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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He hit me again today but I still love him. Please, someone tell me what to do...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hey, i'm 19, I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. About 4 months ago, he started hitting me. Nothing really to start with but it got worse. Today he burst my nose and strangled me, I think that it was probably the most terrifying ...

Je suis desolé

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Je suis desolé I never meant for it to end this way, Your woe breaks my heart, I guess what I want to say, Is I don’t want us to part. It kills me that I upset you so, I was just so happy to know you, I hate that I made you feel so ...

What was that attracted me about her? I was never attracted to her physically!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hi there. I dated "her" for 4 months. LOVED everything about her but...when it came time for sex..I wasnt attracted.or was I ...cant figure it out!!.We did a few times a week after much effort on my part...I always had to think of other women ug...

It's really hard for me to socialize and it's depessing me. Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hello. Well, i need help to get my life going. I have hardly any friends and spend most of my time alone in my flat. I've never had a girlfriend (yeah I'm a virgin as well) and in mid-twenties it don't seem right to be this way. I just want life to ...

Does this guy at work fancy me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I like this guy at work. He is 2 years older than me. He is sweet towards me most of the time. Saying things like im one of his favourite people to work with. He teases me a lot about different things, such as when I had sunburn he kept calling me ...

I'm thinking of getting an abortion but I would like some information about it first.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I am pregnant and considering having an abortion. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I drank and smoked reguarly the first month of the pregnancy because I didn't know I was pregnant (I'm a college student). I've probably already harmed the baby since ...

I don't know if I should visit this guy I met on the internet...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - i have recently meet a turkish guy on the internet we talk everyday and send text messages,im beginning to really like him,he wants me to go over on holiday and see him for a week i really dont no what to do here because of the distance and stories ...

Does this guy have issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Very strange guy i am thinking. See what you think. Were in same yr at school, met up on facebook few weeks ago, met in person 2 weeks ago tomorrow for a drink in the day. I went out with mates that night, he txt saying pop round on way home, i ...

Should I keep on dating my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I meet this guy as my teacher in highschool for one of my classes. Things started out simple enough where he was the teacher and i was the student, nothing more than that. but soon causal flirting from both of us started taking place, yet nothing ...

How can I make this boy like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I realy like his Boy..I talk 2 him..But i dont now if he likes me..So can you help me gett him 2 like me..?...

We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...

He says he flirts with other girls because he wants them to feel happy. Am I being unreasonable for not believing this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - heya last night i found out that my bf of a month likes to flirt wiv other gals i dont mind this but he likes to flirt alot he tells every gd luking gal he talks to ow gawjus they are he seys its just the way he is he seys he likes to make thm feel ...

Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5711 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) - Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...

How can I convince my boyfriend to have sex with me while I'm on my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - My sex drive seems to be at its highest when I have my period, but my boyfriend isn't keen on the idea of sex then because he doesn't like blood. I have never tried having sex on my period. Is it commonly done? What are people's views on it? I don't ...

Are there any suggestions that could help me get rid off my scars?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have a problem...not so much about a relationship but will be affected some day.... i used to self harm when i was a teenager and although i have completely recovered from them problems now i have a perminant reminder....i self harmed on my sto...

Is our age difference something to worry about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I just have a question. I am 18 and i believe i am falling for a 25 year old. I have known him a long time, we have been good friends. Is there something wrong with this? Is there too big of an age difference?...

Do these signs mean that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I think i mite be pregnant but im not sure. I was due to come on today. I took 2 pregnancy tests yesterday. A cheap brand I took at lunchtime showed a very, very faint positive line, i mean extremely faint. I went straight out and bought a mor...

When he dumped me, I had realized how mean I was to him and wanted to change, but it was too late. What can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I wonder if someone can help me. Me and my boyfriend had been together for just about 10 months. We had a lot of big things happen to us, that I think kept us stronger in the beggining of the relationship. He had totaled my car, and I also got...

Would a woman find a love letter touching even if she doesn't fancy the sender?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Just wanted to know whether love is fickle. Allow me to go into slightly more details! If a woman receives a love letter from someone she fancies, she may well like him even more - correct? If the very same words came from someone she does not...

How tight is a normal vagina?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both peo...

Our friendship is dwindling! Did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - hello all, i know a girl for a month and our freindship was so great, just great!. i have read some articles about how to know if she is interested or not interested and i find the two signs in her (interested and not). our freindsh...

Why do lonely people looking for love stay single?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I'm nearly 25 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. I remember back when i was 15 and my best mate got with the girl i liked and how terrible i felt. i moped for weeks. then about a year later - i was seeing a girl (if you can call it that) for about ...

He keeps wanting to meet up even though I have a boyfriend?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - yesterday, this boy i know told me that he really liked me, i kind of guessed from the way he always is with me; constantly talking to me, hugging etc. i was flattered, but had to say no for certain reasons. i thought and everyone else thought he ...

Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I was talking to this guy and things got pretty hot and heavy for a while. Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. Said he'll call and take 4 days to call me back. I took it as a hint he wasn't interested so I moved on. Then he calls ...

Do I fight for this one - or simply give up and get over her? Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I am clueless when it comes to women. Absolutely cluess! and far too shy. I kept thinking i wasn't liking girls as a defence mechanism- so that i wouldn't have to go through the pain of working out if she likes me and finding the right time to ask,...

My boyfriend is not affectionate to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years. I love him very much and i care for him deeply. I know that he knows my feelings for him. However, he rarely tells me that he loves me. The only time i hear it is when i say it first. And even then ...

I now realize that I was was wrong. What can I do for her to believe this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - so i went out with this girl for 2 years 10 months. the first year and a half was great, but the rest just got worse and worse. she broke up with me about a month ago becasue i never treated her right, i was too controlling, and angry most of the t...

What are the chances of pregnancy if you have sex while the girl is on her period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend has sex while she was on her period and didnt use a condom but i did not cum in her what are the chances she could get pregnent?...

I am torn between loving two women.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I am in love with two women. One my wife (about to be five years) that I have been seperated from for about a year and a few months. The other I have been with for the same amount of time. Yes, I lost touch with my wife and the goals I wanted in ...

My girlfriend has a low sex-drive and it's beginning to worry me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I am in a very happy relationship were very much in love and having a great time with each other. were both 20 and this is my first and her 3rd serious relationship. Recently we have taken each others virginity and are making love, which was fun but ...

Does anyone have any tips on asking girls for their numbers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I'm trying to get better at dating in general and talking to beautiful women. People say that I'm really good looking now, but being as I was overweight in high school I just don't feel comfortable chatting up strange women I meet and asking them ...

A lot of people think my girlfriend is a loser and she's afraid I'll leave her because of that, which is not true. What can I do to change her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) - I'm dating a girl who everyone says she's a loser (which she isn't) and I'm being treated differently for it. When we started dating all my friends kept saying need to dump her. She put up with a lot of crap from everyone (like jocks, popular girls ...

Should I follow everyone's advice and just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Can you really just Fall out of Love? I was head over heels for this guy for over three years but the last few months my psych meds have changed and I see how he has been treating me - it has gotten to the point that I now realize what my friends ...

Can't get rid of my feelings for this other girl! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Well 2 years ago i fell head over heels for a girl i know. She was in a relationship but i am reasonably sure had i not been so inept in my attempted courting of her she would have left him for me.I was alot younger and less experinced and acted ...

Was I a stalker, or just a jilted person with a big crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so I read someone else's question, and wonder am I a stalker, or just a typical crazy chick? I had a fling with this totally hot guy I worked with part time. I had, had a crush on him for over a year. when he finally asked me out I was thrilled. ...

Have I moved onto fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5714 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - ok well here is the thing. i was with this girl for 14 months and we broke up like 4 weeks ago. on the 30.8.08 i got with this girl and since that date we have been together. have i moved on too fast? i dont think i have but other people do and they ...

I'm disabled and can't date. Is it wrong to pay for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Im disabled for 3 years now, is it wrong to pay for sex ive never had to resort to this but now because of my disability i cant get out to meet women so i feel that is the only answer...

How can I make our relationship hot like it used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5715 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Well me and my boy friend have been dating for over 6 months. well for the last 2 weeks or so we've been kind of distant because we never get to hang out. Were in high school and school just started. we dont have any of the same classes. the only ...