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writes:I've been seeing someone for about 2 months. We talk daily and usually see each other 2 or 3 times a week. When we do get together it's for hours on end. I haven't slept with him and have told him that I'm not ready and he's said he's ok with waiting for me. Recently I met some of his friends and his sister and the other day he invited me to a family lunch in a week or two.I asked him one night if he's seeing anyone else and he was so surprised that I even had to ask...he just assumed that I knew he wasn't. I told him I wasn't seeing anyone else either and he said that he was happy to hear that. So I guess this is exclusive now but I still don't know if he's my 'boyfriend' or if we're just 'seeing' each other. Neither of us talks about the future and all that and I think it's too early to talk about that. He's said that he's enjoying the time with me now and I don't think I can ask for more at this point. I know I should live in the moment but as a girl, I can't help but wonder. Does it sound like he's looking for a proper relationship with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, jeslet992  +, writes (20 October 2009):
The best way to know is just to ask him. Honesty goes a long way, but don't make it too serious. Just be like, "if I referred to you as my boyfriend, would I be wrong?". From his reaction, you'll know for sure.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 Yes it does sound like he wants to be in a relationship. The only way to confirm that you are in one is to ask. Try something along the lines of:
My relationship with you is feel so close, does this mean we are a couple or something?
Hope this helps! Good Luck!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 It is obvious that he wants you.
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reader, shabana47  +, writes (20 October 2009):
it sounds like he's in a proper relationship with you, even if you aren't sleeping together. i mean, if he's not seeing anyone else, then...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): Okay this is what i think. You need to get him into the game. Some boys want to get girls in bed. My boyfriend already got me in bed with him and have sex. Now he wants to do it again.
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