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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my fiance have been together for almost 3 years. One of our mutual friends (I have known her for years and he and her are more associates than friends to me but whatever) has recently moved to our state. My fiance got her a job with his company. They talk on the phone almost daily and text eachother a lot. One part of me trusts that is innocent and possibly even work related but another part of me is not so sure. When it comes to females...I dont trust them further than I can see. I dont know why....I just don't. Could it be something going on or am I just paranoid for nothing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Well, I would keep my enemies close, ask him if you can meet her and him for a drink or coffee sometime and let her know that he is in a solid relationship.
It is probably just work related friendship as she is new in town, new on the job, etc....but you might tell him that it annoys you a bit that she is calling and texting so much, and would he put her on the back burner when you are with him....would that help?
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (24 January 2009):
 i agree, but i'd still be wary if i were you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Unless you have more than paranoia to fuel this then it's safe to assume it's just friendly.
I have a LOT of male friends whom I communicate with through text, phone and email daily and it's just friendship.
I think what needs to be addressed is your trust issues with all women. No good can come of you not trusting any woman you are with, as you will only drive yourself crazy and ruin relationships.
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