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Dating: Help and advice

Will he judge me for being a 28 yr old virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 28 year old virgin, I've just started seeing a new guy but I am worried that he will judge me and will find it weird. ...

Do you think this is just my imagination or do you think he's attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hi, my friend introduced me to a friend of hers called Tom and he's quite a lot older than me. i put out my hand for him to shake and he gently shook my hand and didn't stop looking me in the eyes. he held on to my hand whilst i talked to him and ...

Do I get back with my ex lover, as I always do, or do I stay with my new lover?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - I have a girlfriend who ive been with for over 2-3 months. its good im happy. she made me straighter than i was before. but now my ex-girlfriend wants me back. she a very attractive and she wants to be with me again like it use to be. i might ev...

I have just started college and am working at the time so I am constantly tired and feel depressed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - hey im really depressed in life at the moment i have just started college and am working so i am constantly tired. my boyfriend has just gone back to uni and i wont be seeing him in a while. also his best mate commented his facebook a coup...

My boyfriend enjoys getting period blood over him, is this normal?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both 16. Weve been going out for seven months and we both lost our virginty to each other around 4 months ago. I was just wondering if this is normal that my boyfriend likes to finger me whilst im on my period ( i only ever...

Is he just not into me? How can I get him to open up and feel more comfortable around me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm really confused. My boyfriend is really frigid. He wont kiss me unless I ask, he refuses to have sex with me and I'm always the one that hangs up last, or suggests sex, or makes the first move in anything. I've tried asking him why this is the ...

Doesn't my boyfriend care that I don't have an orgasm?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've never had orgasm during intercourse, but previous boyfriends were always bothered, and tried harder to make me come, but my current boyfriend seems doesn't really care. We've been together for a month, and we've never really talked about sex ...

I'm just so insecure. I feel like I'm competing with her, and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Am I being completely irrational in feeling inadequate? Here's some background. I've been dating this guy for 4-5 months. Prior to dating him, I'd known him for two years. We were pretty good friends and he told me a lot about his personal...

My boyfriend seems to have changed a lot, and not in a good way. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hello :) erm well i'm really worried about my boyfriend. We've been going out for 10 months but he seems to be changing a lot and NOT in a good way :( The thing is, since he started college he has been very quiet with me, very sarcastic and seem...

Baseball....I love you...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - When I first started dating my current boyfriend I found a baseball that had "I love you" written on it on his dresser. It wasn't obvious, I found it when I was dusting (I am a neat freak :)) I questioned him about it and he said that he gave it to ...

What can I start a conversation about, just to get talking to this girl I really like?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - well basicallyy theres a girl at school that i like but we don't really know eachother, and i'm kinda falling for her :/ and really dont know why. but shes always with her friends so i cant go make conversation with just her. Also she is in the ...

I really can't tell if he fancies me and and need advice from people who know neither of us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Right, I'm in high school. I'm a thirteen year old, and almost eight months ago I started going out with this guy who I really liked. We got on well, but after a couple of months he broke up with me, and was very honest, and told me it was because ...

He was such a gentleman, so charming! But since he flew out of town, I haven't heard from him at all! I'm clueless! Men, what is your opinion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I was seeing a very gentlemanly, charming man for a little over a month. Every time we were together his charming ways would shine through more and more. I don’t even think he realized how charming he was being. He would say the sweetest things ...

I'm making it obvious....but does my shy guy like me back??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hope you can help me on this situation! I started college about 2 weeks ago, and instantly found myself liking this guy in one of my classes. I never talked to him at first as i was too shy to do so, but recently i've began to talk to him - I tend t...

Is playing hard to get a good strategy to get the person you want?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Hi all, This question has been around in my mind for quite some time. So I would like to know does doing that actually makes that person you want crave for you, like you more and wants to pursue you instead? 'Cos I am susceptible to becom...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my debts? I would rather do some clean up before letting him know...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I have really bad credit that I am working on. I don't want to tell my boyfriend but I think this is the one I will marry. I am sure we won't get married for well over a year, is it bad that I am keeping this information from him? I would rather ...

I made him move out and her's was the only place he could go, we're back together now but she's pregnant, how do I accept this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Me and my partner have been together eleven years. he recently had his head turned by someone at work. I made him move out and she was the only place he could go. After a few weeks he knew he had made a mistake and i accepted him back but now she ...

What to do about my lying boyfriend? He blamed it on me that he created a dating account! Do I believe him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - right so i'l try and make this short, basically me and my boyfriend nearly split up about 2 weeks ago and it was his choice he was saying he doesn't know wether he wants me or loves me anymore and we came to a decision that we were going to give it ...

My brother has asked me not to get involved with his coworker, but we like each other!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I have this huge crush and a guy at my local shooping centre, and he has one back problem, my brother is a work collegue of his. My brother has asked me not to do anything with this guy as he doesn't want me making his work life hard. But me and ...

What kind of present can I buy her, now that I'm employed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Hi I’ am 19 years and going to have a date with my 18 years girlfriend and I don’t know which gift to buy her. We have being dating since February 2007 and now I want to buy her something special because I’m now employed. I am going to meet at the ...

Who should I focus on trying to start a relationship with? I've fallen for my guy friend who is straight...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - First off, i just figured out i'm bi. I have fallen for my guy friend who's straight but also very "friendly" to me. Such as lots of hugs, clinging to each other during scary movies etc. I think it's best to keep it quiet between us. In addi...

I have lost interest in my current girlfriend, and I think about my ex-girlfriend, although it's been two years, since we broke up, what do I do at this point?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - i think i lost interst in my current girlfriend and i still yhink about my ex alot although it as been almost 2 years since i lost her...

She is my first girlfriend, and I think I love her, but am not sure, as she annoys me sometimes, not sure I want to break up either or hurt her, please help me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - So I have this girlfriend of about 6 months, she's my first girlfriend (I'm 17 she's 18), and it wasn't love at first sight, I just wanted a short relationship cause she left for college (in Europe) about 5 months in. But as we got further I started ...

My ex-boyfriend and I agreed to repair our relationship, but he got angry and won't talk to me.after he broke a date,and I got uposet with him, I saw him, and he wouldn't even speak, why is he reacting this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I are in the process of rebuilding our once really close friendship and had agreed to see each other Thursday. He cancelled on me Thursday and I got upset because I had rearranged my schedule around for him. So we stopped speak...

I am extremely overweight, after having two kids, would a woman who is 5' 3", and weighs 140 lbs, be attractive to men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I am 5'3 and have had two kids. I weigh 140 lbs and i feel extremely overweight. Before i had kids i weighed 120lbs. Do guys find girls attractive who have had kids and weigh 140lbs at 5'3?...

I am dating a man, who is ten years my junior, he just got custody of his two undisciplined pre-school kids, I try to help him with them, he also wants me to pay some of his bills, I feel I am being taken advantage of, please give me some advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hi, please help, im dating a man that just got custody of his 2 kids, they are both preschoolers. The mom died. We had been dating almost 3 months when this happened. We were living in different cities and now he moved to my city. The kids are ...

My boyfriend texts another girl while he is out with me, I have told him it bothers me, but he won't stop, is he cheating on me or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend says he loves me still and wont break up with me and when i hang out with him or talk to him on the phone he keeps txting this one girl and when i tell him it brothers me he doesnt listen to me.... i dont know if he is doing something ...

I constanly think about my boyfriend of about a year, I want to be with him, wonder if he is thinking about me, how can I reduce this constant longing to be in his presence, I can't focus on school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - i've been dating my boyfriend for a year at the end of this month.. and we've been through SO much over the last year and we manage to get through any problems we have.. but i feel like he's contantly on my mind.. i cant focus on school, or when im ...

My boyfriend and I have sex, without using protection, or birth control pills, what else can I do to avoid getting pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a year and a half and have never used a condom and I am not on birth control. I feel like we are playing with fire and that it is only a matter of time before I get pregnant, but then again maybe I ...

I want to return the favor of having oral sex, with my boyfriend, what tips can you give me, and does pubic hair turn guys off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Alright. So I've been with my first boyfriend for more than a year and I truely believe we are in love. For remarkable respect for my personal values and both of our readiness, we didn't get physical until the past few months. Lately, I've been ...

I really like this guy, and I want him to meet my father, so that we can see each other more, how do I approach my father about the two of them meeting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - (: So.. I Have This Boyfriend and + He's Really Perfect. Our relationship is going really good. Very deep and Smooth and We are sure we love each other. He's not like other guys and i definetley can tell. AS far as im concerned he would meet ...

Why would he ask for my e-mail if he wasn't interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - OK heres my story and i hope someone can honestly shine some lights on it. Im in school and theres a guy i like and since day one we have been flirting back and forth. Some minor touching and getting close. Lastweek he asks for my msn so i give it ...

I don't know what to talk about with my boyfriend. What do I say to keep it interesting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and me have been goin out for about four weeks now i think and when we end up talking/txting i dont know what to say or talk about except "what are you doing?" or "what are you doing for the rest of the day/tomorrow?" he works ...

I just don't know if I could be happy forever without ever experiencing being alone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I'm in college right now, and in a long distance relationship. ive pretty much been in a relationship since i was very young (different long term relationships, one after another) my boyfriend just finished school and is getting really serious about ...

I've told myself over and over again it's over, time to move on, but obviously nothing seems to work! Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5704 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - Hiya, I'm in need of a tad bit of advice. I'm fourteen, freshmen in high school, and I just cannot get over my ex. We dated from March of 2006 to October of 2007, a little over a year and a half. I was the one who broke up with him in October ...

I know this can escalate to something else...something terrible, but I like it, I mean I really like it. What would you do in this predicament?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy and now I'm staying with him. He's a bit older than me and he's very nice. I've known him for a year or two now, we only knew each other for about two weeks before I moved in with him. I thought he was the nicest guy. He showered me ...

I can't seem to get her past relationships out of my mind, and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

17 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 months. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginit...

Is it true you can get pregnant if a guy gets too close to you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

17 September 2008 (F) - I've missed my period, but i've missed it before i don't know why, but i wasnt pregnant cause i didnt have sex. But now im worried because i've heard that u can get pregnant if a guys gets close 2 u, if he touches u, and thats what happened, and now ...