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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Everytime we come close to have sex, I can't, it hurts too much. What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for over 2 and a half years (our third will be February 1st of next year) and we are totally committed to each other. We just got our own place and things are pretty good. However, there's just one ...

Why can't I bring myself to tell her "I love you"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I'm in hs and my girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We are close and in the early stages of our relationship use to tell each other that we liked each other a lot. Now I feel like I love her... not necessarily that she is the one ...

My girlfriend is jealous for me looking at nudity in (not-porn) movies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 6 months, and we have had a good relationship, however she gets extremely jealous and can't stand that I've seen movies or anything with nudity in them. I'm not talking about porn, I don't watch it because I only want to ...

Why do I always end up being just the friend?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - in the last two years ive come across girls who ive like or fancied. but it always turns out that im just a shoulder to cry on, and they decide to get back with their ex boyfriends even though they've told me the think im fit and they wanna go out ...

Is there any hope for me to get her back or have I been put in the friend zone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Long story short, I went out with this girl for a month, and eventually she broke it off stating she liked me more as a friend and she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. A couple of months pass and we stay friends. And she starts behaving ...

Why do I keep on getting these bumps after I shave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I am really worried so any help will be great! Im 15 and have quite a embarressing problem. I shave all my pubes off, as i dont like having hair down there. The other week after shaving a day or two later a hard lump appeared and it wouldt pop ...

Why didn't he smile when I took the picture?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - On August 30th, I went up to take my boyfriend to the Mud Drags and my mom had asked for me to get a picture of my boyfriend and his dad, so I did and he asked if I was going to get one of me and him and I said "Yes, before we go." I forgot but took ...

He seems undecided about what he wants from me. Should I keep on waiting or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to have high expectations of men, and he tends to be a workaholic and has a relaxed nature. In the beginning things were great, he called everyday...

Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered ...

Why do women always want their men for themselves only, if it's known that men like "variety"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - Hello, I've noticed a lot of porn related questions from females lately. The age-old question is "Why does he like to look at other women when he has me?". And the answer is difficult... Well, now I have a less common question. I'm a woman m...

Why after I told him we should only stay friends because I saw him with no interest did he go back to flirting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Met this guy went on a great date talked about two to three times a week then the phone calls and texts just stop (we were seeing eachother for a couple of months). After a week of no contact i called it off and he said it would be a shame if we ...

She said she didn't date on the summer... yet she went out with two boys at that time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - There is this girl i like we have been talking for 6 months i asked her out in the 3rd month but she said she didnt date in the summer but she went out with 2 other guys before school started she said she was still in love with me after 6 months and ...

I am out of state right now so I cant meet him, how do I keep him interested in dating me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I recently met this guy who is the same age as me on Speeddate. Hes really awesome and we have a lot in common and seems to be interested in me. The problem is right now I am out of state doing a research internship at a hospital. So I ...

He's the love of my life but he doesn't trust me. Should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - Hey... I'm so sad. I wish to stay single... I don't know, but after all that's been going on with my relationship, I feel un-confident... See, my boyfriend has problems with my past. Even though I never sletp with anyone before him, he think...

No matter what I do he still doesn't trust me. What can I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - We've been together for 5 months now. I spent 3 solid months with him in America, and I've got my next flight there booked. This is the first time we've been apart. He's very hateful, jealous and paranoid. He doesn't like to socialise, he do...

Should I worry that we have sex all the time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual ...

How can I make my boyfriend be more mature about my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - how can i get my boyfriend to help with my pregnancy? ok .. well my boyfriend n i been together for a yeae..n hes been really happy lately because of our child. and i really love him and care bout him .. the thing is ,, hes always buyin vide...

Do I miss him or do I just miss having a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a few monthes ago but now i think i miss him. I was wondering how you can tell if you miss the guy or if you just miss having a boyfriend?...

Why does my boyfriend deny he has watched porn with all the evidense on his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - i kee finding evidence of porn viewed on my partners pc but when i confront him about it he adamantly denies it, when it is blatantly obvious! we are from different countries which has meant that we have been apat for months at a time! please ...

Letter to my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Dear M I hate the way you came back into my life like a whirlwind, then left again just as fast I hate the fact that both times it was for another woman I hate myself for being so stupid to have given you another chance in the first place...

I know it's wrong but I just can't resist this man. Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - hi I hope i am nt bothering u much with my promblem u anwered my question on 26th august which had a heading "what happen to my romantic life"....?I just wanted your valueable suggestion on my lastest situation, I tried to keep this man away fro...

Does he want to work out the relationship in the future because he wants to keep contact with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - In a LDR for many years pretty close relationship we were looking towards a visa and overall serious connection. He broke up with me because he says I kept doing things that bothered him such as he would warn me don't go spend the money on that you ...

My wife isn't attracted to me anymore and cheated on me, can we make this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - my wife(together 5 years married oe year)says she isent attracted to me anymore, and that she loves me but isnt in love with me and had felt that way for a long time. i knew we had our differences but i did not see this coming. i asked her if there...

I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...

I always try to be confident when he's mean, why is he such a jerk?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up.. my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i a...

How do shy girls like to be asked out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - This may have been asked a million times but I still haven't found the proper advice, even after searching the web. I'm thinking of asking someone out but I have absolutely no idea how to (without her thinking it's going out just as friends). I know ...

How should I win a date with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - hello people, im here becasue i need your help to me and i really need this help, i will begin: i like the girl next to our house and i want to have a happy relationship with her, her birthday is on 14 of this month and she is celebrating he...

What do I do about this girl? Her father doesn't even know we are dating...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Hi everyone , i'm dating a girl for about a year,just it's our actually fourth time that we r being together in past 6 years,not only that, we have a boy 5 years old.She constantly tells me in a last few months that she is in some kind of faze and ...

Is this throbbing chest pain something to do with anxiety over my love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I get a throbbing pain in the upper-right part of my chest whenever I see or think about this girl I like too much. I just wondered if anyone had any medical insight into what this might be? I checked the net but I couldn't find anything. It's not ...

Do you think his parents will ever accept me for who I am or do they just care about what I have and what I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - So This is my dilemma I have Been with my boyfriend now a year and a half, a year into are relationship I still hadnt meet his parents and now I can see why I didnt meet them, He was finshing his law course in university and he said if he failed his ...

What do you think? should I hold on to him because hes so amazing and I love him, or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - okay, so i feel so confused at the moment on what to do. i have been sleeping with this guy for ten weeks now. he's 21 and he is just amazing. i love him so much and he loves me, he has told me this. but the only trouble is im starting college now, ...

I used a fake id to ask my bf if he had a girlfriend and he kept saying no!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hi!! i have a botfriend but i ws not so sure if he took things with me seriously so i kinda decided to check things out myself. so i made a fake id and added him as another girl.And i asked him out on that id. He told me(thinking i was the other gi...

He hardly talks. he stopped telling me he loves me when he used to say it everyday.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - im in a 2 and a half yr long distance relationship and things were going pretty well. we saw each other once a month or every 2 months after last yr. just recently he was acting strange and thinking that he is a failure and nobody wants him and ...

How can I stop gettin jealous and paranoid???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. He's really good to me and i love him alot. The only problem is i cant trust him at all, even though he gives me no reason not to trust him. I think this is because ive been hurt so much in the ...

Mixed messages from my ex, is there still hope?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I started hanging out again and it was like we were back together, we even said "I Love You" to each other. I go to school 3 hours away from where he lives and he just told me that he met this girl 2 weeks ago and said they "get ...

If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...

He flirts at me and I flirt back, but I don't understand why his wife would be mad when I'm only in high school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - About a year ago I met this cop in my town. Im only 17, and I never used to pay attention to him. Then I noticed he was really really cute, and I started talking to him. I found out he was married, but had only married a few months before then. He ...

How can I forget, once and for all, the guy I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - im heartbroken.....ive been dumped AGAIN for another woman....by the same man!! I should never of took him back after he did it the first time, but I did.....and I fell in love with him again, and now hes finished with me for someone else. I cant ...

We still want to love, but where did it all go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for three-and-a-half years. We fell in love from the start. It was freshman year in high school during a school trip to Disney. We are the longest remaining relationship from our school and were voted High ...

What can I do to give him a great blow job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hey I have a few concerns tht id really like some advice on. I've been with my boyfriend for about a month now, but ive had feelings for him for sometime. Recntly I gave my boyfriend and hand job and he did the same to me and then peformed oral sex ...

I just can't get through her! What else can I do for her to see what a wonderful person she is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (?) - she doesnt have poor self esteem...she has no self esteem. no matter what i say or do she thinks she is the lowest being on earth. ive told her how great of a person she is and how beautiful she is on a regular basis, trying to help her out, but it ...

She was giving me a blow job but... nothing came out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Question is quite simple. I received a blowjob from my new girlfriend for the first time today and I just...didn't get off. She was going at it for at least 10 or 15 minutes and still nothing (although I have to admit it felt greattttt). Is this...

I need tips on how to be better at sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I'm seeing this guy and I think we might have sex soon. I'm only had sex with one guy previously and I wasn't that great at it. I wasn't sure what to do when on the bottom and I REALLY didn't know what to do when I was on top. I'd like to actually ...

My mom's boyfriend cheated on her with me. I don't know what to do in this situation but I don't want her to be with a guy like him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I have this problem and I'm not sure how to handle it. I'm gay. I came out years ago and my family have always been cool about it since they saw it coming. My mother especially as I always stood by her and helped her through a divorce to my father. ...

How can I ask her out when I have never done this before?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I am a freshman in high school and i have a crush on this girl who was in my class last year. We never really had a conversation but we do know each other. Also she is nice to me but she kind of acts this way to everybody so I cant tell what her ...

I'm getting mixed signals from the most amazing guy ever!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Okay so I like this boy. And, Oh my god He is amazing! Like literally the cutest most charismatic person I know. Anyway. I;ve liked him for a while, and I've been trying to figure out if he likes me or not. I know I sound like a little kid not know...

Confused about what he thinks of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - There is this guy I am interested in. He told me he misses me and stuff too. We met at this party couple months back! He lives in the east coast, and I in the west coast, and now he is visiting here for work. We had dinner the first day he was here, ...

I have a crush on this guy and I can't focus on school! Why won't he approach me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - In high school, there's this sophomore that, when I saw his face, completely started to crush on him. My heart aches during classes when I don't see him. I always see him around between my classes and during lunch. Thing is, I don't know who he is ...

Falling for his friend! And I don't want others to think I'm doing this to get back at my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hello, so i just got broken up with him, like two weeks ago. im doing good, im getting over him. [guy B] but im falling fast for a friend of his.. [guy A] i used to date this kid but we both lost interest and remained friends.. well then i l...

She's amazing! So why does she want to hang out with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - I feel like I'm in the shadow of my girlfriend. She's smarter than me, she's more attractive than me---she's even stronger than me! I just don't understand why she'd want to hang out with me when she's so amazing....

How do I get rid Guy A, because I really like Guy B....any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hey im in a situation. I met these two guys online at a dating website. Guy A became interested in me, he talked for a little and then he starts getting very interested in sex and now that is all he talks about. When we talk online all he wants is ...

We broke up! How can I prove to her that we are meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. we have lived together in a house i bought for 3 years. she says that she doesnt think we are meant to be together. i cant be without her. i need her back. how can i prove to her that we ...

He came back from officer training school and doesn't seem interested anymore! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are 22 and 21 respectively and have been dating for 2 1/2 years. He just graduated college and I'm a senior in college now. He's in the army reserves until December until he goes to flight school to become a pilot. Everything was ...

He dumped me and even though I don't want him back...do I tell him I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Hey So ... my boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. He said "Things weren't going the way I wanted them to" ... well .. I wished he at least told me before that he is not happy with something ... but nothing. He was acting like nothing is going...

I didn't understand that he couldn't tell me where he was due to his military job. What can I say to him when I apologize?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - My crush is military and right now is in a location where it's supposed to be confidential. I send him a note making reference that he didn't want to tell me where he is. He replied and ask me to try and understand that he can't tell me where he...

We had unprotected sex last week. So after 7 days into it... would she be showing signs already that she might be pregnant??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

7 September 2008 (M) - Hello, so, I am engaged, with a woman that I absolutely love, care for, and means the world to me. Randomly today she told me she was going to take a pregnancy test, she said it was nothing and no reason why... well I finally got it out of her. ...

He says it's over but wants me in contact his child, who is close to me. What do I do?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - Met someone ten years younger 5.5 months ago. He was divorcing (bitterly) with 4 children under 5. We became friends, I supported him through difficult times, I helped with the children during the holidays, ten days ago he announced that he felt he ...

Do I have an eating disorder? It can't be normal..what's going on with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

7 September 2008 (F) - I found it quite hard to write this question which indicates to me there IS a problem. Still i'm not certain. i am a size 10 (in England) and i feel i could have an eating disorder. I do fear gaining weight and hate looking at photos of me because ...