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Archived questions from: 26 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What can I do to save and repair what we have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for almost two years, have been engaged for one. We have a four in a half month old together. My question is What can I do to save and repair what we have? Let me give you some background. Shortly aft...

Is it possible to put the past behind us and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi. Me and my boyfriend been together for a year but we were always on and off mainly because i knew he was seeing other girls and i saw other boys. I found out from people he was seeing but he never admitted to doing it, which was the reason why i ...

I'm just stuck, he left me with no explanation and I need to know how to get over him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I'm 16. I went out with this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as it was ...

How can I keep the temptation of touching her sexually away while still being able to be close to her? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Hello. I'm currently in high school and I'm engaged to the girl of my dreams. We've been dating for quite a while now. I proposed to her around 2 months ago. Since that we have talked more and more about our wedding. We've decided that to avoid ...

Am I mad to give up the chance of having a kid in the future by staying with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Dear aunts, I am 30 years old and have no children. My boyfriend is in his 40s, has 2 kids and has had a vasectomy. Whilst I don't particularly want kids, am I mad to give up the chance of having a kid in the future by staying with him? You n...

Has anyone had a good experience with a younger still coming out to herself and others lesbian? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - So I am dating this woman(23) who has never been with a girl before let alone in any kind of long-term relationship..i am 9 years her senior and have been in several relationships, so knowing everything she is thinking about i am being uuuuber ...

Other than our religious differences, we get along wonderfully. To me, it seems a shame to throw that all away without even considering that some people convert, or that love can outweigh tradition...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I've been casually dating a Jewish guy for about a month now. Vital background information is that I am a (Christmas/Easter mass attendance only) Catholic and always find myself attracted to Jews. Although I value different religions and find it ...

Do I give up this great girlfriend to make life easier with regard to seeing my son? Or should I stand my ground?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Hi I asked for help about a month ago and appreciated everyone's answers but need some advice again. Since my last posting I approached T and asked her to be straight with me regarding how we were. She said she liked me and would like to see i...

Problems with scorpio man. I need advice from other scorpio's or people involved with one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a scorpio man for 6 months now. I love him a lot and from the things he has said to me believed he loved me too. The problem is he plays so many head games with me. Every time things are going great he pulls back and ...

I don't feel I'm good enough for her and this is getting me really depressed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - i have just entered me first real relationship, but i have major confidence issues. the girl i am going out with is amazing, i love her, but i dont feal that i am good enough for her and that she can do far better than me and it is getting me realy ...

What is the matter with my girlfriend? Something's not right...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - hi I needed advice one day my gf randomly called me crying and said we need a break. I told her I really really love her and if that's what you need I love you so much I will wait for you for however long it takes, she said that she loves me truly ...

My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me. they talk regularly on the phone, text a lot and meet up whenever they can. she lives over 200 miles away now but she is a threat to my relationship. my boyfriend chris ...

I'm successful in every part of life except relationships, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5687 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Lots of my ex girlfriends and even women older then me that i dated, told me after 2-3 months of relationship that i'm not realy confident in me. And now i have this complexe every time.I think that they are wrong and i can prouve it, but every time ...

What are your opinions on this dilema???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - whats everyones views or opinions on this dilema can a marriage that was already on the rocks with one partner(the husband)not loving the other partner then having an affair,resulting in a baby with added financial implications SURVIVE?...

He said he didn't want a relationship but we act as though we have one, recently I feel he wants more, I don't know what to think and how to interpret and react to his comments!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hello I need help here, because I am very confuse, I have been dating this guy for around 7 months, he is wonderfull with me, he does everything to please me. We have been exclusive since the begining. Like 2 months after we started dating he told...

My ex sex buddy doesn't talk to me since he is hooking up with another coworker. I thought we were friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My coworker and I started messing around with no strings attached. I just broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and am still in hopes of re-patching things up. However, one day we all went out and I invited one of my other girl co workers to ...

Is my wife cheating on me or not? I have to know!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - My wife slept with someone behind my back some time ago. I found out about it, and I have forgiven her. Then more recently she saw the guy out in a bar, a chance meeting according to her, and talked with him. Again, I found out, she says, they just ...

I've changed, but how can I convince him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - How do I get my boyfriend to realise that I have changed for the better and that i will not treat him as poorly as I did?...

Should I trust him one more time, and give us two another chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - hi, i left my boyfriend 3 months ago his friends told me he was very depressed when we left but he did not show me that. now after 3 months he contacted me on the internet and told me that he has his girlfriend, but still loves me. he was send...

We met on line, I feel I love him one minute and the next I just want to be friends. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I met his guy online and i immediatly liked him. The problem is he lives in calagary and i live in vancouver. He is 18 and im 16. He is thinking about coming and living with me or get a apartment near hear. I like him now but he wont be able...

I'm in a LDR, but seeing someone near me, is this wrong? I just need some love but I'd break up with him if need be, but how should I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Ok well Im a young girl. I have a boyfriend in the philippines I love him dearly. But about 5 months into our relationship i began dating a guy here, is this really wrong what should I do?? I cant see myself with the guy here, but I just need so...

What should I do about my ex who says has feelings for me but... loves his girlfriend? She has treated him horribly!

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26 September 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years that ended a year ago. We have a 3 year old son together, and he is now dating a girl he cheated on my with. For the last year he has been telling me he still has strong feelings for me. Over the ...

This boy said he likes me but the next day he kisses my friend, I don't understand! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Well I have like this guy named Miguel for about a year already..We tried the whole dating thing but it didn't work so we stayed as friends..Well lately he has been sending text messages to my friend Jesenia and I guess they wanted to meet each ...

What can be wrong with me. I'm so unlucky in love? Please, I feel depressed and need help!? All the guys I'm attracted to are unavailable.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - First of all, I'm 31 years old and still a virgin and haven't had a BF. I was brought out in a religious family. Yet, I never found myself attracted to anyone and have a relationship with even inside the church. The same happened in school, I wasn't ...

I have his number and am planning to call him but I'm shy, what should I say to him? Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I'm a sophomore in high school and the guy I like is a junior. He's also my neighbor (I recently moved in, so we're new neighbors). I think he's cute--hot--but we've never actually been able to have a real conversation. However, I asked him for his ...

We talk exactly like we did when we were seeing each other... But he doesn't want a relationship. What's the deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hey This guy I had been seeing, which everything was going very well with over the summer, just decided that he was too busy to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment and that we should just be friends. I took this understandingly as ...

Should I continue dating this new man? I still miss my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Recently i got dumped by my boyfriend from whom i was in love, and even though i haven't seen him in a month neither talk to him i still miss him. I had lunch this thursday with another guy, he's really nice, a gentelman, he's what people would say ...

I'm really confused by his behaviour and I don't know what to make of it!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that ...