A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this girl a lot and its pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day i asked her if i could take her out on a date on the weekend and after talking about it i realized this had to be a special evening, we have gone out for dinner a bunch of times before but never decided that it was dating and it was casual. Now that i have to make it more like a date and less friends getting dinner i'm feeling overwhelmed, i cant talk about the stuff i would normally talk to her about because i'm comfortable with her, i have to create romance and make her feel special but i dont know what to do.Can anyone help me? how can i make this night different? how do i let her know that this isnt just grabbing dinner again as friends? i hope people get what i mean :s Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 February 2009):
Dress up, go later, go to a quieter posher restaurant, bring her a rose, make it a darker more candle lit affair.
Then it's just a case of being more romantic, telling her that she looks beautiful etc etc.
Good Luck!! xx
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