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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this girl a lot and it's pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day I asked her if I could take her out on a date on the weekend and after talking about it I realized this had to be a special evening, we have gone out for dinner a bunch of times before but never decided that it was dating and it was casual. Now that I have to make it more like a date and less friends getting dinner I'm feeling overwhelmed, I can't talk about the stuff I would normally talk to her about because I'm comfortable with her, I have to create romance and make her feel special but I don't know what to do.Can anyone help me? How can I make this night different? How do I let her know that this isn't just grabbing dinner again as friends? I hope people get what I mean. :s Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): Your still the same people, so it shouldnt have to change the atmosphere between you two.
If you want it to be something more then still just be yourself!
There has to be a balance between making more effort,but not trying to hard as it might be too much.
Buy her some chocolate, or a rose or just some small simple gesture to show her you care.
Actions can fill gaps that words could find akward :)
Hope it goes well for you both.
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reader, ShanL  +, writes (22 January 2009):
 okay buy her something that will light up her face and feel special & you could even put a heart of roses on the table where you two are sitting. but the way any girl would feel special is a guy taking time, listening, and most of paying attention. use the red (or her favorite color) roses and make that heart or maybe even her favorite candy. cater to her needs also but dont over do it you know her and what she likes so...it'll be easy
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