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female
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anonymous
writes:I've recently started at university, and met a guy on my course who is just amazing. We get on really well, similar interests and we just 'click'He's told me he has a LDR with a girl in Eastern Europe and even though he likes me, he wants things with her to work even though it's complicated.I dunno whether to just wait it out, or if he literally said that I'm second best.I really need some guidance on how to proceed.thanks guys
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reader, Ask oldersister  + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
 No, don't wait, it could take him a year or more to discover LDRs don't work. Be his friend, date other guys, and don't do anything to compromise his relationship. You aren't second best, he's just completey unavailable to you, okay? Take care.
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
 I don't think he's telling you you're second best. He likes you, is attracted to you and has enough respect for you not to string you along assuming the LDR is long distance enough you'll never find out about it.
Something between you two may develop in time, but for now, consider yourself single and free and act accordingly.
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