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Can people really change??

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Question - (3 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2009)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey!!

Ok where do I begin!! I have been going out with my boyfriend on and off for over two years!! The first year was a joke because we kept fighting and he was'nt faithful but over the last year he has really changed!! He really does love me and is a completley different guy now than what he was before!! The thing is I dont know if I completley trust him. We both come from a messed up family background!! Lets just say both our familys would'nt be for the whole I love you or sitting down and actually having a conversation with each other for more the one minute!!

I think the question Im asking ye is, do you think people can change?!!!! He said to me that he did'nt change for me but for himself and he is much happier now than what he was like years ago. Should I believe him??

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A female reader, sunnycomet Canada +, writes (4 October 2009):

sunnycomet agony auntI think you should trust him since his behavior backs him up and yes people can change.

I hope this helps, Good Luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2009):

Changing, In terms of people is a pretty broad area.

I personally believe people can change in some areas, But not in others. Like people can change opinions, but they cant changes how they think of those opinions.

A good example is People can change there actions, But not there thoughts.

If you were together 2 years and still dont know if you can trust him, It kinda sounds like you should move on.

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