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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hey there,my boyfriend is now workin away for a few months but unfortunately in his job contact is minimalcut a long story short i found out just before he was leavin via another source that my bf had told his mom that it felt like i had been checkin up on him (i speak to women who's partners with with my bf) and that I was being clingy etcthis has upset me but i havent mentioned to him that i know cause it would cause an uproarmy bf has been fine with me told me he loves me 4 times sunday when he rangmy prob is a person i work with told me that maybe he is keepin me sweet then gonna dump me can you imagine how im feelin now he said thats how blokes workis this true, last think i want on my mind the entire time my bf is away is that he is gonna dump me when he gets back surely, if he was gonna do it he would of before he left that way he dont have to face up to anything for a few monthslove confused xx
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reader, Serenity1  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 First off you need to consider the co-worker and their life. Most of the time misery loves company. If you bf hasn't given you any reason to believe he's leaving you don't believe that. As far as what the mom said, she may be telling the truth so just lessen the times you check up on him. Guys (from my experience) seem to love it when a female makes them do the calling and checkin up. It just leaves a little wonder to the relationship. For example if my bf seems to be acting a little shaky when I call him, I just won't call him anymore I'll make him call me. Hope this helps
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