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Dating my ex girlfriend's best friend has turned into hell! Everyone hates me!

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Question - (2 January 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2011)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I am dating my ex-girlfriend's best friend and everyone is mad at me and hates me except for my girlfriend. I love her a lot but my life is starting to be a living hell. Do you think it was a bad choice to go out with her? If no how do i get them to stop hating me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

How would you feel if your best friend started dating your ex? Usually isn't the best idea but what's done is done. If you are happy with her, then enjoy. Eventually your friends will come around and if they don't, then that's just the way it has to be.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

Thank u guys soooo much!!!

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (2 January 2011):

Well they probably hate you because maybe they don't want to take it out on your new girlfriend, but they probably hate her too. It's usually not the best idea to go out with your ex's friends--same with your ex's friend going out with you. So you can look at the bright side and they probably hate you both but just take it out on you more. They'll get over it eventually.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 January 2011):

person12345 agony auntI doubt there's anything you can do now. Breaking up with her will probably only make everyone else still hate you, plus she'll hate you. You made the choice, you may have to just ride it out.

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A female reader, babiigurl United States +, writes (2 January 2011):

babiigurl agony auntI think if you an her are happy with eachother great. You can't make everyone happy so start with yourself first. I can see why they may have a problem, but if they are truelly your friends an love you they should notice what makes you happy. Stay strong an hold on to her.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

if you really love her then nothing can hold you back and just tell your friends that its your choice who you date

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A female reader, Mjfbla United States +, writes (2 January 2011):

Mjfbla agony auntYou cant control that. If you love her then stay with her. You have to know people most likely dislike her for dating you. Stick to your feelings for her. Who cares if people hate you. Do you love those people? Eventually they will get tired of hating you.

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