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Archived questions from: 3 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't know what to do about my online relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - hi, i met this girl on an online game and we decided to chat on msn, then we really liked eachother and we are now in a relationship but i feel bad about it because we have never met and she lives really far away, i dont no what to do...

It seems that our relationship is being tested every time. How do we rebuild it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - me and my partner have been together for 4 yrs engaged for 2 yrs. he has a daughter from a previous relationship which is fine and we hav our own little family. recently though he found out he has a son from 10 yrs ago i knew there was a possibility ...

How can I show him I want to move up into our relationship without freaking him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I have a good male friend - I would say our relationship is somewhere between friends and lovers. We only see each other occasionally, although I see him as part of my work at least once a week. Last year he needed me more because he was coming out ...

Is it normal to not get orgasms during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Hi! I am 19 years old and since i was 16 i am having sex. I have experienced a lot of sex and generally i think i am good at it. My only problem is that i cant come. The only way i come in sex and i really mean the ONLY way is when me or the other ...

I fear that if I say "no" to his advances that he will leave me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Ok so, I've been going out with this amazing guy for almost 7 months. He is my first real boyfriend. I love him more than anything. But, I just found out a few months ago that he wants to..."explore the south" as in the sexual kind of way if you ...

Is it normal to fantasize about other men when you're in a healthy relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years and he treats me really well. Im 21 and he is 25. The only problem is that i sometimes dream and think about having sex with other men, i really dont know why this is. We have a healthy sex life so its not ...

I feel that if he gets a new phone he's going to hide things from me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - For some reason I have some weird insecurities. Me and my boyfriend have lived together for the past 8 months and I love it we do almost everything together - because we enjoy all the same things and we have alot of fun doing all those things. ...

When did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Poll: When was the first time you had a relationship, and what age did you have your first kiss? I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or peck on the lips type of kiss, I mean a toungue kiss? And when did you first have a boyfrien...

How do I get over the fact that my boyfriend is best friends with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I am into a relationship with someone. I am madly in love with him and so does he love me. The problem is my bfs ex. They were into a relationship for quite a long while. This was long ago. Later they got over it and became good friends ...

She trusted me with information about this other guy, but it's got to me, because she doesn't know that I love her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - Hello Dear Cupid, I'm in a bit of a dhialemma. I absolutely LOVE this girl, we have SO much in common, but, she likes someone that is basically a 10 year older version of me, and looks a little different, but that's not the point :P She trusted me w...

Do you think my friend and I should confront him about him going red etc.?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I'm 14 and i really like this guy who is 15 and is in the year above at school. I've known him since we were in primary school. I've liked him for a few years now and i think i love him. ( Do not say that because im 14 i can't be in love) Last S...

All I want is for my boyfriend to be happy. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Hi all, I am going out with this guy and am madly in love him and so is he. We are very happy together. We have some common friends. But they are closer to him than i am - they are his best friends. The reason being for me being distant from them is...

Should I buy some flowers or something for when I meet up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - Hello, Following on from the question about the piece of music I wrote for the girl I'm meeting Freshers' week and have flirted a bit with (should have mentioned it was an instrumental). We actually have agreed to meet before then. Next week someti...

Why would she have sex with someone else the day after she had sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - befor me and my girl friend whent out we were haveing sex one day we had sex the next day she had sex with some oneelce then she came back an had sex with me. why would she have sex with some one else the day after we did? she said she liked me an ...

Do I have genital herpes or am I just being a hypochondriac?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I have been looking online aat my symptoms and fear I may have genital herpes. I have small painful bumps on the inside of my vaginal lips. They don't seem like blisters and haven't popped like the website said they would. Also I have gotten sick ...

I am dating a guy who has a girlfriend and I feel used, how do I cut him off completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - This guy that i've been seeing has a girlfriend, and she works 3rd shift and work 1st. he's with me every night sometimes even when she doesn't have to work. I know where they live, and where he's mom lives, as well as where he hangs out. for some ...

Together for three years, I moved in with him, asked if he thought we would be together in the future, he did not know, couldn't promise love or commitment, I am devastated, should I just wait around or leave, I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Im in a difficult position, I recently asked my boyfriend whether he thought we would still be together in the future, so we could make plans. His answer was I hope so but I cant promise I will still love you then, and to stop planning for the ...

I broke up with my short-term boyfriend, but I would like to still be friends, I texted him, he did not respond, what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I finished with my short term boyfriend ... because he had laughed at me for been worried that he had not answered his phone... i did like him i have text him and he does not reply ...i would have like to stay friends...

My relationship with my boyfriend has been shaky, his brother was recently sentenced, to two to three years in jail, what do I say to my boyfriend when I call him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - me and my bf r 20. our relationship has been shakey. his brother went to court today n sentenced for 2-3 yrs...when i call my bf what should i say?...

I met a man my age at the restaurant, we then talked by phone every night for almost a week, is it possible to feel something so special so soon? What do you recommend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I recently went to restaurant for breakfast, and I met a man my age. He came to sit by me, and we talked about our jobs. He gave me his phone number,and paid for my breakfast which I did not know he did. I called him back that evening to thank ...

I am invited to his flat to watch TV and stay for the night, how can I feel more relaxed? I don't want him to know that I have never dated etc.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I am looking for some advice/help. I am in my late 20s and have never had a boyfriend/relationship (sad I know) ever because I had strict parents and then when I was older I was never really interested. However, I find myself for the first time...

I wrote my boyfriend a letter, about how bad I feel about my weight, and the stress in our relationship, he answered that he does not know what to say, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - i recantly posted a question and got a answer so i did actually that and wrote him a letter but after he read it all he said is 'what do you want me to say, i cant say any thing' this is what i put in the letter---- we use to get on loadz before ...

Is it worth keeping in touch with her although she seems to have lost the initial interest? In terms of pain, which is the easiest road out of here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - I'm a little bit confused. I met a girl a few months back whom I care for a lot! I'm never happier than when I'm around her. The mere thought of her makes my heart rate triple. The problem is she is very popular and has a lot of friends. At first ...

Is he getting scared or something, or has the relationship just plataued?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 37 yrs and I met a guy who's is 34 on a dating website 4 months ago. We hit it off immediately, I've met his family, we've been together every day since we met. He used to tell me all the time how he is loves me, how attracted he is to me, ...

This is a tricky one...how do I win back her heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - I want my ex girlfriend back. She is the most amazing person I have ever been with and I need to know what some people think about my plan to win back her heart. I have two plans and I want your feed back to let me know if im a completely ...

How do I get him to choose me over his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for just over 2 months now. He is from Paris but is in London for work and said that he had just broken up with girlfriend of 4 years before coming as he wasn't sure how long he's be gone. I'm also falling for him and he ...

Why is he treating me so bad that I feel the need to harm myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is threaten me bad, he is ignoring me the most times he calls me a lot of names, he thinks that I have other lovers, he blames me for the things which his ex did to him(Stabbing, lying)I have never done something to him!but he doesnt ...

Why doesn't he care much for sex anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - lyin in bed he would turn down sex,and have a wank lyin beside me,sometimes even look at porn while doing it... and when we do have sex he wants it over quick or gets me to take out the dildo and finish myself.i cant stand that it turns me off and ...

How do I get over the guilt of leaving my ex for another guy? I also feel guilty about feeling guilty, as it's not fair on my new partner.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4116 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I feel so guilty and weird all the time!!! I left my (first) long term boyfriend for another guy. Basically although I knew my ex loved me and we had a great time together, I just didn't love him anymore, and I think it was cos he was naturally not ...

I asked him what we were and of course I wasn't surprised when he said friends with benefits. I want more and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - About a year and a half ago I got out of a marriage that lasted less than a year with a guy I was with for 5 years beforehand. Just after a few months of single status I was at the club with a friend when I ran into this guy that I used to go to ...

I think of other girls, is this wrong? Should I leave my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - should i dump my girlfriend because im thinking about other girls, i mean i know a lot of nice other girls, but i love my girlfriend, but i often wonder if i wasnt with her would i have a better relationship with another girl, and i kinda feel that ...

Have I found my true love or am I just being an idiot? I have trust issues...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - hi, about a month ago, i met someone, both of us are divorced, i was married for over 20 yrs to a man that was really cruel to me, and i been divorced from him for about 3 months, this other man, was also married for 13 yrs to a woman who was cruel ...

Why do relationships rarely stem from casual sex? How do I stop this behavior?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - So I am having trouble with refraining myself from engaging in casual sex. I always feel very crappy the next day and tell myself that it is mentally unhealthy. I want to stop but it is easier said than done. For some reason when considering it I ...

He's upset his ex has moved on. Does this mean he doesn't want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend just found out his ex has moved on and is upset. He said he needs a few days to sort out his feelings and just wanted to be honest with me because i am a good woman. what does this mean? does he want to break up with me? or does he ...

Should I tell my boyfriend my ex is going to be at the shower?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - My BF and i have been together mostly on and a few months off for 7 years. I have never been unfaithful but he has. Although i'm not worried about him doing anything now, he does go out and most of the time I have no idea who he is with. My HS BF ...

Does my co-worker like me or is it my imagination?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - ok so I started working at this office downtown. I must admit that my job is pretty easy and there's quite a few hot guys (unfortunately most of them are young married lawyers :( ) anyways so there's this one particular guy who I stated liking ever ...

I told my crush I liked him but I don't know what to do from there!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - i really like this boy at my school. we're kinda friends. and we've dated before but it was when we were younger so it wasn't anything special. but anyways i really started to like him since the beginning of school. and we've talked on the computer ...

Am I doing right for ending the relationship now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - I'm a senior in college and I met a girl toward the end of last year. She's really great and an amazing person, but I just can't help but feel like I'm too young to be getting so serious. I feel that I haven't quite experienced everything. It's this ...

Should I move bases to be with my future wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - Hello, I am a 22 year old male in the army. I met my fiance' in Iraq. It was strange because I use to and she use to look down those because people always rushed them. We started it by seeing where it would go, we both agreed to this. We deployed ...

How can I ask my close friend out in a subtle manner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I like a shy guy. As I've hung out with him in group settings we've gotten to know each other better. I am pretty sure he likes me too. He treats me different than my other friend who's a girl. I want to ask him out in a low key way, so I don't ...

I have fallen for my best friend. I know I'll never be with him, so how do I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - i really like by best guy friend but he doesn't like me. i have liked him for a few months well maybe 6 months now. and i told him about 1 month ago, (nothing is or feels different) but just today i found out he has a girlfriend and he never told me ...

How can I make this a time where we can make this a concrete situation and do things differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Six years ago I met this guy. We dated for about six months. He seemed emotionally unavailable to me so I pretty much moved on. We have remained friends over the years and kept in contact. We met up a few times over those years as well. He showed u...