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writes:Wow! This a long story so I will just make it short. There is so much that has gone on for so long, I met this guy nearly five years ago and I was going through a rough time, i had just lost my previous boyfriend in a car accident so me and this guy went out and that was it I never went home we were together and somewhere down the line things started getting rocky so I moved out and he begged and pleaded but I had to go, my mom had passed away during the time that we were together and he didn't come to the funeral claiming that the ticket was expensive but forget all that so we were still going at it on and off and we worked together and one day a girl comes to the job and she was his girlfriend for two years and at that time he and i were to together for three years so she and i went to his house and there was another girl in his house so after all that we tried to work things out but still the same old thing and now he has a girl pregnant and we are still going at it. i need to know is this love? does he love me? or what, i know that we have no future together and we are just wasting one another' s time but for some unknown reason we just cannot get enough of each other and I must admit that I do feel bad and I want out but I do love him dearly. Should I risk everything I feel and just rid myself of him or should I keep going? I need help
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): Too many other people involved!
How can he say he loves you when he has the one girl pregnant, another girl on the side, the girl who came to your work,plus you!
You may not be able to get enough of him because he's a busy guy. He's having the time of his life having the four of you!
Back in my younger days, I'd juggle 5 or 6 women. I'd tell them all what they wanted to hear, just to keep them coming back. Every one of them heard "it's just you baby, no one else"!
I was a real piece of work!
It took time to learn my lesson, but do you have 20 years to waste?
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