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writes:hey i have a problem i am really lonely although i get alot of attention from guys they all just want sex from me and i dont want to have sex until im either married or in a serious relationship but all my friends tell me to keep a guy i have to have sex with them and give them oral sex so what should i do
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reader, charlie p  +, writes (3 October 2009):
This isnt an easy problem, but i think you have to stay the course. i finished with my long term girlfriend because of her promiscous past so i think a girl who thinks like you is a clear winner, and i can guarantee that there are many many other men who feel exactly the same.
the other thing, though, is that they dont advertise this, so i imagine theyre harder to find. but when you do find one its worth 100 of the other who wouldve used and abused. so like i say, keep it up and im sure you'll do fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2009): you should never compromise your values to get or keep a guy! be patient and wait for someone who really respects and appreciates you for who you are.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 October 2009):
Most guys in this day and age will want sex, so your options are to get married pretty soon into the relationship, or accept that you are going to have to look for a LONG time to find one who believes in no sex before marriage.
It could well be that you are looking for your men in the wrong places.
If you want a guy who is going to wait and be respectful then bars and clubs are a BAD idea.
Find a place you can find a guy through friends, one that you can make friends with first and then get into a relationship and fall in love with.
The good news is you are in America where there are a lot of religious types who still believe in no sex before marriage.
You might want to try going to church groups or joining volunteer programmes.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
Your friends are wrong. Don't sell out. There are guys out there who will really value you more for who you are. You're doing brilliantly and you should be very proud of yourself. You need to take it slow with the guys that you meet and like. A really good guy will take his time, respect the fact that you don't want to have sex until you're married and like and love you for who you are. Just take your time getting to know guys you like and don't let your personal standards drop. As for your friends, they only understand the bad guys, not the good ones.
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