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Archived questions from: 15 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My friend told me it's best to lose my virginity myself and not let my boyfriend do it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - If been with my boyfriend for more that one year and i want to have sex with him (im a virgin)...so I told a friend about it and she told me that it was better that i would lose it with myself so he will not see the blood, and i wouldnt feel the ...

I can't tell if she is interested in me or just being friendly.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - OK, there is this girl at work who always makes it a point to say hi to me. She talks to me unlike she talks to her other friends, calm and peaceful. I catch her quite alot starring at me from her desk and when I catch her she looks away. I fina...

Did I miss a small window of opportunity with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hello to all! A young lady(29) applied for a job at a small school I run a few days ago. The job is about 5 hours but during the interview there seemed to be an instant attraction between us. She asked me if I was married and when I said ...

Is it his behavior or am I noticing things that aren't really there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I recently auditioned for a show and got in and I went to a rehearsal and we had to go round the room and meet people we haven't spoken to before and find out what part they were in the show and a bit about themselves... a get to know you sess...

Flirted with a boy while on holiday, I have the chance to see him again, this is confusing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I'm quite confused at the moment. I went on holiday recently with some other families and met this boy while I was there he is abit older than me but i really felt something was there. Nothing actually happened but there was abit of flirting and ...

Am I reading into things and seeing what I want to see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I need help figuring out if I have a shot with this girl. Here goes. I'm in First Year of uni and have a crush on a girl in my class. We've never actually had a proper conversation (mainly cos she makes me too nervous) but last week we encounte...

He complimented me on my appearance, is he playing mind games and how can I react? Ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 and I've had a huge crush on this guy who went to my school, only thing is he's 19. He left a year ago, went on a gap year, we started messaging again the past few months...he must have found out I liked him. you might recognize this ...

Should I take things slow or get out now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I need help. I've been seeing this man for 5 mths now and everything is great when we are together. He says he doesnt want a girlfriend, but it seems as if i am. He wants to take things slow and not get too serious. He calls us friends lovers and ...

The guy of my dreams dumped me because he said I was jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - hi, about six or eight months ago i went out with honestly the guy of my dreams but like he dumped me about two months after that because he said i was jealous and OK maybe i was but he kept on flirting with this girl he asked out before me she was ...

Should I get my dolls out of the dumpster and break my promise or leave them?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I am a serious packrat and can never get rid of anything. At my old apartment I had the spare bedroom full of Cabbage Patch Dolls and stuffed animals that I had accumulated. When I moved in with my boyfriend I agreed to downsize once we had settled ...

20 yr friendship caught in the crossfire: can I trust to be around the person who played me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - So here's how it went down for me (skip to the last two paragraphs if you want, they said i had to repost vs re-wording the original). I've had a friend for over the last twenty years. Were both 24 and still living at home (he's my neighbor). ...

I can't put my life on hold any longer! I need some advice...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I posted the following question last week, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shall-i-go-round-with-some-flowers-and.html I really need some more advice please. I made my gf a college (photomontage) of us both together i spent all week making...

Why doesn't she care where her husband is?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I am dating a man who has filed for divorce and is just waiting for his court date.He showed me the papers etc.. as I wanted to be sure before our relationship progressed. problem is they have to share their house until it sells so they can both ...

How do I find closure from a relationship that ended a decade ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hi, It's been almost 10 years since my highschool sweetheart and I have broken up. I was 19 at the time and was deeply inlove with her. Perhaps I was inlove with her because of her looks, perhaps because I liked to have her around or whatev...

Has he lost interest because of the weight I gained during pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - weve been leaving in a same house with my boyfriend since we get started our relationship it take 1year and 8months and i get pregnant. after i gave birth of our son that was two months ago i gain weight 140lbs before im just 110lbs only! where not ...

Should I wait for him to contact me or should I pursue him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Hi there - I recently met a very cute guy who's new in town through an ad I put to rent out my appartment. He didn't end up renting my appartment but he did send me an email a few weeks later saying that he'd like to take me for a drink when back ...

How do I find a new boyfriend after I broke up with my last one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I met my last boy friend by complete chance. I met him while I was working at video ezy, only because he worked there to. Just a little about myself before I continue. At the end of last year I came out to all my close friends that I was gay, they ...

How do I make the transition between friend to boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I've got lots of female friends, who, when we go out, say I'm funny and chatty and great to be around; some of which (although I know I can only have one!) I'd like to date. (Some of them may even know I like them as more than a friend). This is a ...

What does it mean when you are dating but you are not boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for four months and we arent seeing anyone else but he doesnt want the title boyfriend. What does that mean. I dont undererstand the difference. Does "boyfriend" change things?...

He keeps blowing hot and cold, is he playing games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - i have been seein this man for a few months now i think and basically to start with it was just casual fun.. im begining to develop feelings for him now. and not sure how he feels about me. He keeps blowing hot and cold with me once minute he...

I love a girl that's in love with my brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I'm in love with a girl who in love with my brother. He seems don't really care about her feeling. I'm not sure about his feeling but I think I truly love her. I don't know what stage of love I'm into right but deep down in my heart I think I love ...

We were best friends who tried to have a relationship. It didn't work, our friendship suffered and I'm confused whether we should try again as lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - it's this guy that I kinda used to be bestfriends with.me and him used to sit on the phone all morning.Like 12 00 until 6 00 in the morning!we used to talk about everything.he used to leave me voicemails saying that he loved me.a lot.we were so ...

To guys who were accepted by their partners after more than one rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - Hi there, I would like to know if there are any guys out there who have experienced more than one rejection by the same lady, and yet be accepted in the end? (In terms of confession) If that is so, how did you manage to muster the courage to ...

Single and losing hope. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - I have been single for about the past 2 years and I hate every second of it. I have been rejected by at least 50 women and I am at my breaking point. I don't want to approach anyone anymore because I know that I will just be rejected. I can't ...

We never have anything to talk about, and I get really sick of him sometimes. Is there something wrong with us being together?

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15 September 2008 (F) - So rite n0w im in a relationship with "M". M and I have been liking each other since last October and we have finally gotten together. But 0n somedaYs I can't stand him and 0n others I get mad when he calls me so I ignore his calls. And when we taLk ...

Why wouldn't her friends let us kiss?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - went out clubbing with friends. And me and my friend started dancing. Than we started hugging and really enjoyin and i knew a kiss was coming but her friends kept pulling her away. She came back herself but they pulled her again and pushed her to ...

How can you tell when a girl wants to be hit on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 September 2008 (M) - How do you tell when a woman wants to be hit on and when she wants to be left alone? I was trying to strike up a conversation with a girl at the store and after a couple minutes she said "Can't you see I'm busy!" I like hitting on girls but I don'...

Does he just want me for some booty or does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

15 September 2008 (F) - Sooo, me and this guy I've met twice hooked up last weekend. The first time we met we also hooked up (we were also drunk each time). Although we ended up sleeping with each other, we only messed around and didn't actually have sex. Then last nigh...