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What kind of flirting do men really like?

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Question - (3 October 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

What kind of flirting by women do men really like? I mean, what types of things get a man's interest going in a good way, getting him intrigued and attracted, and interested emotionally and physically. I mean as opposed to the stuff that just makes a woman seem like she's trying too hard. I'd welcome anyone's opinion, but I would especially love to hear from q1605!

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (3 October 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntDepends on the guy.

But on the whole, whatever you do, don't overdo it.

Perfume makes you smell nice but you should not set the sprinklers off.

Smile at his jokes, but only the funny ones, fake smiles are fake.

Look up at him but don't make him look down on you.

Whatever you do, don't make him think "What the fuck does she want of me" or worse "wow an easy one!".

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A female reader, sarcy24 United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2009):

sarcy24 agony auntI too would love to hear the views of q1605!

Listening as Caring Guy said is imperative especially about work issues and then give informed non judgemental replies that always make his actions appear to be the right ones. This is truly really boring but it does work but can go on for ever. Being sweet and caring is also important, never say anything bad about anyone and offer your time to help them with regard to ironing, dry cleaning runs and things like that. Being a lady, demure and with limited swearing also works. That will build a relationship and keep them attached and attracted to you.

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A female reader, old-spinstah United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2009):

I'm currently struggling with the same issue myself, dear! I shall read your replies with interest. I have never been able to find the happy medium. Too little flirting and the guy doesn't even notice. Lay it on too thick and he either thinks your a slut only fit for sex or a psycho husband-hunter and he's off!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2009):

Ask him about himself and listen. Listening is one of the best ways to get someone interested in you! Also, flutter those eye lashes, act a bit girlie at time (bot too much) and smile and laugh at his jokes.

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