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Archived questions from: 23 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

When we're alone it's quiet. How can I liven up the conversation with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i hate how it's silent with me and him. we've been going out for 2 days. we've known each other since middle school. when we're alone it's quiet. we're both not shy, but when we're together we just are! and when we're around people its usually like ...

Are his emails to his ex empty flirtation or leading to a fling?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year, and I am besotted by him. However, he is a very passionate and attractive man and had a number of romantic flings while with his long-term ex gf of 15 yrs (girl A - who he says he was with for the ...

I think he likes me, but he won't show affection in front of others. What's happening?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (?) - Hey Tonight ive had a great time. i was out with my friends and the guy i like called me , he decided to come out, and so he did, he walked me home and we sat down on the pavement . cuddled up . we then stood up and he hugged me from behind w...

Dated him a year and always felt like he was cheating..I just found out he was married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I was going with a guy and we just celebrated our 1 year anniversary on the 11th of September 08. I always thought that he was cheating on me because of the lack of time spent together with me and lack if any phone calls from him. I would tell him ...

My boyfriend never sees the best in me, but expects me to see the best in him! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - why does my boyfriend never see the best in me,yet im always expected to see the best in him, why do boys behave in this pathetic way? ...

Why do guys only like skinny, slutty girls and why don't they like overweight girls, who are great people on the inside? Any insights?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i want to know why guys are so mean and picky that they only like skinny girls that are slutty and why they don't like overweight girls. It really hurts my feelings that they judge me based on the way that i look and not whats on the inside, I ...

I'm frustrated! Why won't he talk about marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have lived together for two. When we first agreed to move in together I said that I would not move in if there wasnt a mutual agreement about marriage as Ive lived with 1 other person before and just want ...

This guy at work... is he into me because I'm crazy about him and what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I met him about 2 weeks ago at work, and ive only ever seen him for 30 mins, ever since hes been calling me every night and we've been on the phone for 4 or so hours every night, he says hes going to take me out and give me massages. We flirt ...

Is their any way of overcoming this shyness and if - how? Can you tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Hello agony aunts, I seem to have problems talking to girls. is their any advice you can give me into asking girls out ? I see my friends talking and getting numbers off girls on the streets, but i am unable to do it as something keeps on holding m...

I really don't want to break up with my boyfriend but I'd love a shot with this other guy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Right, i'm 14, and really, really confused. i have this amazing boyfriend who lives in the town next to me, he's 15. i see him on weekends, but recently i've developed a loving for a boy at my school, and i love them the same amount. i really dont...

I'm over him but I'm simply hurt at his lost of morals, and that there is hope for my current relationship - but I can't be sure. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I am a sophomore in college and am currently dating a new guy. We have been together for about two months now but I'm not sure if I still have feelings for my ex. My ex boyfriend and I had a very emotional connection. He was like my best friend and ...

My friended created an online profile of me on a dating site, I was contacted by a guy, we're in love and planning to meet but my profile lies about my age. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hello, i hope someone can help, my friend was mucking about on my laptop one night and made this fake profile for me on a dating site, she made my age to be 25, i didnt realise she did, then i checked it out one nite, and this guy had sent me an e...

I don't know if he's going to hurt me again. Is he just using me now for a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - hey guys im 17 , a junior. I had a boyfriend for a full year we were in love , with eachother 24/7 . i was so comfortable with him. this sumer i went off to camp and that runied everything. when i got back things just were not the same. we drifted ...

How I can explain to my girlfriend better that my porn watching does NOT mean I don't love her! I do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - I recently found out that my girlfriend has a huge problem with me watching porn. I'm not addicted or anything, i only watch it maybe once a week.I tried to explain to her that its just a normal thing that guys do and it doesn't mean i love her or ...

He came out of a bad marriage and told me from the get go that he is not able to commit, but I fell in love with him. Should I continue being with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy that I grew up with since April of this year. Things are going good or at leaast i feel they are. He came out of a bad marriage and told me from the get go that he is not able to commit. We spend our free time together ...

Would it turn you off if your new guy was in a serious relationship with one of your close friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - me and my ex girlfriend (lets say "Jen") were together for 4yrs, and engaged for 1yr during that period but ended up breaking up. Its been 8months since we broke up and we have stayed very close friends. I asked Jen about one of her friends ("Er...

Did I 'blow it'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5692 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I think I blew this date. Can I get some feedback? I met him briefly when I was hanging out with a bunch of other people. He later found me on facebook and we exchanged fun messages until he asked me on a date. We went and seemed like it was goin...

I've wanted to always run over to him, blurt out how much I love him, and hope that he says the same in return, but I know that's just a fantasy. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hey, Just wondeing, what's the best way to get a boy's attention or get him to notice you? I've just wanted to always run over to him blurt out how much i love him, and hope that he says the same in return. But i know that's just a fantasy....

Any advice on how to get rid of this jealousy and paranoia would be much appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, he's a fantastic guy and we should be really happy. But my trust issues and paranoia are destroying any chance of happiness we may have. Our relationship is a long-distance one, which I guess ...

How do I pick my future boyfriend out of these two guys I have a crush on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid.. I have a crush on two guys and I don't know what should do I??? the first one is friend from one of my class, he is named Mathew, and i really like him and he is all the time flirting with me, otherwise the second one is named andrew, ...

Is this is a good idea, or am I going to get my heart broken?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5694 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Ok this is maybe gonna be a long one so here goes! When I was 16 (now 24) I met this guy, hit it off straight away and fell for him. He is 4 years older than me so nothing could really come of it and besides, he had a girlfriend at the time...

I guess I've always been suspicious there was something more. Is he 'in to' me? What do you think?

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23 September 2008 (F) - Needing some advice as to what is going on with a guy I kinda have liked for a fair bit but which I have kinda supressed due to complications which are now gone. We shall call him William. For the last month William has been acting very oddly. Ther...

She cheated on me and got pregnant! So can I ever trust her to not cheat again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - This maybe abit long but it explains the whole situation, sorry for it being so long: Ok so I had been having a long distance relationship with my now fiance, we have known eachother for 13 years now, this October it will be 14 years. I am 20 years...

I can't even remember the last time I wore matching underwear. What does that tell you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years, i cant say we have ever had an amazing sex life....hes not very confident etc and we have sex like once a week. The problem is i think about sex all the time. I would love it everyday but when i dont have ...

Did my hymen break? Because the day after, my period also started.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i'm 19years old. i dont know about sex and hymen breaking. my bf wants to see my pussy and want to do fingerring in my hole of pussy but i dont want to do this. and when we meet l only he try to put finger in my pussy but not enter in it, and he ...

I have a boyfriend, but I'm also in love with a guy I can't have. Your opinions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5690 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - This might be long, but I'll try to make it as short as possible. Here goes... Basically, I'm in love with a guy that I can't have! (We'll call him Chris) And I have a boyfriend who we'll call Jay. I met Jay almost 3 years ago, and Chris about 4-...

How do I get her to date me and leave her boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Ok, heres the story. I've been flirting with this girl from my bowling league for weeks. Well now she's been flirting back as far as I can tell. She drew hearts all over my paper then tried getting on my moms good side and is always trying to smile ...

How do I cope with my bf and his loser friend... getting wasted and playing video games, all the time!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - so this may sound really dumb and petty but I live with my boyfriend and I work days, I get up at 4:00 am and I get off at two then I have school until 10:00 at night. My boyfriend works from 1:00 pm until maybe 7 or 8. He makes good money and pays ...

If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - If I was to carry out my feelings for my married neighbor would it be considered wrong? (If you straight off read that, you're going to say YES! So keep reading, maybe you'll understand better) They have been having marriage problems for a c...

Feeling insecure because she's a lot taller than me...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - Well im a 13 year old guy with a girl friend. I love my girlfriend and i know that heigth shouldn't matter but honestly im feeling insecure. i havent made any big scenes. i just am wondering how should i treat this issue? im 5'4 she is about 5'...

I want to get together with him but he always changes his mind. What's going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5695 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - hello i have a question.this guy that i'm talkin to is cool and we get along even though he can be irritating sometimes. I met him online and i knew him through one of his family members. we started off talkin on the phone and textin each other. i ...

I don't want to have to compete with these other girls.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5698 days ago

23 September 2008 (F) - i've got all that i've wanted. i got the boy that i wanted so bad and it was my goal. and now i have him. but now i feel like it's a competition. i have to work so hard with him because i don't want him to go with another girl. he asked me out ...

I really like this girl, but she doesn't seem very interested. Do I try and talk to her or let it be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

23 September 2008 (M) - So, There was this girl that was on one of my friend's myspace tops. So, she looked very beautiful and i added her. Well, she added me and i got ot lookin' at her pics and i started to really like her. This past friday our football team had an a...