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Archived questions from: 18 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

If he likes me I want to make this relationship different....can you help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Here's the situation. I like this guy, and he's really..cool. He has blonde/orangish hair, and he's superrr cute. He's an athlete, he plays football and baseball for our school. I don't know if he likes me back. He 'annoys' me alot, (even thoug...

We've talked about meeting in person numorous times, yet we don't have a real plan after 2 months! How do I voice my concern in an appropriate way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - ive been talking frequently to a guy that i found on a popular dating site.we get along great and seem to just click very well with each other.im very interested in meeting him,and we both have agreed that we definetly need to meet.weve talked about ...

I feel I'm not good enough for him, and boring at times. I also don't think it's true that he understands I'm not ready for sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - i've only been with my boyfriend over 5months, but i've never felt as close to someone in my life. the thing is, i'm not exactly a typical type of teenager, i'm not into sex and all that stuff[as i'm still learning things about myself and i'm i...

How can I make her understand that I need her to stop calling all the time and need space...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I have this girlfriend, we were going on pretty fine for quiet sometime ever since she started being a bitch. She believe's that being in a relationship is calling each other 10 times a day.. , She doesnt give me my space.. I now feel like ...

Her parents think we are kissing too soon....are we??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I have not told my gf that I love her yet but I did tell her that I wanted to kiss her even though we kissed one time but she thought it was too soon. I told her I wanted to kiss her at homecoming and she said "Yeah i really wanted to kiss you too, ...

He flirts but my friend asked him out and he said no....does he like me or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I was online with my friend one night and a boy i have a crush on signed in. As usual we said hi and stuff, but then my friend asked, "so, who do you like?" and he said someone and we said "who" and he just merely said "someone" again. And then we ...

We were good until he travelled....now I think it isn't working out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

18 September 2008 (?) - I have a bf we are with each other for 8 months we were good and everything until he traveled he stopped asking about me and every time i send him a message he answer me back after 6 hours and maybe more, NEVER bothered to call me and when i call ...

I confronted him and found out he is married!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Ok Ive been in a relationship with my bf for 18 months and I love him so much, and he told me he loves me. Last night I went to give my friend a quick ring and realised I had no credit, so I went to use his (he was downstairs). I saw a message from...

Are there some ways I can make her think and feel that she is attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I have met a very attractive woman who is 5 years older than me. We hit it off and have done some fun activities together. We had some good time to talk about each other and our lives. Seeing how beautiful she is I have thought about what she migh...

He wants to throw it all away so that he can go and live back with his mum...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Okay, I'm not even really sure where to begin this. I guess more than anything I just need a place to vent and have a little feedback. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. I'm 21 and he's 27. We met online and lived 70 miles...

How long should you wait before you tell someone you love them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - hello, i just have a question really as you know i havestarted seeing a lad 1 year and 37 days younger than me. my question is how long in peoples opinion should you wait before you tell someone you love them? please give me some advice on ...

After 2 dates with her, I kissed someone else and we weren't even a couple at that time. She found out and broke up with me. Ladies, your thoughts?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Ok here is the deal.... I met a really great girl, took her out on a date, things went well, a week later took her out again things looked good, then the third week i went to another town where my parents stay went to a party had a blast and ended ...

I don't know if he sees me as a friend or more - when a prettier girls comes he is distracted... What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - I like this guy that works at my job...and I'm confused if he likes me or not....we laugh and joke around a lot....and I feel like I've tried everything to get noticed....I don't know if he just sees me as a friend or maybe more....but the problem ...

He broke up with me to be with her, leaving me in depression! Is it terrible of me to have told him I still love him, since he is taken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - Hi. (New to Dear Cupid). I apologize ahead of time for how long this may turn out. I guess it all depends on how much detail I use, or if I start summarizing halfway through... Well, the thing is, I am incredibly in love with a best friend, who also ...

How long should I wait for her to think about us having a future? Can a relationship work without the fireworks at the start?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for around 3 months now. We have had breaks with us both going on holidays. We went out last night following my return from my holiday and the date went well again. However towards the end of the date we begu...

My boyfriend has a quiet nature, won't discuss what is on his mind but I know something is not OK, maybe he wants out but can't find a way? Oh...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - My bf and i have been together for over two years now. He has always been a quiet chap and it's been a struggle at times to communicate. We actually live together and basically spend all our time together (apart from when we are at work). However, ...

She does not talk as warmly and friendly as before since I declared my feelings to her - is she playing hard to get or is she sick of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, I'm a 16 year old guy who until recently, Did not care about relationships, Until I met this one girl. Even when I first started talking to her, She was always so so sweet, She talked to me all the time, gave me all kinds of ...

She says she didn't feel a 'spark'... I'm lost, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - i work with this girl, we start going to break talking making out going well. so i ask her on a date she says yes then bails on me, she said she wasnt ready to date and i say no worries try to play it cool. so we finally go on a date to my place its ...

I don't understand why I've never had any luck with girls. any help would be much appreciated.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - I am a 17 year old, nice, charming, funny, not ugly guy who plays guitar and really tries to get a girlfriend, much less a date, but always fails. Why is this? I've tried to have a relationship with 6 different girls, but they all rejected me. ...

This girl is all over him, and he does nothing to stop it. Is he cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - ok so me and my bf have been together since last year. and honestly i KNOW (underline) that he is the love of my life. recently he has had 4 ppl tell him that they like him. no big right? right. well iv herd from some of my bestfriends tell me...

Should I ask her out? And how would I go about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

18 September 2008 (M) - Hi i am 16 and i am a sophomore in high school. I play sports and i am 6'1 and around 145 pounds with a skinny/athletic build. I don't have a lot of relationship experience and expierience with asking girls out, but i have some. Ok so enough of me ...

I've known this guy for years and really like him, but he's already rejected me once. Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5699 days ago

18 September 2008 (F) - well ive known and loved a guy for 7 years. we basically grew up together and ive been out with a few guys since but ive still always fancied him deep down inside. i always tried to cover up my feelings. Its only lately ive allowed myself to feel my ...