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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. When I'm not a big part of me is missing. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. It seems like every time I come out of a relationship for whatever reason, I feel like something's missing in my life. I have only been in three relationships, and only one of thos...

My ex is confusing me, is she with my friend just to bother me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - The problem i have is my gf left me practically 3 years ago, she has dated other guys, but i still feel that heavy look on my back when she is around, the one where you feel someone is watching you. This isnt just lately, but even when she was in h...

I feel that now it's too late to do anything about her, or is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - Hey there, I've really liked one of my close friends for a while now. I asked her out but her reply was she didn't want to ruin our friendship. This didn't make me go off her one bit. she is unaware of me still likeing her Recently anoth...

I'm stuck! I'm in love with two guys and I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has ...

I'm sure she's playing games with me. Does this mean she is interested? How do you play mind games with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - How do you play along to mind games with a woman? I've browsed this site and have seen that women like playing games and now I want to do the same on this girl who I'm pretty sure is playing games on me. I really like her, and sometimes s...

What are some examples of playful banter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - what is some examples of playful banter? i ask this because this girl that i like alot says the playful banter is a huge turn on. i dont want to ask her what it means because then i would sound like an idiot. please help me...

I am worried how my being overweight will affect my relationships in the future. What can I do to increase my chances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5242 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lov...

Reluctant to be intimate with him because he had sex with another girl during our break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a situation and would really appreciate some advice. Ok well me and my bf broke up 5 months ago. 2 or 3 weeks ago we got back together. But in the time we were broken up, he had sex with another girl. I was totally upset wh...

I am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away-Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - hi everyone i am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away. i haven't yet confessed my feeling too her because i believe nothing will ever happen in the future. i went out with her in my earlier years but seeing her agai...

I used to really love him and feel attracted to him, but now I feel that all I want to concentrate on is to study and get good grades -Why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months now. I’ve always had minor doubts about the relationship, thinking in general that it could only last till I go off to university, and I’ve heard much advice that long distance doesn’t work. Plus my ...

Are all Turkish men this jealous? He said he's the only guy I should look at. Should I talk to him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for around 2 months now with a turkish guy 4 years older. I really like him, but when we talk on the phone and he knows i have been out, he asks if i went out with boys. and when he says love you at the ...

Is my ex jealous that I'm interested in someone else or does he genuinly want us back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - ok im not too sure how to put this question but i will have a go. about 5 months ago me and my ex split up but we`re still really close. ive recently been showing intrest in another guy and me any my ex hasnt been as close, all of a sudden my ex to...

I am afraid I will marry this guy and divorce to be with a woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - so, i am in a relationship with a man. and i always knew i was attracted to girls, but the more serious our relationship gets the more i really feel the lesbian inside of me coming out....Im afraid i am going to marry this guy just to divorce him ...

How important is beauty/cuteness? What do you think about love at first sight? The girl I like fancies another boy because of his appearance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - What do you think about love at first sight? Is it just like to be in love with somebody we think it's pretty, just because of the appearance? I'd like to believe so... I like a girl who likes another boy, just because she thinks he's cute... I ...

How do you find a decent man? One who doesn't just want you for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - How do you find a decent man? who doesnt just want you for sex? How do you know when they are telling the truth and not just trying to get into your knickers? coz I dont have a clue, and neither does anyone else I know. Please help, Im starting to f...

I'm bothered about all these pictures he has of another woman and some ex's, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This gonna be as concise as possible. I found six pictures of a woman in provocative dress (lingerie, bedsheet) in different poses in my boyfriend's email address. I confronted him about it and he got mad and said that he only asked for those be...

I keep thinking that I'm missing something in my current relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I was wondering if someone can help me. I cannot seem to keep thinking about my ex girlfriend. I have been dating another girl, and though I do not believe in cheating - I feel like I am, because I keep thinking about my ex girlfriend? I keep thi...

She just wants to be alone for the week to see if she misses me enough to get back with me. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - we started dating 11/06. we moved in 6/07 and she broke off 06/08 on my birthday. she told me she did not feel loved. she lived with me until july 19. i went away for a week. upon my return, i made an effort to show her my love. she accepted my chan...

What is all this? I have a boyfriend already? Why do I have these feeling for my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i am 22 years old and i have a cousin (my mothers sister's son), he's 2 years younger to me. We have always been friendly n never really acted like brother-sister, but this time when i met him i began to have feelings for him that are not so ...

I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online, any tips please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I'm hoping to go on a first date soon with someone I met online and i'm a bit rusty. We haven't actually seen each other face to face yet and i'm worried about there being a dreaded silence period, as i'm fairly shy and I think she is as well. ...

Are all 21 year old guys this careless about there finances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is very and I mean very bad at keeping his finances in order. He's 21 years old and he has collection agencys calling him every day. he gets numerous letters in an atemt to collect debt, and his checking account is like ...

He won't open up to me - he is very secretive - is he cheating on me or has he got something to hide?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is sending me really bad mixed signals! From the outset, he's always been on the secretive side and never really willing to tell me anything too personal about himself. I've always attributed this to a) cultural differences (he's ...

Does this request for lunch mean anything from a guy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I emailed a guy i liked to buy him lunch which he turn down coz he said he could not make it and suggested another day instead. I did not ask him again pursue since then. However, after a week or 2, he suddenly ask me about the lunch and insist that ...

We'll be meeting this coming Saturday, after texting each other. How do I make him want me the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, there's a guy i want to be with. we met through the phone mistakenly, when he mistyped a digit and dilled my number instead. we got talking, then we realised we visit the same club every saturday. we arranged to meet but it failed last ...

It seems like he might like me, but inexperienced as I am, I'm not sure. What do you say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hey. Alright, so I really like this guy in my grade, and I want to know if he likes me back. We're pretty good friends; we talk and joke around all the time. Recently he's started walking me to some of my classes, and whenever we're talking he looks ...

I'm getting restless with my girlfriend of over a year. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - ok, i dont know if im in love! ive been wit the same girl for 1 yr and 1 month and been faithful but ive been thinking about cheating on her! some days i wanna be with her and some days i wanna be single and be out meeting new girls! we fight alot ...

This guy tries too hard to impress me. How do I tell him to chill out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

16 September 2008 (?) - I recently started dating this guy. Hes great and sweet but the problem is he seems to be trying too hard impress me. I think part of the problem is I have very strict standards for him I really like him but I wish just he relex a bit. Hes acting ...

He said he would enjoy meeting me, is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i am intrested in a guy i saw at a resturant he was performing ,after the performance when we were leaving he was staring at me but i could not tell if the look was look of intrest or something else, ihave sent him 2 e-mails commenting on his ...

I want to be able to trust this guy more than anything...trust that he wont hurt me...but don't know how to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Every relationship i've had i've ruined. As soon as a relationship starts getting serious or i start feeling to much i either end it or i act like a jerk and wait for the guy to end. I did this a few monthes ago with this guy i really liked and poss...

Will this new long distance relationship last?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This guy i know has just started going out with his new girlfriend for about a month. AT the beginning of September, she moved away for school and Im not sure when she's coming back. He, however, lives in rez with some friends and has already chea...

Should I even risk it since he is, in a way, one of my teachers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm interested in the TA (teaching assistant) for one of my classes. We have a lecture session and then the discussion session for some of my classes. The TA directs and teaches the discussion session. He seems like the type of guy that I'd want...

I know this sounds ridiculous but I want to spend the rest of my life with her after high school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I want to tell her I love her, I know ways to tell her, but i want it to be the right time and if I should kiss her again. Of course I will ask because that is me, but I don't want her to say yes even if she is not ready. I know this sounds ridi...

I don't want her to go with him, because I just know he's going hurt her and cheat like he did with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok I'll start from the begining. Ummm.I meet this girl this school year call her Tay. Tay started going with..."Jay". Tay and Jay were such a pretty couple and so affectionet. They were together maybe for about 2 weeks. And about 3 times a week ...