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Archived questions from: 11 September, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I want to give him something different, something special for his birthday next month. Any ideas please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Okay, so it's my boyfriends birthday in a months time, and its the 4th birthday i'll have been with him but i'm looking for ideas for a nice present. I'm a pretty sentimental person so have made him things every birthday, christmas and vale...

Can anyone give me any tips on really good flirtng techniques??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hey everybody out there!! I was just wondering if anyone can give me any tips on really good flirtng techniques?? What are the main things that men use as a way of flirting? And can anyone tell me if constant eye contact really means anything...

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and he's just told me he's married, but separated for the past 11 yrs.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I have been involved with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and he has just told me he is married but separated for the past 11 years to the women I thought was just the mother of one of his children. We live in North Caroline and she lives in ...

I would like a girlfriend, but I find it so hard to go out meeting people, I seem destined to stay alone forever.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - Hi DearCupid I'm having problems at the moment. I always seem to be lonely and on my own. I have always been shy and nervous of people. As such I have issues communicating with people and never know how to talk properly to people. I have never had...

I love my boyfriend so much, but this other guy is blowing my mind! I feel like a love-sick puppy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 23 years old, and have been dating my boyfriend for almost eight years now. We are high school sweethearts. It has been great, he is such a sweetheart and takes really good care of me. I have so many feelings for him and I am so ti...

I'm kinda scared of getting hurt or rejected because I haven't felt this way about a girl since my ex and I broke up .

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - I'm 18 and havent dated for a long time since january when me and my ex broke up, and ever since i've been doing my own thing not giving myself time for girls. i've seen girls but it didnt really work out because i never put in time for them because ...

His actions are telling me he really like me...what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - hi i'm really confused i really want to know if this lad likes me i really like him! we first saw each other at this fitness class that we go to and he is always staring at me and when we first met i smiled at him when he was staring and he went ...

I like him but it seems he is trying too hard to impress me. How can I tell him to relax?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (?) - I recently started dating this guy. Hes great and sweet but the problem is he seems to be trying too hard impress me. I really like him but I wish just he relex a bit. It gots on my nerves any guy trying too hard. How can I tell him to relex?...

Guy blew me off so I sent him an apology! He said he'd get back to me..what does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Well this guy that i dated kind of blew me off, so I sent him this really cool apology letter. and I text him and ask did he get it and he said yes, he's thinking he will get back to me. What does that mean?...

I've fallen for him but told him we can just be friends because he has a gf. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5708 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - okay i have a slight problem they guy i fallen for (just going on 17 im nearly 16) has got a gf, he has been one of my best friends or ages and im really close to him like more than most people but like he hs a gf, and recently he told me he liked ...

My girlfriend got naked at a pool party and I'm not okay with this. Don't you think she needs to respect my feelings?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - Hey there. Here is my problem. My girlfriend of roughly three years went to a birthday pool party at one of her friend's houses. I heard from a friend who also went to the party that later in the evening my girlfriend got quite drunk and ended ...

I took on an 'instant family' but suspect she's now cheating! Is she?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - hiya i have a problem im 23 and i have taken on a girl ov 26 with to boys that mean so much to me weve been together for 1 and a half yrs and jus recentley she has slowd down on txting me and seeing me i havent seen the kids for a week now and the ...

Is it me or is it his verbal abuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I'm 29 my boyfriend of three yrs.is 37. He has raised my three yr. old son since the age of five months. I love him very much and find it difficult to leave him though at times think I should. He is verbally abusive to me, most of the time in ...

Date someone new or be with my ex who I know respected me and my limits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - well a couple of weeks ago this boy i fancy who i met through see cadets asked me out we're quite good friends and we talk a fair bit alot of people think we make a cute pair. The next day my ex boyfriend told me he still loved me and wants to go ...

I am tired of feeling undervalued and wish he only had eyes for me. Should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I am an attractive, intelligent, 39 year old divorced mother of two and have been dating "Mark" for 2.5 years. The problem is Mark likes to look at, compliment and flirt with other women. He often stares at attractive women when in my company. ...

How to stop being a hopeless romantic? I am sick of being nice and going nowhere.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I am a 22 year old guy, have never been on a date, and am very shy around girls. I have only been "close" to a few girls in my life, but never anything serious. Anyways, when I do get closer with them, I try to do little nice things for ...

Before we marry he wants me to sign a prenuptial contract, my heart says yes but my pride says no!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Im in my early twenties, my partner is in his thirties. basically we are getting married next year but before we do he wants me to sign a pre nup, i am quite offended by this as now i believe he doesnt trust me. his not a millionaire but has his own ...

She won't return my calls after I had to cancel our date for a valid reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - About 3 weeks ago, a girl that I liked and liked me sort of "asked me on a date." She wanted to go boating with me, and I said I'd do it, and we agreed on a date to meet. She was thrilled about going with me. Well, turns out, the boat rental ...

I fancy the boy who gets on my bus to school, how can I start a friendship so I can build on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - hello. ok im going to give you all the details because i really do need some advice. there is this lad who gets on my bus to school and i really like him. even though he is in the year below me. i reckon he knows my face type of thing. but i don...

I have below average boobs....what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what ...

What do I get him for Christmas? I need ideas!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Hey!! I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend of a year [on and off] is turning 19.I know it's a little too soon to be thinking about Christmas but I really don't know what to get him.This is our first Christmas together and he told me to just ...

Is calling him 'too much' when he says he wants space because of my issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Last week me and my boyfriend got into this huge,huge argument and he moved back home wednesday of last week in the beginning i kept bugging him because iwas really depressed then i went to a friends house to talk about the situation that weekend i ...

Did he have sex with her and how do I get him to admit it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of four years took his cousin to the prom this year because we were "on a break" but still together. I went with one of my good friends and my boyfriend and I ended up spending most of the dance and after party together. I thought he ...

Twisted Love: he's cheated on me over 20 times!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with the same guy for five years. We have had some amazing times and some terrible times. He has cheated on me over 20 times (4 of them having sex with other girls) I cheated on him twice (having sex with two other ...

Is this 15 year age gap a problem or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - hello right i have started seeing a man who is 15 years younger than me i am in my 40s and he is in his 20s. we work closly together and have a fantastic relationship, he is sweet and kind and gets on great with my children, he is just perfect all ...

His ex won't leave him alone, and I'm sick of feeling that he's telling her one thing and me another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I am/was dating this guy. It is complicated. I just got out of a two year relationship in May and I told the current guy some of the details and how difficult the relationship was. We had heart to hearts and I explain how I didn't want to be hurt ...

Why won't he ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Met a guy out a few weeks ago but we live over an hour apart...anyway we got on really well just clicked...felt i could be myself around him and he has said that also. However, we have kept in contact, texting and calls and last night i asked wh...

He was talking to his ex and other girls on the dating site so we broke up. Now we'd like to try again but I'm not sure I can trust him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Ok, So, I met this guy online and we started talking. He was 5 or 600 miles away so I never thought it would amount to anything, it was just someone to talk to. After talking for several months, it grew into something more and we decided to meet. We ...

Was he really just trying to be funny? Was he waiting to see how I reacted? Was he just trying to dodge the question of if he wanted to see me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5710 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I joined a "dating" website a few months ago, and am now in a stage where I'm going on real dates with guys that I've been chatting with via email. I went on a date tonight, that I felt like went pretty well. We were out for quite a long tim...

Does love mature when you get married or does dating pretty girls just set you up for disappointment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - I'm a popular guy and I've never had trouble getting girlfriends. And whenever I want a girlfriend I always make sure I get a pretty one. But I'm worried if this makes me shallow. I'm scared that if I get married to a woman she'll grow old and I w...

I used to date this guy, we broke up, now he calls me a slut, which is very annoying, what should I do, is there a good verbal comeback?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Well i know this boy named evan and he used to go out with me and then he broke up with me. but now he calls me a slut and it is so annoying and i have no comebacks so what should i say to him....

My problem is that I find myself being jealous over my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend who is dead, I also find myself reading his e-mails, and getting angry over messages to any woman, how do I get over these feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for...exactly 17 months. We live together, are in a "commited" relationship, and get along really well. A year ago, his ex-girlfriend passed away in a tragic accident, and the year before that his father ...

With a pending election, my girlfriend is totally involved in the political scene, and I am feeling neglected, as she has little time for me, how can I talk to her about what I feel, in a positive way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (M) - Hi everyone. With the election going on, my gf is obsessed with it. Participating online discussion, watching news all the time. I tried not to talk politics with her because that will only lead to more argument. However, now she to...

I'm a little unsure about how I could strike up a conversation with him (and where)-Advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I'm a 14 year old female and am a sophomore in high school. Despite my age, please answer seriously. I moved to a town in California about a year ago, and just moved into a house more recently. I've found that I have a *ahem* attractive neighbor, ...

Isn't it hard enough being single? How do get through this embarassment?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - I'm knocking on 30 and have never been in a serious relationship. Honestly, I haven't been on many dates either. No one seems interested in me. More and more my single friends are getting married and the married ones are having children and I ...

My boyfriend cheated on me, and my family thought we broke up because of his cheating, I am still secretly still dating him, how do I keep my family from finding out about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - So i dont care what you say about me but i would like advice please.. but yeah im dating this guy and we've been dating for awhile and yeah hes cheated on my once and the family knows...but me and him are secretly dating...none of my family knows,...

I'm involved in a consensual three-way relationship with two other women... and now they want to bring in a fourth! Do I say yes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4119 days ago

11 September 2008 (F) - Okay, my situation may seem a bit wierd but i need some help. I am in a three-way relationship with two women, Tara and Sophie. We are all lesbians and we are all involved with each other intentionally. We have had sex together numerous times over ...