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Dating: Help and advice

Dating a potential employee because of instant magic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hello to all! I have a problem that just came up today. I run a small firm that provides language lessons and I wanted to hire a teacher. Early today,I was expecting a woman for a job interview. She came on time and when we sat to talk it is as...

We've been together forever, so should I stay because of that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. I'm 18 years old and he's 20. Lately I'm starting to realise just how long that is. I mean, 5 years! That was my whole teenage life! Anyway, I keep having doubts like this about our relationship, ...

Mature or Arrognat? And should I stay to find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I feel that I'm an average 20 year old girl but it seems like everything I enjoy or do my boyfriend looks down upon, for example I like the makeup tutorials they have on you-tube well, he thinks anything in you-tube girl related is stupid. Another ...

Can't deal with this ex- boyrfriend drama!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Ok well about a year ago i wrote on this too an di think it really helped me. i was talking about my boyfrend who had pictures of other girls on his phone. i carried on going out with him but we broke up about 7 months ago. we broke up about the ...

I am looking for advice on how to ask someone out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I am looking for advice on how to ask someone out. I know she is Single But she hardly ever goes out at weekends and because of where she works it is not possible to approach her there either. I don't know her friends the only contact I have is the ...

Are there any Sagitarius women in long-term relationships?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I'm with a Sagittarius woman, and was wondering if there are any Sag who've been in long-term relationships/ marriages/ or are currently married. Unfortunately my theory is that there are very few of you folk in commited relationships, but for ...

Should I ask this girl out even though she is my exes best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I recently broke up with my girlfriend and there is this girl who i kinda want ask out but the only thing is that she is my ex's best friend. I really think she likes me because when i see her outside of school she makes an ecuse to give me a hug....

We've been seeing each other casually but my feelings for him are growing! He keeps blowing hot and cold, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Ive kind of been seeing this chap for a few months. We decided we wanted things to be casual but i feel there changing between us now. My feelings for him are growing but im not sure how he feels for me. He keeps blowing hot and cold and im not ...

I'm too afraid to stand up to her because I don't want to lose her! How can I do this without appearing 'bitchy'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I first met this woman through a close relative, we started talking over the net and then met up a few times for a couple of drinks. We've been getting to know each other for a couple of months now, she's not quite ready for a relationship yet ...

I really like my new girlfriend, but I think about my ex, but we had problems, I still care about her, but I am confused, is it possible to be in love twice, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - my first love lasted about 3-4 years. most of highschool. we had a lot of problems. bc we started breaking up and seeing different people. when she had boyfriends she would cheat on them with me. when i had girlfriends i cheated on them with her. ...

I love this girl who is very abusive, and controlling, I have broken up with her, she makes her way back, she has hit me, how do I end this completely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Basically Iv been dating a girl on and off for about 4 months now, and she's spoken to me like dirt for pretty much the whole time, except for the first 2 weeks when I met her. I really want to end it, and I have 9 times now, but everytime I do she ...

We used to flirt with each other but I think his crush on me has started to fade now, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so I have a problem with a boy that is quite complicated. It all started like a year ago when we never even knew each other but went to the same school, and people kept telling me that this boy liked me. Then for some reason we got talking a...

How do I initiate things with his more mature, older brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - i started casually hooking up with this guy about a month ago nothing too serious, i guess we both kinda got feelings so we started hanging out more and getting closer (i met him within my large group of guy friends) but last night we had sex and ...

My girlfriend insulted me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hey, this is the situation. My girlfriend had plans with her friends last night and so she saw them and we planned to see each other tommorow evening. While she was with her friend I planned to see my friend during the day time before I saw her...

Is it true LDRs never last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Is what they say about long distance relationships true? That they never last? I ask this because I really like this guy. He's sweet and caring and very romantic. We are good together. The only problem is that he's in the military and stationed ...

What does 'I lost her a long time ago' mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - i go through my boyfriends phone every so often just to see he's behaving himself, he hasn't done anything to warrant me not trusting him but im afraid of getting hurt. I sorta cheated on him twice, no sex. so im going through his texts and he's ...

Why does he call me 'kiddy fiddler'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - hello right here is my problem i have started seeing this lad he is a year and 37 days younger than me. ever since we have started seeing eachother he take the mick and calls me a kiddy fiddler do you think he actually believes that and do you t...

Should I go to a movie with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - I like a guy in my college. We went on a trip together with friends. that's when i got to know him. he's really good looking and surprisingly very very sweet. i have just started talking to him and got him to ask me out for a movie. Rumer has it ...

Does his difficult upbringing make it hard for him to express feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - hi, i need advice on whether a guy i like feels the same. we've been sleeping together sporadically for 4 years (cos i was at uni) then i didnt see him for a while and he got back in touch about 6 months ago. i'd never seen him as boyfriend material ...

He said he loves me, but the emails to his ex say otherwise. How can he love us both?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - hi everyone...recently i was at my guy's place. we were on the computer together, he then had to take a toilet break. So i was alone there on his computer. I saw his private email inbox and out of my curiosity, I checked it. I was shocked t...

My boyfriend hasn't bought anything for our future baby but keeps lending money for me and not return it. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hiyaa Im 19 and currently 32 weeks pregnant.. My boyfriend (and father of the baby) is 18 and we have been together about 20 months. The baby was unplanned.. but we decided to keep her and things were ok. Recently we havent stopped arguing tho...

Would most girls like my fantasy and how do I approach a girl about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I'd like to get a girlfriend that I connect with, but I'm not sure how she would react about something. I want a girl who would be willing for her and me to rub our bare feet against each other while laying next to each other. Absolutely no shoes or ...

She said he was "pervy"-What did she mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - I was talking with one of my best girlfriends, Lindsay. She went out with one of my best boyfriends Ray. She claims to of left him because he was "pervy". I dont get it, what did she mean. I've known Ray for over a year....im soo lost, some one help ...

Did I do the right thing for breaking up with her because I thought she deserved better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 and a half years. She is devastated. She gave 110% to the relationship but I could not return it. She feels used and thinks that I am an awful person. She did deserve a better fate for all that she put into ...

I've been in extreme pain ever since I found out he had a profile in a sex dating site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hi i have a big problem i have been with my commen law husband for 8 years in january im going on 23 he's going on 26 we have two children a girl age 6 and a boy age 5 we have had a rocky relationship but i know he has been faithfull for about 5 ...

Do I need to give us time apart to make him truely realise what it would be like without me?

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10 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years, it has been a great relationship, until the last month, as he has not been himself and i have had other stresses. Last week his phone goes off, but he has gone to bed and i read it as we're...

Does he remember our date or is he trying to make the week go by faster by being with his buds?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Alright, I don't know if I am digging to deep into this or am just over reacting...My boyfriend and I are supposed to get together this weekend and he knows it. Last week he left and (is still camping) with a friend. He didn't tell me what he was ...

How am I suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - how am i suppose to face my crush if he hates me and knows that i love him?hes 7 years older than me.........

How do I start dating again if I don't know anyone in my area?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - I just broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago and im ready to get back out there...But i just moved and i dont know anyone here. I'm really anxious to get back in the dating game but how do i do that if i dont know anyone here??? I ...

I was almost hit by my boyfriend - where do we go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I am in an overwhelming state of mind and don't really know what to do next. Here is what happened... A couple nights ago my boyfriend (of six years) and I had a casual night out. Dinner with his mom, and then we rented movies - but before we we...

Am I being rational in giving him some space and hoping he will come around, or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating a man for about 20 months. In March he was promoted and it has been very stressful for him, including traveling a great deal of time. He was recently gone on a six week trip to seven different cities with only a day or two rest in ...

How can I ask this pretty girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - seen this girl around, sent her few messages online general chat. How can i break the ice i want to meet her? I cant think how to do it. And i don't know how she would react because she is really pretty whereas i'm not even up to that standard. ...

I'm 18 years old and I have never had a proper girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - i'm 18 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. Only kissed once 2years ago. I've lost all hope! Everyone says the time will come, i been lookin for 6years at least and nothing has happened. Its me isn't it? I'm really nice, girls love me but only as ...

Could we ever become more than just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - im 18 and my best friends a girl who iv known for a about three years we have loads of fun together she stays at mine sometimes.But i want more than just friends. but she doesnt. we flirt constantly and have loads of time together just us two. we ...

What can I do to stop hurting? He stopped trusting me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (?) - We were together for 2 years. Wehad our issues, or maybe he did, I don't know. Maybe I did. Apparently I did. Who knows... Anyway, he was jealous. At the beginning, he told me, but it was just mild, once every blue moon, kinda cute jealousy. S...

Was this really a one-night stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Am so confused! 2 year ago i met a guy n we became friends. last year we were invited 2 a party n he showed more interest in me. later that night we went 2 his place, he wanted sex n i said NO. We kept in touch n 2 weeks ago i went 2 his place n we ...

I don't understand why she broke up with me so suddenly with no reason!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

10 September 2008 (M) - Hello everyone. I left England to study in Sweden for 6 months as part of my university course in january this year. It really was an amazing time. i met people from all across the world, and ended up being extremely close to 4 friends. One of t...

My boyfriend hasn't told his family about me yet...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - After 4 years together, my boyfriend still hasn't told his family about me. His family is just his sister and mum but still. His mum is coming to visit for Christmas and I think he should tell her before she gets here. His excuse at first was h...

I think my boyfriend is gay and is confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I have lived with for 8 years whom I have supported in every sense of the word...financially, emotionally etc. Has not worked consistently and is constantly on the computer at home, while I work my butt off to pay all the ...

How should I act around my crush? He's so shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

10 September 2008 (F) - Hey! I'm not sure about his feelings.. He is a friend of my friends and I really like him! .. we aren't friends .. and i don't know how to talk to him! .. today, my friends said "Andrea likes Andrew.. u are gonna make a good couple c´mon.. you guys...