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I need your advice guys... I'm confused about my sexuality...

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Question - (24 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 January 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, *annii101 writes:

Well here we go I'm 13 years old and I have this girlfriend for 8 months, we get into fights a lot and we have broken up 2 times. I am really happy with her we mess around when we see each othere but.... summer of 2008 I saw my sister's guy friend jacking off in my bathroom and I liked it and he let me watch him! He is about 17 years old and I liked it. But I think I might be gay or bi now I don't have a problem with it but I don't want to here with my girlfriend when I go to high school and find a guy what do I do?!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

I'm 13 and i'm a girl and i kno what your goin through. I've thought about what it would be like if i went out with a girl and i guess it would hav been great but i never went out with one. Turns out i have WAY stronger feelings for boys.

If you are a bi i wouldn't really tell any1 now because people in schools can b REALLY imature and start calling you names. Thats what i did.

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A male reader, mannii101 United States +, writes (24 January 2009):

mannii101 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks I kinds helps but I dont think its gross. The thought of being with a guy makes me feel warm inside and idk maybe I like both who knows I just dont want my girl friend to find out but if I do wind up being bi I just hope people exsept me:(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

umm im 14 and kinda had the same problem.....

i dont really know all that much of your situation but its probly becuz you're going through puberty and are curious about people of your own sex..its curiosity everybody has it...and girls have it too, they wonder about beying woth girl

in my case im all into girls but but sometimes get arroused seeying pictures of naked guys but still think it's utterly disgusting to be with guy so i waz juss as comfused as you, but im gonna stick to grlz,

soo anyways you choose wich gender you want to be with, you choose your sexuality....and it could juss be curiosity.so dont worry about it

hope ive helped

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