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writes:i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play fight(argue) but never actually fight, and i'm comfortable around her. But there is another guy who flirts with her (i never really liked him and he's kind of a nerd, but really good at sports like me) and he knows her better than me and longer than me (since kindergarten)While i've known this girl since 6th grade). Girl 2 is a little prettier than girl 1, funny and does so sexual things to me, like touch and pinch my butt(its sooo awesome and there is a difference between the two trust me). i am a little more attracted to girl 2 and like the personality of girl 1 a little more. Dont get me wrong they are both super hot and both have great personalities. I am comfortable around both, but each has one trait that is a little better than the other.(which is surprising since i am not usually very comfortable around pretty girls and these are the prettiest 2 i know - it's kind of weird) People tell me that i should go out with girl 2. And girl 1 i have more competition with. They both are friends with me but i want to know them better. Which one should i go for and how do i get to that person better?
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reader, Miss Misunderstood +, writes (3 January 2011):
 I think you should just continue to get to know the both of them better as friends, do not rush into a relationship right away. Over time, you will notice more things about the two girls both the good and the bad, and knowing these things can help you make the best decision.
However the second girl you mentioned doesn't sound like she would make too great of a girlfriend in my honest opinion.. doing sexual things to guys that you are not in a relationship with shows a little lack of self respect, and this could cause you some problems in the future if you two decide to start dating. (EX. She could cheat on you, do things behind your back.. etc.) But I mean no one on this site knows the situation as well as you do.
Just follow your heart. :) Do what you feel is best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): Talk to both and see if either one likes you, if they both do, then really think about if you like Brains over Beauty or the other way around.
Everything happens for a reason.
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