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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I think he's too shy to ask me out, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Im 16 and there's this guy who i met like 3 months ago and since then we have been flirting/texting/msning/talking a lot like a couple of days a week and i know he likes me - its obvious and he knows i like him but i feel he's too shy to ask me out ...

I can't afford to move out of my parents' house (which is terrible) for now, I'm worried she will dislike this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure but i'm thinking me and this girl are getting along, but i feel worried because my parents house is terrible. They really don't care about the state of the place and it is trully awful! obviously i love them but i don't know what this ...

My boyfriend thinks I'm a sex addict because I want him to go down on me?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - hi there i have a peculiar problem..my boyfriend doesnt want to go down on me..he makes me do it to him... he says hes never done it to another girl..though hes had sex a lot...i cant understand..he thinks im a sex addict..theres nothing wrong wi...

Does he like me or was he just bored and drunk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Well basically, i had amazing sex with my best guy friend. We always talk, and before this, he would text me near enough everyday, although this had only been going on for about a month beforehand. He knew I liked him, I told him monthssss back, ...

Should I trust my ex even though she makes rash decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship for 4 years (4 years ago). My ex took me to court (a promise she made not to do at the beginning of the relationship b/c it happened to me before). I totally trusted that she would never do it. She did. We've been back ...

Am I normal not to fancy anyone at my age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am 34. Going to be 35 this year. Shhh! I don't fancy anyone either. I have been single for 3 years. My past relationships have been with men who just use me. One for money, hid me away and the other as a ground sheet as my mother put it. I don't ...

I'm dating my twin's best friend! Should I keep it a secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old and I have a problem. I am secretly dating my twin brother's best friend. I know that my brother knew, it would be very awkward. I love my brother and I don't want to do anything that would make him angry, but my boyfriend is ...

I'm a needy, clingy guy! How do I change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - OK, so I'm a needy clingy guy, like all of the girls the guys always talk about being sick of. When I'm with someone, I think about her non-stop, cant wait to call/txt msg/email. I've been seeing this girl for 2 months now, and I think it's starting ...

It's like I'm having some weird, platonic affair with the guy I work with but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am in love with a guy I work with and it is driving me mad! We have been really good friends for a long time now and spend most lunchtimes together. A few months ago after a work night out he kissed me and said he liked me, since then i have ...

Do our ages really matter if we are teens?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - Does age really matter?? Me and this girl have started talking and we are meeting up soon just to go cinema and that, we are kind of seing each other at the mo but nothing serious, she's 14 and im 17. I dont want anyone to think that im with he...

I feel like I'm in an unequal relationship due to her past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - This is very common, I know! I started seeing my girlfriend almost 4 months ago, and right from the start we were very open about our sexuality and sexual past. I told her I had only had sex with one girl previously (my girlfriend of 6 years) and ...

How do I make him give me the commitment I'm looking for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now. In the time that I have known him he has lived with his dad and he is far too old to be doing that. I lived with him there for a while and have my own place now, but how do I convince him he needs to ...

Am I reading too much into this and do I need to move on?

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4 September 2008 (M) - I have feelings for a girl a work. We kind of flirt about (nothing really suggestive just jokey) to the extent that a number of people have made suggestions over the last few years including at one point one of her friends saying didn’t I realise ...

Why is he with this girl when he flirts with and misses me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am confused on what to do, please help! My ex and I broke up 2 years ago, after a very long friendship before the relationship and him wanting me a long time before we went out, I broke it off as he became too clingly and wanted me to be with hi...

The obvious thing would be to let this go but how do I act in the next few months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - He and I have known each other since we were 13. When we were freshmen in high school, we would go through periods of being together and being apart--it wasn't anything serious. Last year, I contacted him for the first time in over a year. We hit it ...

Complicated love triangle and I need urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am 19 and I've been in a long-distance relationship for 4 years. I live in the United States and he lives in Europe so we only get to see each other once a year, during the summer for 3 months. Everything has been going great though, we talk ...

He acts weird since the death of his grandfather. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Help! My boyfriend's Grandfather died a few months ago, and he was really upset, so he seemed to ignore me a bit... But he then started to talk to me again... Now he very rarely talks to me and he acts really weird if he is with his friends and I'm ...

He is not sure he wants to be involved with someone who has kids. Should I move forward with this anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I am 36 and met a man who is 49. We are both going through divorces and found comfort in each other. We have a lot in common and it is very easy to talk to him. I have told him things that I never told my husband in 18 years of marriage. He is ...

I met a girl at camp and we hit it off! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - I met a girl at a camp i went to and we really hit it off, she told me i was perfect, but when we left she said she didnt want to start a relationship because she was scared, and didnt want to get hurt. Her friends told me when we left the girl ...

Am I blowing his friendship with this girl all out of proportion?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I need some advice on how to deal with my boyfriend seeing his ex-girlfriend on a regular basis. Some background information.. Me and the boyfriend have been going out for a year. He dated this girl right before me, the girl broke up with hi...

I'm not calling this guy again but why did he give me his number? He never responded!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Ok, now what happens when the case is this: I had a terrible fall out with my boyfriend and I went out to think things over and in fact I was thinking I should leave him, because he did something I felt was really wrong.Our relationship was not ...

Am I bored of my boyfriend because I felt 'sparks' with another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we live together and I love him to bits. However, we recently went to a festival and camped with some friends and their friends. One of these guys was very funny and quite good looking, and I felt ...

Beard or Sheared?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - I am trying to get close to girl at the moment and am hoping to make a move over the few times we go out but i am wondering if i should shave. I have about 10 days worth of growth and like to keep it that way because i think i look far too young ...

Should I just 'go for it' so she'll know I'm interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - Hey there, I am really liking a girl at the moment- to the point where i can't stop thinking about her and am having trouble sleeping but i can't tell how she feels about me. I am very unexperienced in these situations so am feeling pretty lost. I'...

This stunning girl I met at a club is only 17! Is this okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - I met a girl in a club few weeks ago and we hit it off really well im 25 and was surprised when this stunner started talking to me. We had a lot in common and she told me she was 19 and at uni! We exchanged numbers and then since then we ha...

I need help coming up with some romantic ideas!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering if any one knew or could think of any romantic ideas for me and my partner. My partner has been away for two weeks and would like to do something romantic on his return. Thanking you in advance x...

What do you do if your partner is hiding porn and lying about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now we have lived together for nearly 2 yrs, hes never been into porn so i thought hes never mentioned it or anything although weve watched it a few times. im okay with him watching porn but not when hes ...

Will he change as he gets older and seek a younger chic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Hi guys I am a lady of 35 and dating a 23 yr old MAN. my friends have a serious problem with this and keep on telling me that he is just going on a ride with me. What they do not know is the fact that I am HAPPY. I was married to a 37 year old ma...

Don't want to give up on my current partner and then regret it but then again I want to give the other person a chance!...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I don't know if I am with the right guy. Before I met my current partner I was set up on a blind date with Mr. D and we really hit it off although he was just out of a relationship and not looking for anything serious, which was fine with me. We ...

Are we too fussy sometimes when it comes to meeting a long term partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Having read some of the posts on here, I am curious about something. IF you are happily single and open to meeting someone for a long term relationship at some point, Do you have a check list of things you look for in a guy/girl? Have you got a ty...

I'm beginning to think I'm not his dream girl because he doesn't say I love you.

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4 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year. We get along great, have a natural sexual chemistry, have similar life goals, and are great friends to each other;pretty much our relationship is perfect except for one big thing: love. I haven't ...

Dating both of us in parallel? Why would someone do somthing like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I have been seeing someone for about 4 months and recently found out that he has been double dating - seeing me part of the week and the other lady the other part. He has shared the same restaurants, jokes, smooth talking lines and everything. He ...

After his brother died, his parents have been extra protective of him and it's affecting our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I have a gorgeous boyfriend of 7 months. We are both 19 and for the past 6 months i have been spending most nights living with him and his parents. We came to realise we both needed some nights apart to catch up with friends, do our ...

When two guys are having sex, who exactly takes the role of the man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - Picture this, one guy is getting penetrated helplessly and the other is DOING the penetration. Theyre both enjoying it, which guy is more masculine or "manly" and why? Now the guy who is being penetrated cums because he got penetrated for.....

We are a happy couple but his adult daughter are trying to break us apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Help! My bf and I are both divorced with grown children and I have one (14) at home. He lives in another town and we have made our 3 hour distance relationship work fine for 9 months. The trouble is that his adult daughters are jealous of me and are ...

I have disapointed people too many times. What can I do to ammend all of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old and for the first time in my life I have hit rock bottom. I use to be a caring, and honest person but for the last year I don't even know who I am. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months. We h...

Should I be worried that my two best friends are dating each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (?) - Hi....My best female friend is dating my best male friend...is there anything i should worrie about? She thinks im mad and He wont talk to me. thanks...

Do you think he will start wanting me if I suddenly disappear from his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Theres this guy .we have sex every now and then but i really fancy him. I feel an connection. Im a confident sexy woman who knows her self. He knows shes all these things but he doesnt want 2 show it.if i walked away do u think he would realiyze ...

She dumped me because I lied about my virginity! What do I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - ok i told my good friend that i wasnt a virgin and told her to not to tell anyone... then i started dating this girl i really like and care for... and one day she asked if i was a virgin and i told her yes and she said ok.. then today my good ...

After I got pregnant, he left me and got someone new!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - i found out a month ago i was pregnant. i had this bf and we were close as in we went everywhere together, we were inseparable we were dating for a year. when we found out we got in a huge fight which we stopped talking for a few days we both had ...

Is it good for the relationship if they hang out every day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - should a boyfriend and a girlfriend hang out everyday is it good for there replashionship????...

Tips to help you maintain your new boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - if you get a new boyfriend or already have one dont be to clingy. act cold sometimes. do what you want and not care if they tell you you cant do that. it only makes you harder to get and thats what makes them want you even more. if a guy says thi...

I failed again in a relaionship and I feel like one because of that...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I hate myself so much most of the time. I am not happy with myself. I feel like a failaure 'cause for the second time that I try a relationship it is not working. I've been crying a lot lately... I don't know what to do... I am depress 'cause my ...

Are there any more ways I could pleasure my boyfriend even more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have very experimental sex and when we have a few drinks we do alot of things that we wouldn't normally mention but that we are really happy about because we discover new ways to pleasure each other. For those who say the male ...

Would it be wise if I go back to my ex when there's a new guy who can bring me happiness?

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4 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so here's the deal: Awhile back (about 7 months ago), I found out that my boyfriend of 4 months had cheated on me (had another girlfriend where he lives, it was long-distance). We had been really good friends before that. For about two months w...

Why did he change his attitude after visiting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I was in a situation with a boy I had just met.I didn't know much about him and he didn't know much about me.But we did talk on the phone and I was thinking like maybe he did care if he came over to see me. We were inside of my home and we were rel...

Please help me choose my wedding dress!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I've posted problems here before and tonight I'm going to keep it lighthearted and happy! I'm having a real hard time picking out a wedding dress. Me and my fiance havent set a date yet but me being typical female means i'm already looking ...

What should I do so she chooses me?! It's either me or the other guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - I have a problem iv been with a girl for 2 months..now she says she need space I asked why...her bestfriend told her that he loves her after he heard about us...he told her I waited for u 3 years...she says she feels bad about this that he waited so ...

He has been so distant after I told him I loved him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I met a guy online. We started as good friends. Then progressed to more than that. He's a very dedicated father so time was an issue but I was ok with that. We texted and talked online alot. In the past 5 months the relationship has gotten m...

Could a sperm survive outside my penis even after I wipe it away?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

4 September 2008 (M) - I have a problem and i need some answers..My girlfriend and I were messing around and she gave me a handjob and when i came, we whipped it away with a paper towel and started to have sex..I am just wondering if sperm can live after it is whipped ...

Is a four year age gap acceptable in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - Is 17 and 21 an ok age difference? My cuson is nearly 17 and she likes a guy whos 21, is 4 years an ok age differnce? we live in the UK so its legal...

What do I do to get over my first love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - I need help, I started dating a guy that was a childhood friend, and stuff started happening to fast and we fell for each other, but things got bad when we started putting our hands on each other and saying mean and hateful things to each other, and ...

Do guys care how a vagina looks like?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - okay so ive just been watchin this documentry called the perfect vagina and baslicly its a woman makin a documenntry goin round and explorin vaginas lol, shes been askin men if the way a vagina looks puts them off sex and the amount that have said ...

Does he like me or does he view me as just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

4 September 2008 (F) - There is this guy, He's 25 (I'm 17 will be 18 in six months) I feel he likes me, he has been flirting with me for almost a year, and he is still single, so I feel he is waiting for me to become legal,but I'm not really sure,he said and I quote "You ...