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writes:I have a problem with jealousy. I have a boyfriend and we're dating for 2 years and I still can't believe him. My jealousy is killing our relationship I can see it but I can't do nothing about it. I'm jealous when he goes out with friends especially if the friends are girls. I know that I should be calm because he proved to me that he loves me and stuff but I just can't control it. Can you help me?!
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (22 January 2009):
 I had remembered seeing this page and thought it might help you out. In general, jealousy is an indication that there's something that you are interpreting as a threat... but the most important thing is to understand why you are seeing it as a threat. Something's eating at you and you need to understand why. Best of luck!
http://www.wikihow.com/Handle-Jealousy
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (22 January 2009):
 You have to find out where your feelings of jealousy is coming from. Has he cheated on you before? Does he do things to make you think something is going on? If he is going out with other girls it would be rude of him not to at least invite you and give you the option of coming along. If he is going out with his buddies I think it is fair to allow him the space for "guy time" Every guy needs that. You have to look at yourself and raise your self esteem. I am sure you are a beautiful, amazing, smart, ambitious young lady that any man would be lucky to have and jealousy is one thing that you should not be expending too much energy on as life is just too short to bother with it. Good luck! I hope this helps
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