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female
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41-50,
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writes:My boyfriend had a brief period with this girl but never wanted her as a girlfriend, she was not the nicest person etc and when she eventually got a boyfriend he knew it wouldn't last because of the kind of person she was and he was right. We meet and start a relationship and he works away (in her town). He catches up with her and tells her how much he loves me and even talks about marriage. Well he gets really drunk and they sleep together. She was not intoxicated at all. Anyway she says she was vulnerable and all this stuff and that with them it was never love and bla bla bla. And that if he had not told me she would have. Note: she wouldn't even know how to contact me and was she planning on sleeping with him just to tell me?? I think she was just jealous that he never wanted her and that he was so happy with me, talking about marriage that she just wanted to ruin that for her own spoilt, selfish, miserable reasons. Why do girls do this? I never understand someone who can sleep with someone else's partner knowingly. What are they thinking? I would think he was vulnerable being drunk, they are both at fault. I've mostly dealt with my anger at him but she pisses me off, she lives her life without any of the damage it has caused.
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reader, sheribaby38  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 well theres an old saying that people want what they cant have. have you ever noticed that? girls do that because they want to make sure they can get him into bed. it makes them feel good about themselves.there insecure and i call girls like that skanks.your guy needs to be dumped he knows exactly what hes doing he can blame the alchohal but he knows exactly what hes doing. hes going to keep doing it because you forgive him.
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