when they don't even know who you are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - helloooo well i kinda have this mini crush on this lad, i dont know him at all so its kinda lust at the mo but i suppose im curious about him, you know when you have the feeling you just want to be close to them or speak to them or somethin...

Can you help me choose between these two guys???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Just so you know i don't like to use names so the two people i'm talking about will be M and B. Well ok i have like this guy for a while named M when he calls my house my heart melts, when he sends me a message my heart beats out of my chest bu...

Wanting a Guy to Lust After Us

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Wanting Guys to Lust After Us It’s like an addictive fix, wanting a guy to lust after us. There is an adrenaline rush of pleasure when they lust after us; it makes us feel beautiful, like we are the only one on the planet. But there is a d...

Does he just want me to chase him? I'm getting crazy mixed signals...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Here is the deal.. recently going through seperation we have 2 wonderful kids. I am not used to meeting guys and the whole dating thing. I met this guy 10 months ago.. he came into my life and went out. I just really was unsure as to starting over ...

Does missing my ex mean I should break up with my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with my boyfriend, my first love, for almost 5 years. We were in the same elementary school and high school. In fact we were classmates the whole of high school. We started out as good friends. We have a lot of similar ...

Retroactive Jealousy: how do I overcome it?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 4134 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Right, so I am not even really sure how to start this. Basically, I suffer from what many other men (and few women) seem to suffer from as well. Retroactive Jealousy, or "her past"... Its horrible, its utterly disturbing and self destructive. I have ...

How can I tease my boyfriend?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i need your help on this one, how can i tease my bf, i am new at this...and at this, he always finds a way to tease me by pulling my hair or pinching me slightly, but i can never seem to do so myself, i mean i return a pinch,, but what more else can ...

Too much competition for her, do I stand a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - hey im great freinds with her but i know my other freind is trying to get her to like him aswell the thing is i have her number i gave it to him now hes texting her all the time and I'm not we just talk a little bit on the internet and I know i like ...

My girlfriend just wants to be friends now. How do I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - i had a girlfreind who just wants to be freinds now. i wana be more then that what should i do ...

I love him, he loves another. Now another boy likes me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - i am in school. i love a boy from the first day of school. after 6 or 7 months i came to know that he loves my best friend. i don't know that if she loves him or not. but i still love him. recently a boy proposed me. i too like that boy, but as a ...

He has so many pictures of him and this other girl - what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Hi all, So I've been dating my present boyfriend for almost one year, I'd say maybe just around a month off from it. I'm 19, hes 20. Anyways, I recently stumbled upon pictures of him and this other girl, its not any inappropriate picture, but its ...

Should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I'm 15.I asked out a guy in my year 6 weeks ago. he said he probly would go out with me, but he doesn't feel ready to go out with someone yet. I'm sorta stuck now. I still want to go out with him, but asking him out again would be weird. I see him...

Is there anyway to have a secret relationship? all I'm worried about is her dad finding out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for 4 months now and currently we have broken up cause of her parents. We love each other so much. Is there like anyway to have a secret relationship?All i'm worried about is her dad finding out....

We never manage to have a real conversation....is he interested??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I've known this guy since I was in sophomore year of high school, and when I say known I mean we knew each other as "friendly acquaintances". We went to different high schools and I was always, and still am, the quiet and unsure girl. I knew him ...

How do I conquer my fears before they conquer my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - This is so similar to the way i feel. Im extremley jealous of my boyfriends ex, not to mention im the jealous type period. They were together on and off since 5th grade (currently 21). They accomplished soo much together. They went to their prom...

My breasts have been hurting since we had sex, is that a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex three days ago, and he injected in me three times, today my breasts have been hurting a little but not much. Is that a sign of pregnancy? somebody please help me....

I am having a hard time letting go of a guy who used and abused me, I have a new boyfriend, but I keep thinking about the jerk, when will I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok, first of all thanks to anyone who responded to my last question about being a jilted person w/a crush. If you did not see it, you may want to read that first...but,from you all and my friends I learned that I was used, abused and walked all over ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to be intimate anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ok story goes like this.. I been with my boyfriend for about 15 months. At first he put me on a pedestal, he called me "His earth angel" sex was fun, loving was fun, and the care and respect i got from him was beautiful. However th...

What should I do if my family finds out that I still love the guy who broke my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - ive been dating this guy and he cheated on me, and my family knows and they hate him...but i still love him with all my heart no matter what anybody says. im not desparate or pathetic i just know who i really love. but my question is if my family ...

Should I consider his odd behavior as cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Is this considered cheating? Or am i overreacting? This guy I like/liked and have a past with still talks to me a lot even though he used me and lied to me while seeing other girls. Now he has a new girlfriend but she moved to another province...

I'm undesided on what kind of relationship I want with this guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - OK, so I don't know where I stand on this guy. He told me he liked me, we cuddled and got touchy at one point, but then this past weekend I pretty much gave him the idea that I wasn't really interested. Now I'm not so sure. He's like one of my guy ...

My best friend knows I love him but I'm confused about his feelings for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Well, I've been real confused lately, and i'm not sure what to do. . .usually I'm the one who gives the advice, but right now I'm at a loss. . . First off, I'm bi, I didn't know until just a few years ago, and I've only just recently accepte...

My ex want to have dinner with me but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - Ex once asked if I want to have dinner with him and his new girlfriend. I refused. yestoday I received his sms asking if i would like to have dinner with him for my birthday couple of days after and just him and I. I refuse him saying not want to ...

Does he really like me or is it just too much too soon and too good to be true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - I went to Spain recently on holiday and have met a man that I could really fall in love with. After having a string of negative possessive relatiosnhips and also having a very unaffectionate family background it was a breath of fresh air for me as I ...

He suddenly cut me off from his life! I thought we had something special and I'm deeply hurt!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - How do you deal when a friend w/benefits breaks-up with u via email and gives no reason. I'm in a world of hurt? Is it normal for me to feel depressed, suicidal, and devastated being dumped over email with no explanation? I dont date a lot. I...

Why do I want to stay with this guy even though he cheats?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - so ok i know this is bad i mean real bad but ive dated this guy for a long time....but after our anniversary i found out he was cheating on me, and i know theres the phrase once a cheater always a cheater but i still love him alot and me and him and ...

I have a bf but I'm in love with my ex bf! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

9 September 2008 (F) - [moderator's note: Next moderator, I believe this question was previously accepted but I couldn't find it anywhere. Probably you'll find it? If not just accept. Thanks] I am 16 and i am in love with an ex. When i was 14 I met him,he was 16 and r...

Should my girlfriend accept all my flaws or should I change for her to prove my love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4975 days ago

9 September 2008 (M) - Hey there aunts and uncles of Dear Cupid. I have a sort of problem from an argument i had yesterday with my girlfriend. She said that if i really loved her i should/would want to change some aspects of my behaviour to make her happy, but i argued ...