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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 years we have a 2 year old little boy we both work full time. My problem is when we met I owned my own house with a mortgage he also owns a house jointly with his mum, his mum put half towards the house and he got a mortgage for 25 years, he moved in with me when our son was born the problem is he doesn't contribute enough to the house amd I'm finding it a struggle to pay everything because of his commitment to his mum. We have now split up cos I told him he and his mum should sell their home and give his mum her share and let her find a little flat to rent and then we could jointly buy a house together. He accused me of chucking a little old lady on to the street and he left us taking all his belongings. Was I so wrong to ask him to do this?
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (22 January 2009):
 as little and old as she is he is not there to support his parents home or tie his wealth up with them.
it might be a way out guess but has he always lacked commitment and kept things certain ways for an easy escape.
why should you be the only one providing a roof for your son? he sounds irresponsible
this is a selfish individual who only cares about themselves and hoarding the wealth so that after the child is brought up the two of you will be on different financial levels. he enjoys imbalance.
good luck
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