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writes:Just a question on this whole I need 'space' and 'time' thing!!There's a guy who I like and I think he does really like me but its been a really weird couple of weeks - kinda started as bed mates and then getting closer. Anyway - I think that we reached that point of things just changing and he has just said that he just needs time and space to think about things. I was kinda - okay cool - I respect that. I think he is a little freaked out by the whole thing!But when a man needs time and space - does it actually clear their heads and make them see things with a bit more clarity??Am curious to know from a male perpective.Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay - now this guy just will go a few days of not contacting and then there is a text saying hello and that he would love to see me. He's saying that he cares and respects me but is just not ready for relationship....
Could this change in time - or am I just being a silly romantic :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Caringguy - that does make alot of sense. I was figuring on giving him till the end of Oct - not going to wait for him and am getting on with life. But alas - I do like him....
But yes - I think he's just not sure if he wants a relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 October 2009):
It means he's not sure whether he's ready for a relationship, it means that you're not someone he's sure about being with. It means that he may not be the one for you. I think you need to sit down with him and ask him why he feels he needs space. Please don't wait around for him to clear his head. He may not. And you'll be wasting time. I'd say give him one month and see how he feels. If he's still 'needing space', end it and move on.
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