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reader, 3mma  +, writes (2 December 2010):
Jerk it out, wank off do that kinda thing if you hv been then if yur gonna do a stranger or someone use a condom seriously you dnt know what they could be carrying. May be get a FWB (friend with benefits) have sex but ur just friends :L
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reader, KidishinHeart  +, writes (17 May 2009):
Well as Hanz1991 said masturbation can help but it can have side-affects specially if you do it a lot (lowers sperm count) best thing to do is just get your self involved in work or a hobby like Bg said. I'm having same problem and work and hobby's actually help you forget about being horny
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): Chances are that after wanting it for so long a single one nighter wouldn't be enough to satisfy your desire and you'd probably be wanting it just as much if not more the next day! Maybe you should get a boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2008): lexilou said: "One night stands tend to be crap and unsatisfying so you are back to square one the next day."
Yeah, my wife and I will second and third that. The sex is just so-so and the feeling is empty the next day and then you feel bad that you did it the next week after you have thought about it for a few days. Forget the 1 night stand.
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reader, Ah-ha +, writes (2 September 2008):
Yes, sex toys :)
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reader, lexilou +, writes (2 September 2008):
 One night stands tend to be crap and unsatisfying so you are back to square one the next day. If you feel horny masterbate, by a rampant rabbit!!!!
If you are not happy being single try new things and new places to meet someone x
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (2 September 2008):
 just serve yourself whenever you get the need
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reader, bg  +, writes (2 September 2008):
DON'T attempt the one night stand. Really. That's no good.Basically every male, ages 13-45 feels your pain right now. From experience I can recomend work. Immerse yourself in a new hobby or part-time job, that will keep you distracted at least. hanz1993 makes a good point as well, but that's not really something for a guy to prescribe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): By the sound of it you'll need about 364 one night stands per annum. You can have New Year's day off because no doubt you'll have a headache!
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reader, monkees4va +, writes (2 September 2008):
 Perhaps get some sex toys, they can really take away the horniness. otherwise, do you think you could handle the emotional implications of having a one night stand? If you orgasm quickly then you may be able to, but its pyschollogy proven fact that unless its specially designed masterbaters, a woman cannot climax unless she is in love. ;)hope you screw, i mean choose well
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reader, Straight Up1  +, writes (2 September 2008):
 One night stands will only come back to haunt you as you get older and are involved with a good guy. We really don't like an over experienced gal with numerous lovers!!Get yourself out to the sex shop and buy a couple of toys... this will keep you in control until you meet a good guy to call your boy toy Hahaa!!
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reader, hanz1993 +, writes (2 September 2008):
 just masturbate, that should help
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reader, Aunty Em +, writes (2 September 2008):
 If you do decide to go out and the pull and have a one nighter - do make sure you use protection. Sex with a stranger, whom you know nothing about is very dangerous. Make sure you use a condom!I suggest this because I imagine you've already tried masturbation over the 5 months ...
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