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Archived questions from: 19 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I refused to take him back! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - i gave up on the one thing i loved in my life, my bf!!. i loved him loads but he messed me around to much tht when we split up and he asked for me bk i said no!. even tho the whole of my heart was tellin me to take him back, i no tht i love him, but ...

They all think I am gay! Why they are saying this about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I just started hs, and i think theres been a rumor abt me being gay. Well it all started in May when we had a pizza party 2 get 2 know all the freshmons. I met this girl, there and we were just talking and then just randomly her boyfriend comes up ...

Why did he flirt with me and then tell me he likes one of my mates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

19 September 2008 (?) - Hey ! so i propa like this lad and have done since the third week of summer. but lately weve been getting on really well , flirting the lot. but my best mate asked him if hed ever go with me , and he said he wud of in summer but didnt know me well ...

He let a strange woman give him a blow job..and he may have gotten an STD! How do we move forward as I don't trust him?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of a year and a half started acting strangely and told me his hernia was acting up. The following weekend, we were partying and he broke down and said he had let some strange woman give him a blow job in his truck after a night ...

I didn't follow up after she smiled at me at a function. Do you think I upset her by not doing anything about this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - I met this girl at an event in Manchester about 12 weeks ago who i realy liked and I think she liked me too as i noticed her looking at me a lot even when i was not looking i could sense her looking at me and she smiled at me as well. i did not ...

We are trying to work things out but I found out he's contacting other women! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I just found out that the man that I've been trying to work things out with had been reaching out to other women, and most importantly the day before he left Iraq to come home to me, as I thought. He's now in treatment to deal with so many things ...

In love and we gave our virginity to each other. So why does her past bother me? All she did was kiss a guy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity...

I just want to know if he actually loved me, or was he playing me?

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19 September 2008 (F) - Did he really love me,? This lad fancied me for a while, well about 3 months b4 i decided to get with him, then like about 1 month in the relationship, i found out he was going to dump me to get back with one of his ex-gf's. i was sad but then he ...

Did any of you girls find your prince charming after jerks like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy that I lost my virginity to for a couple of months. He told me that he was studying to be a lawyer and therefore too busy to have a serious relationship, but i foolishly kept sleeping with him hoping that he will change his ...

I feel so rejected and I don't know why, he's nothing special - not like my current boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - hi all, my boyf at the moment is lovely, kind, generous, patient, trusting, loving, and good in bed, lets just say he's almost everything i look for in a man, and he also adores me. thing is, when we first met i was in a casual relationship...

Is this normal behavour for a straight man in a woman's company?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - i was out with my boyfriend last week having a few drinks when a gay man sat down and started chatting to him. he then preceeded to rub his hands over my boyfriends face and through his hair and admired his voice. the gay was asked to stop, but my b...

Sometimes I feel my house is invaded, it's a really small place, so all I have is my room!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

19 September 2008 (?) - I have a very strong dislike for my sister's boyfriend, and I don't know what to do! They've been together for almost 4 months, of which he was away for two months working in another city. My parents dislike him also, but they're good at hiding i...

He always give me a hug and I love that. Do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi I'm in yr 9 and there is this boy in yr 10. He's really cute and i like him alot. Everytime he sees me he always give me a hug. I love that. Also hes getting to know my friends by hugging them too. And there is this girl who wants us to go out ...

....So what should I do? Should I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I love him a lot. He is a great mate, I cant ruin that But I love him lots, I am happy because he might like me too, I am sad because I am confused and I cant have him which is all I want. I am confused? I am angry because I am sad. He gives me butte...

I have some trust issues, and I don't know if this is destroying my relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hello, thanks in advance for reading my letter and I apologize because the english is not my first language. First of all I am in a relationship with this wonderfull guy for like 7 months. In many ways we are alike, but in other ways we are extr...

How do I approach things without making it awkward between us - or coming out of it like the office bike!! Argh! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I am very close to a colleague; we have a similar sense of humour, and make each other laugh all the time, we've kissed twice - very passionate, very intense, but gone no further. Since then, he's not mentioned it, or acted in any way like he's int...

I'm really worried about my girlfriend, she's just had an abortion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend had an abortion ten days ago. When she went to the clinic she kissed me and said it wasn't going to be a big deal, but ever since then she seems really depressed. I text her and she doesn't reply. I went to her house and she says she's ...

With no hesitation, she just said no, does this mean she has ANY feeling for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - i asked a girl out on the bus, and she didnt even have to think about it, she just said no, and that she just wants to be friends. does this mean she has any feelings for me or she doesnt want to ruin being friends or something else? also it took...

I really want to tell him I like him, but I think it's too soon after his break-up.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - i boy who i like had a gf but they split up wednesday. i have liked him for a long time now, and he told my friend i am "fit". i really want to tell him i like him but i think its to soon after his break-up. how should i aproach him, when the t...

He want's to keep our relationship quiet because of our religions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - One of my friends told me that he fancied me and when I told him that I did fancy him too, he told me that nothing can happen between us because his family would not approve due to our different religions. He then says that this is not the reas...

He treats me like crap now that we are back together! How can I get him to be more respectful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Long story short, my boyfriend and I went out for a year and three months. We broke up for four months and I dated another guy during that time; my boyfriend did not date anyone. He and I got back together a couple months ago and now he's treating ...

I have a problem with my boyfriend who is still living with his wife. Should I be suspicious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I'm very upset and feel bad. Today is my bf bday and we had some nice plans tonight. He's getting divored (final in January) but still lives with his wife. We have beendating only a few months and its been a huge concern of mine that they live ...

Was she just testing me about saying she wasn't a virgin to see if I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - i belong to muslim family i was going to marry afther 3 month with my gf .i did not sex with my gf.i knew her 8 months ago she never told me about her past but before one month she told me she is not virgin becouse she raped.i was mad at her why ...

His older friend tells lies to get us to break up! Am I in a losing situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 6 months now. He has a best friend that is an older lady who he has known for over 10 years. He says she is like a mom to him. Every time she comes around she or he creates drama and he ends up asking me to leave. Of ...

I am puzzled here due to his not planning time with me in advance. Should I be concerned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hello, thanks in advance for read my letter and I appollogize because the english is not my first language. First of all I am in a relationship with this wonderfull guy for like 7 months. In many ways we are alike, but in other ways we are ...

I don't want to step on any toes but how can I get his dad to leave? I can't stand it any longer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I am 21 year old and have been living on my own for years. I currently live in a amall apartment with boyfriend, our roomate, and my boyfriends father. The problem is I want his dad to leave! He's been staying here off and on for a month! He stin...

How can he really love me if he's with someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I really need help! Jusge me if you want but I was 16 at the time and naive now I am stuck! I started to see this guy when I was 16, he was bit older than me. When we first went on a date he told me he had a girlfriend and like an idiot i carried on ...

Understanding Your Need for Attention

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19 September 2008 (F) - Are You A Female Attention Addict? If so, here is an example of a typical day in your life: It's morning, and time to put on my make up, fix my hair, and wear a new outfit. I'm thinking about the female friend I'll see today who'll comment on ...

How do open relationships work? Why would anyone want to have one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - How do open relationships work? What happens if you fall for one of the 'other people' you've been messing around with? Isn't it just asking for trouble? I recently met a married guy who I have strong feelings for- who has an open relationshi...

Is going to the zoo considered a date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - Hey, I am 25 and completely useless and inexperienced when it comes to women. But i've been speaking to this girl for about 6 weeks now and we text and email every day. I've only managed to meet up with her a couple of times but now she's suggested ...

What is an appropriate way to find out if your girlfriend has feelings for an other guy?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - I have been talking to me girlfriend about some things refering if she liked somebody else. I have a big feeling that she is either cheating on me, or having other feelings with other guys. She has always been saying that she loves me deeply, we've ...

Everytime he looks at me, my thoughts turn to mush! What do I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Ok. So there is this guy, called *Rob. We were introduced through a good friend of ours. This is in January. Anyway, we didn't really get the chance to talk or anything until a month later on msn. Soon, these conversations came every other day, and ...

How do I choose between two girls that like me without hurting anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - See, well I liked this girl(C) and she liked me back. But after a while we grew apart but I still have feelings for her. And there's this other girl who I kinda like as well (I)she likes me back too. But I the first girl wants me back and I cant ...

She is listed in her profile as being in an open relationship. I told her we should meet. Is there any way I could consider a possibility of a relationship at some point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - As I mentioned, I am starting uni soon. I added a few people on facebook doing the same course or are in the same hall as me. Anyway, I was talking to a girl I added a few weeks ago today on the facebook IM service. She doesn't know anyone...

Is this girl only interested in me because I'm different to what she's used to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - Question: Does this girl actually fancy me, or is it just because i'm different to what she's used to the only reason she seems interested? I started dating this girl at university back in June, before the summer holidays, and we've been ...

Is my ex "The One" or my current boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend, and I always knew that the feelings I have towards him were different than everyone else. We went out for a year, but then we broke up because he moved. He lives hours away now, and we didn't talk for over a year. ...

Am I Needy or is he Neglectful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - We've been together for 3 years and do not live together. We see each other for a few hours Friday and Saturday night. During the week we talk on the phone and he may pop over for dinner on occasion. We live in the same town. I want to see him ...

We broke up but I want him back! How do I make this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5702 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Back in February, I got my first boyfriend. His name was Hunter. At the time, he was a freshman, and I was a sophomore. Our relationship wasn't perfect...we had our share of ups and downs, much like all the other couples out ther...

My boyfriend and I only talk every few weeks, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for a while now. We only see each once every two weeks, roughly, and he never texts/calls in between. I'm getting really depressed; I told him I'd understand that he's really busy and if we could only see each once a ...

How do you get close to someone you have feelings for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5701 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - how do you get close to someone? i'm talking about someone you have feelings for. me and my ex were really close. it took a while and we went through a lot and then we finally ended up being so close that we just went out. but that's over with. i'm ...

How do I treat a girl I've just met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

19 September 2008 (M) - Hi I am a guy who is 14 years old i just started highschool as a freshmen a few weeks ago. i am an average guy. i wouldnt say i stand out as attractive most the time but im not bad either. the point is. i have never had a girlfriend or anything ...

How can a 13 year old find the right guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

19 September 2008 (F) - Hi. Im 13 and fell in love for the first time. the guy i love broke my heart and we went out five times. each time i fell for his tricks. and im trying not to again. i dont understand why i dont feel the agonizeing pain like i did before. and i can ...