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Archived questions from: 1 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - What can I do about my boyfriend's unwillingness to please me? I don't ask my bf to do a lot of things for me but the things I do ask are very important to me. He never has done any of the things I asked him to do. He always makes some lame excuse...

I had an email affair, but nothing more. Now I'm accused of cheating on him two times, which is a lie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I've never felt so messed up in all my life. I'm so utterly confused. I've been seeing an amazing guy for 3 months. In such a short space of time, i've never cared for anyone or been so comfortable with anyone in my life. (Previous to this i was in ...

How can I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - i have a great feeling that im pregnant, because i have the symtoms. but i am not sure what i should do. you see im 15 turning 16 in oct. and it was my first time having sex non the less it was unprotected. i dont know how i should tell my dad. so ...

My boyfriend may possibly be infertile but I want a child with him. Should I be positive or negative about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend has undescended testicles which increases the risk of infertility. This really upsets me and although he's been too embarrased about it in the past, I have got him to see a specialist where he should hopefully take a sperm count. Th...

I think my girlfriend is no longer insterested in me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Alright... I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year. Our 'honeymoon period' went very well. For almost nine months, infact. Sex, communication, friendship, etc... Everything was great. We never argued. Then slowly, ...

I thought he was my soulmate but I found out he cheated on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I have just found out one week ago that my husband has cheated on me. We have been together 21 years and married for 14. He cheated on me five years ago and has only just told me. The real problem I am having with this is that he cheated on me ...

What can I do to make this man stand up to his kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - what actions do i need to take? because I have been dating an older man that has grown married kids that have rotten marriages, have never grown up, can't get past the past and always wants their dad to be with them and he always has to sugar co...

It seems so out of character but my fiance hit me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I am new here, but something has happened that I would really like some unbiased opinions about. This may be long... My fiancé and I are both 25 and have been really close friends for almost 10 years. He has always had a "thing" for me, but I wa...

I have a boyfriend but keep thinking me and this other boy could have been amazing together, had we had a chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I don't know how complicated this is but I know it's wrong. I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we always have an amazing time together. But before I met him I was falling for another boy who I used to always see round school, I realised ...

I don't understand her motives for kissing me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im a girl and ive liked my friend whose also a girl for a while and she knows and the other night while we were both quite drunk she kissed me, and told me she liked me, we went back to hers and went to sleep together it was so sweet but the next...

Age differences - should people's reactions matter?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am a 34 year old male who has just begun dating a 19 year old female. I love being with her and adore her greatly, she is mature for her years , fun, serious when neccessary and has all the qualities of my ideal woman! However, I am concerned ...

He cheated to be with me...will he do it to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

1 September 2008 (?) - I really like this guy and he has cheated on his girlfriend (my best friend) to be with me and I am scared that when I do get with him he will cheat on me. Is this true?...

Caught my bf in public, laughing and kissing with another woman! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My new boyfriend of 6 weeks became divorced 3 months ago. My sister asked me if i would go shopping with her to help her choose a dress for her works outing. While i was with her, I saw my boyfriend with another woman, laughing, kissing, holding ...

I have anxiety about him needing space and time to gather his thoughts! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - This past Friday, my boyfriend and I had a stupid argument. It started over my feelings about money. I asked him to buy me something and he related to me that he wasn't sure if he would have enough to get it. I caught an attitude because of this and ...

Should I call and confront him or let it go? I need closure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy over the summer, its been about a month and a half. He'd call me everyday, wish me goodnight EVERY night, go out for dinner/coffee etc. Basically, everything was FAB. About 3 weeks ago, he stopped calling/texting as much, and I found ...

My best friend has gotten too close for comfort with my girlfriend!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly a year now, and I love her heaps. Everything has been going great except for one thing. Soon after we started dating, my best friend started talking to her via msn. I was completely cool with this o...

Should I tell this man I fancy him, I'm 15 years older than him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Hi i am not sure what to do, i fancy this guy at work but i am 15 years older than him,i dont think he feels the same one minute he will speak the next not i am just the same.Now do i sit him down and tell him perhaps making a fool of myself and ...

We really like each other but people hate the thought of us being together, so what do we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I split with my partner of 10 years around 6 wks back. I have been chatting to someone who my partner went to school with. People started rumours that we were seeing each other which wasnt true. Since then me and this guy have met and have had ...

It's been 3 weeks and HE hasn't called..should I wait for him to come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I am a single mother of 2 and I met a younger man aged 25 who seemed very sweet and loving towards my children. I wasn't looking for anything too serious at the start and told him so but he is very assertive and within a week, he was suggesting m...

How can I get him in the mood after a long hard day at work ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend of 2 yrs ... Is constantly tired or sore from work to treat me like he used to and im afraid that if i confront him he will leave me or we will have an argument. and one of thoes people that hate arguing as i was brought up with ...

My girlfriend ignores me for long hours. Is she playing with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - I am getting stressed with my current relationship. She distant herself from me and come back close. After awhile, she distant herself again. It happened so many times. When she does that, she went missing the whole day. Not picking up phone ...

My sister is dating someone who will clearly use her and she doesn't want to listen to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Hello, my sister (who's just turned 16) has just started going out with a lad who is 24. This lad has no real interest in my sister and is clearly trying to get into her pants. He has a history of going out with many girls and having sex with them ...

How can I bring his interest back again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - im 16 n m boyfrnd is 17..we bth love each other n has a very gud understnind we hav been in relationshp snce 5 mnths..in starting he gve a lots of importnce bt nw its getting reduce..m worried abt it...i knw he dosnt hav dat much time n manges to ...

Why my friends can talk to girls but not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello got 1 more question how come when i talk to girls i get really nerves and scared and like if i ask them something they will take the piss and plus most of my mates can talk to girls really easily...

We can't be together for now but a part of me feels he's over me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I work together. In the beginning he pursed me heavily. Finding my email, phone, even following me home so he could talk to me. At the time I was in an abusive relationship. Once I told him this he became a great friend. He liste...

Is it jealousy that is clouding my judgment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Last January I started talking to this girl in my math class. We started to get really close and we had a sort of unofficial relationship. But we talked almost every night for months. We got really really close and she eventually was comfortable ...

Is it me or is this getting worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Is it me, or is she getting worse? I'm the 15 year old boy who wrote a post recently about his girlfriend's behavior. To read the past question, please click the link at the end of this post. Yesterday we had a fight, again. First we were joki...

What can I do to change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - hi,basically me an mum have fallen out so ive been staying at my mother in law 2 bs house. i recently got a txt from my fionce saying me being there at his house has made him less tolerable and upset and that i only consider his happines...

Are rebounds O.K?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 31 year old female and I've been in 2 relationships back to back (kind of overlapping actually)combined total of 12 years. My current or ex, depending on how you look it, and I are pretty much through with ALOT of heartache. Is it so wrong to ...

How can I ask this girl out who seems more interested on guys that are the opposite of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ok the same girl that i creeped out by the exaggerated attention, i wanna make a move on her but shes into the more skinny popular guys, and she sees me as a nice and funny guy, soo is there anyway for me to land her no matter how big i am and how ...

Do you think I'm spending too much on her so soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - My girl's bday is coming up. We've been together for a little under a year. I was thinking of taking her to a $$$$ place for dinner(est $300 for 2), I'm wondering if that is too much too soon. I also bought her a gift that cost $100. Should I take ...

Is he still into me or has he just lost interest since we are far apart now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I dated a guy over break for a few weeks but we go to different colleges that are significantly far apart. I really fell hard and fast for him and all the signs pointed to him really liking me (I am kind of a pessimist but that is what my friends ...

He's my best friend and I'm in love with him, but it seems that we will never be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Well i like this guy sooo much and he knows that i do but he dosent have the same feelings as i do and it kinda hurts when he tells me about his gf's cause i know that we will never be together but he is my best friend he is like my personal i guess ...

How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the ...

He has told me he can't see himself with me in his future. Should I stay with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years. I thought we were in the same place when it came to marriage, but it seems we may not be. He says he doesn't know if he sees me in his future because I don't have a job and have a lot of medical ...

Would our age difference play a part in the duration of our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - ive recently been seing a girl whos nearly 17, im 24. she s a very mature girl and dresses really well, and extreamly pretty,intelegent,funny. when we met i thought she was a bit older and and she thought i was a bit younger. it started as just fun...

He has just recently contacted his ex....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Girls, I need your gut instincts. I recently logged into my boyfriend's page for the heck of it and there I found him messaging back and forth with one of his ex from 2-3 years ago. Now while they were dating, he was into her, but she broke up wit...

Is it wrong to love your step-sister?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - So since we all went out as a family me and her keep talking on msn frequency and i enjoy the time with her i get shy when i'm up her house and now she's gone on holiday for two weeks it seems the two weeks are taking forever and I really miss her ...

I like this girl but I think she would be more interested in my mates because they look better than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - well there is this girl i fell in love with but now ther is like tow ov my best m8's that like her but they look a lot better then me and she might not like me no more...

I didn't want to have sex with him and he went ballistic!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - Please help me im so heart broken. Should i stay or not? We went to the museum today everything was so fun.. When then he said lets go to (his friends names house) and he wanted to have sex but his friend was home. So i didnt want to of cours...

I had unprotected sex and my period came but it was very light. Does this mean pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I had unsafe sex on the 19. i had light spotting 6 days after. it was light brown. i have all of the pregnacy signs. i was going to buy a test but today i started bleeding. not alot and its light brown. i'm a week late. is this light bleeding my ...

I'm a virgin and I' mnot sure I'll be "enough" for my experienced girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello i have question i am with this girl but she has had sex but i anit im only 15 but i anit had sex yet, but i recon i will have sex with her pretty soon and i am very scared about and there is 3 reasons why and that is my penis size and that is ...

I like this girl, but all my friends hate her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - hello everyone, me and this girl has been getting long really well and she just asked me out, and i said i tell you tomorrow. but the girl that i have falling in love with is a girl how most of my mates dont like, but i really do love her and if i ...

I'm sexually attracted to my female cousin but she's afraid of any physical contact!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I am Sexually attracted to my female cousin who Lives with me she's 21 and i am 29 i want do something to her when she comes into my room and sits on my bed and talks to me but I Love her but when we try to do something she gets Scared and runs off ...

I want to meet someone new and have a sex life, but the problem is that I have herpes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (M) - Picked up a nasty virus called Herpes over 20 years ago ... the 'lady' in question 'forgot' to mention it! Told my wife before we married ... she accepted it ok , but we never had a really good sex life ... i didn't want her to get it. Right now...

He can't leave his girlfriend! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - I've been involved with a man for 6 months although we are both in relationships. Mine has been going on for 2 and his for 4 years. He says that the passion is gone and it is the same for me and my boyfriend. he even calls me his soul mate. we tried...

How can I keep on flirting with him without getting too physical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

1 September 2008 (F) - So i have compleated my fiesr week of college and their is an older guy who is very intrested in me. We have a lot in common and he is absoultly perfect. We tease eachother a lot (verbaly and physicaly). I was wondering if anyone knows anything i ...