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Why does he do this? Should I worried?

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Question - (13 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. it's like he wants me to come to him. I always go up to him and then starts kissing him. I always initiate things. When I ask him to kiss me he just gives me a peck on the lips and I say is that it and then he tells me to kiss him and then I move in to kiss him properly with tongues and he gets really into it and then we start from there.. but he never makes the 1st move..

When I pull up against him then he grabs me tight and holds on to my waist and then looks into my eyes like he wants to kiss me.. but he never kisses me first unless I move into kiss him but he looks at me all the time though in my eyes and sometimes I get so nervous. We were together for 2 months before any physical contact in which I made the move to kiss him..!! It's never happened to me before. What is going on should I be worried..?...thanks..x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009):

Has your boyfriend had any other partners before? It's weird being the guy and not wanting to make the first move. Ino that with my bf i never make first move with the kiss its actually quite bad of me but i feel shy and my bf talked to me about it. And now i do make first moves quite a bit. I think you need to just talk to him and see his view on it he may not even relise hes doing it until you mention ask him before you start to get worried:).

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