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writes:My problem is that my boyfriend has trouble making new friends, but when he does, they always seem to be girls. I wouldn't normally have a problem with this, but he does get a lot of female attention, and I'm finding it hard to deal with because a lot of the girls he makes friends with have the hots for him.About a month ago, he got asked to do some artwork for a local band, and last week he met up with the person who asked him to do it, who was a girl. He ended up missing his bus home and he stayed at her ex's house so that I wouldn't be angry or upset with him for staying at hers. But he let slip today that he had been in her house. I know he wouldn't cheat on me, but this still upsets me because he's just gone to some random girls house.I should also mention that I'm pregnant, so my hormones are all over the place and since I found out he's going to the halloween party, I can't stop crying...Do you think I'm beig unreasonable about him making friends with girls? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): If you are pregnant with his child he should be compromising on some level. If it bothers you than he should try and modify his behavior,especially since these women are attracted to him. How would he feel if it were the reverse? In addition, you are pregnant and this is tough as well. I do not think you are unreasonable at all if he wants this relationship to be long term. Although, he does not cheat, it is very easy to make a mistake after a few drinks with one of these friends. I am sure he would feel the same way if you did this. I would feel exactly the way you do if it was me. Best Of Luck!
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