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*ayona1
writes:this man that i see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gesture. he said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. he watches me and sometimes walk back and fourth to his office when he knows im in the hallway and he make sure he say something to me where ever im at even if he already spoke to me earlier. so i text him on his email but he never respond back until i text and told him that i think he was sexxy, and gorgeous and then he responded with he appreciated it, thanks, that was it i texted him again and still no response i want to know do u think its flirting thing that he just doing or is it more
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reader, iayona1 +, writes (27 January 2011):
iayona1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question now he still speak and call me baby everyday, he even engages in a conversation with me daily. he questions me about who i came to work with or rode to work with if he see me get out the car with someone or if he see me at a store and he thinks im with a guy, he'll ask me who was i with at the store but in nice way with his question. he watches me while im talking or sitting at my desk and people will tell me they saw looking at me when im not paying attention. can anyone tell what is going on with this man?
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reader, iayona1 +, writes (17 January 2011):
iayona1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): Sounds like he enjoys the flirting and looking at you, but isn't interested in anything more. A normal guy who is interested in a girl would have asked her out already!!! He never did, he just lead you on, then you ended up spillng your feelings to him! It should be the other way around!
Now quit being silly. This guy is playing some type of game. You don't want a man like this, he'll end up hurting you. Who knows, maybe he has a girlfriend??
His actions are immature and rude. Now you see what type of person he is. Keep your distance and pretend you are NOT interested.
Read this book "He's just not that into you" and "why men marry bitches".
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (2 January 2011):
 I think that he enjoys abit of harmless flirting, bit of banta. I think that by you texting him saying he was sexy and gorgeous, then texting him agian after that you have gone over the boundries of simple flirting, and its made him think.
There are a few woman where i work, and i do flirt a fair bit, with touches and gesture's, but its just harmless fun, but in reality if one af them started to send me texts like the one that you sent, my response would more than likely be the same as the guy you are talking about. I think you have got to be very careful when taking things further with people you work with, because in the beginning when things are good, then thats fine, but if/when things went pear shaped you then have to continue seeing them every day, and this can become very arkward.
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reader, tone +, writes (2 January 2011):
 pretend youre not interested anymore even if you are.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (2 January 2011):
 He may have been (sounds like it) flattered by your attention and the email you sent about how you think he's sexy and all, BUT it seems to me that to send that to someone you basically don't know (do you even know if he's married or in a relationship??) was a bit over the top.
If I were you I'd just leave him (and it) completely alone at this point. Be polite if he says hello, but no more than that. If he's really interested he'll make sure he engages you in conversation, or will perhaps invite you to go out for a coffee.
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