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writes:When a pretty girl wakes up next to you in the morning and her face doesn't look so pretty and her hair's a mess, does it bother you boys? or if she's always doing her make-up does it make her seem insecure? curiosity
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): i do think it is insecurity; i wear a full face of make-up everyday and can't even look my boyfriend of a year or any of my family members in the eye without it on. If i a guy wants to be with you; then they want to be with you, whether you look a scratter or not. I mean, lets face it, theres not many naturally gorgous girls out there and if a guy isn't going to settle for anything less then they're not exactly worth it.
&plus, i actually don't think most men could care less or even notice, my boyfriend doesn't even know the difference with or without the slap when i know i look completley different.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (22 January 2009):
well i work in TV, so i am always surrounded by these "beautiful actors" but it don't stop me from going to work looking a mess. i think women who need to put on a full face of makeup must have a little insecurity. guys love waking up to a natural woman, because if they didn't why would they have stayed over or be living with that girl? they find us beautiful with or without makeup.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (22 January 2009):
 I know that my boyfriend likes when I get all done up, but he looks at me like I'm the most gorgeous creature in the universe first thing in the morning when I look like Sasquatch and have the mood to match. Why does he love me most then? I'm not sure, but I'm guessing because he gets to see the real me that nobody else gets a chance to.
I also know that most of my guy friends prefer a natural look on a girl, or at least not too much makeup. Essentials: mascara, blush, chapstick/lipgloss. You don't need the whole enchilada every day! Save it for special occasions, that way it's a special treat for your guy.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (22 January 2009):
 Errr no because if I wake-up next to a person its because I want to be with that person for who they are and err I guess it might seem a bit that way...you should be comfortable to show the person you with all your sides :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): No it doesn't bother us, we love waking up next to a beautiful woman, women don't lose their beauty when they sleep or when their hair is a mess.
In fact it's one of the best feelings in the world for a girl to be comfortable enough around you not to have be constantly at her "best" looking.
Personally I think yes, women that are always at their make-up do seem insecure, I mean the type of girl that puts on make straight away when she gets up in the morning or won't even go buy milk in the local shop without putting on full make-up.
Most girl's I know wear a tiny bit of make-up during the day but you'd hardly notice it and then wear full make-up when they're dressing up to go out for the night, nothing insecure about that.
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