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anonymous
writes:I'm not too sure whats going on...before i had told a friend and i said she hadn't accpeted me well we had a long talk and everythings okay..but that was a while I finally had come out to my best friend he had freaked out and said he doesnt hang out with gays. Again we had a long talk...and now my life has been surrounded by people asking if im gay. I don't want to lie because i do want to actually get a girl friend so i do want people to know so they rnt afraid to ask me out "ya know"..anyways i was just telling a story but anyways.. what am i gonna do how do i get a girlfriend cuz people my ages rnt gonan just randomly come out cuz i did is there any signs i should be looking for to find out if maybe a girl likes me ???
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (3 September 2008):
 You're pretty young and as you said yourself, not many people are going to come out as you did.
So my guess is that you will probably have to wait a couple of years to get a girlfriend. The reasons is one: the stigma against homosexuals (it's often reduced in highschool) and two: a lot of girls will be confused and afraid of being with another girl.
But the signs to know that a girl likes you are the same ones you would see a girl who likes a guy. She teases her hair, makes eye contact, smiles a lot when talking to you, tries to do some physical contact, looks at you often (when you're not looking at her).
Now, I wish you good luck in the future. Depending where you live, you might or might not get crap from people for you being gay. One good advantage, though, is that people are more accepting of lesbians than gays. Just remember to never let anyone put you down.
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