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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm being ignored by someone I'm trying to love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - To Anyone Who Can Offer Prospective: I recently moved to a new state about 700 miles away to attend graduate school. I've felt pretty lonely here, where I had come from before I was a social butterfly who had friends anywhere I'd go, which has ma...

How can I tell if this boy with a "lady's man" reputation likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Ok...so there's this kid. One day and me and a group of friends were playing truth and dare. He got dared to kiss one of my friends but said no and kissed me instead. Now I really like him but don't know whether he likes me or not because he's ...

Our attempt at having sex failed because I was too tight and he was too big. What can I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - umm ok so me and my bf are really really close. and we've done just about everything...except sex. we tried the other nite and...hes huge...and i think i was to tight. both of us r virgings...i dont kno what to do. it was really emabrass...

I love him so much and he tells me the same but him always leaving me for his ex keeps me frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - i think i have found my soulmate. he has all the signs of a soulmate, but he says he is in love with someone else, but he keeps running back to me....i feel his thoughts..i have confront him by telling him i know he thinks of me every morning and ...

Should I give him a second chance for the baby's sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - ok i have wrote on here before about my boyfriend, he is in the army. i'm pregnant and have 3 weeks left. My boyfriend of 3 years has been distant with me and went on a lads holiday and basically hasnt spent no time with me. i have recently got a ...

How do you know when they love you and mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - If a lad tells you he loves you .. how do you know that he means it ?? x...

How can I keep my long distance relationship alive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend on holiday and it was amazing. i thought that it would just be a holiday romance but we both wanted it continue afterwards. he lives about 2 hours away. we have been going out for a month now. we really dont get to see eachother ...

How can I ask out a girl I have just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (?) - lets say i go to the mall and i see this cute girl, i never met before and she is with a friend i want to talk and maybe ask her out but i don't know how. advice?...

She has a family history of cheating women! How can I stop thinking she will cheat on me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Im a 29 year old male, and I have been currently dating a woman for over a year. We hit it off when we met so we ended up moving in together. Life hasn't been better!!! But I find myself thinking about the following quite a bit, How can I get it out ...

I have now become the doormat or the soap box. What can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I would really appreciate your advice and comments. I do not know who else to turn to regarding my situation, someone who can give an unbiased opinion of it. I'm 21 and my 'boyfriend' is 34. We've known each other for roughly 3 years. I did not...

What's the best way to tell him "I love you"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hey ive been with my partner for about a year unoffically and about 5 months offically and i think im ready now to tell him that i love him but we havent said it to each other before... we have both said it in a jokey way or said it and then real...

I'm always the bridesmaid but never the bride!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - i am in high school and i have never had a boyfriend, i have lots of guys who are friends, but i am always the friend and nothing more. please help..thanks....

I fear that he will leave me and find someone else! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. he has started an aprentaship and goes to collage 3 times a week but soon it will only be once a week. I love him so much and as he is two years older than me i am scared he wwill find some1 ...

Does my vagina hurt because of the rough sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4914 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I of a year, have been having sex for about 4/5 months. Sometimes, he wants sex when i don't but i don't tell him i don't want to but when we do, i like it and glad i do it. Last weekend, we had sex as soon as i came off my perio...

Why is my girlfriend's past bothering me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 month. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity an...

I'm involved a crazy love triangle!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Alright this one is a tough one, so I'll try to really explain this one. I'm involved in a crazy love triangle. I have a child with a guy who has another child with another girl. She has two children ages 2 and 5. Now a couple months ago I got ...

My ex had unprotected sex with another guy and got pregnant. Now she want my help! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4-5 months now. We dated for over 4 years. I had been trying to work things out with her but it was not going anywhere. There was too much history to throw away. In July I was out with a coworker at a ...

How can I talk other women knowing I'll never pleasure them sexually?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hi, i dont know where to start, i am married with four grown up children, ok here we go, my youngest is 27 she has a girl 8 years old and a boy 3 years old. she was on heroin and me and my wife went through hell with her, we got her of it eventua...

How can I handle my lover's best friend who wants to tear us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I really need advice on this and Im sorry for the length but to truly understand you kinda need to know everything. It's a very complex situation. I've already established that this isnt perhaps a great situation, but I need help on how to deal ...

I haven't done anything with this new guy, as that would be cheating, but I do like him! I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half months and it was great at first, but these days things are just different. He can be moody and distant, and he now answers my texts with just a few words (no kisses), or not at all. When I try and ...

I need flirting tips...anyone got any good ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hey everyone im 15 and would really love some tips on the best ways to flirt with guys i have quite a few of guy friends just would like a boyfriend like, at parties or like bowling or something please give me some hints, im quite shy about ...

My girlfriend told me she cheated on me and I cant look at her the same anymore..advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hi i am a 16 year boy old that needs a woman's view on how to deal with my relationship. my girlfriend told me that she cheated on me a month ago, twice. two days after she cried in my arms and told me she was going to have a baby. she even said ...

I don't want to lose him! Should I sleep with him? Help!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hiya.. ive been with this man for a few month and its been perfect.. just he rang me saying is this going to go further ? .. I havnt slept with him yet .. and im only 16 .. hes 20 .. im just scared incase he only wants me for one thing .. and i have ...

I have no clue what he's thinking! Does he not like me as a friend, is he uncomfortable or intimidated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - It's kind of a long post, but I really have no clue what hes thinking and how i'm feeling, because i'm so confused at the moment. Okay, well.. In May 2008 I started dating this guy in my school, I knew him for a year before because he was new, and...

I'm confused by his actions! Do I try to keep him as a friend? Will he contact me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - HI this is a bit of a long one but I really could do with some kind of clarification here or advice. I went on a date with this guy back in January. We hit it off really well and he said he wanted to see how things go. The next time I heard fro...

Please help me guess if he likes me or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - dear cupid theres a boy in my tutor group who i fancy like hell but i fell he stares at me i dunno why. he talks to me kind and i went out with him 1 time before in year 7 but i was his first girlfriend and he was fridged bit then he ended it...

Can anyone give me information about all contraceptive methods?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hi I used to be on the pill, because I had heavy periods and stomach cramps. A year after I began taking the pill I found out there was many associated risks, eg. Cancers. So I stopped the pill. Now I have a great boyfriend and am considering beco...

She says she loves me and I'm the perfect guy for her but... she doesn't want to be my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get ...

How long should I wait on sex to earn respect in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Ok it's super unlike me to wait on sex but I'm coming to realize that pretty much if you want someone to respect you, you have to give it some time. So... how long do I give it and more importantly how the hell do I politely turn it down??? Guys are ...

How can I learn to open up and be more vulnerable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My mom tells me I'm "too guarded." My ex-boyfriends will say that I'm not bad at love - I'm just bad at being vulnerable. And I know that they're right. For a lot of reasons that probably make sense if you look at my past, I can be very friendly...

I slept with a former classmate and regret it, and now I haven't heard from him. Do I have a chance or have I blown it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - A month ago I attended my 20th high school reunion and hooked-up with one of my former classmates. Unfortunately, I called him later that night because we were kind of friends - as we had been sporadically emailing each other before the reunion - ...

I may be too needy and others don't respect me for it! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hey Not sure this is realy sexual or relationship themed, but i think ultimately it does relate. Am going through a bit of a confusing time at the moment. I live in a large shared house, we are all students, about 9 lads all known each ot...

I need his help with out son..how can I convince him to move in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - how can i convince my boyfriend to move in with me so that I have help taking care of our son???...