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Should men chat to other women online?

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Question - (13 January 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Me and my boyfriend just recently broke up after being together for the past year becuase of his Myspace account. I knew he had one when we first got together and I told him then that I didn't like it. He has over 1500 people on it and their mainly all girls that are half naked. There's also alot of girls that live in the same state he does and I believe he talk's to them on a daily bases and maybe even dated some of them. I also found some naked pictures on his phone from a girl that was on his myspace account but the pictures were sent before me and him got together. He has two account's, he say's the first one whas hacked into so he can't delete it but I really don't believe that and his second account is now set to private. I think it's kind of silly to break up with someone over a Myspace account but I really do believe that he was keeping his options open or cheating on me. What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009):

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I could not help myself I signed up for a fake Myspace account and emailed him and all of his close friends this:

WHAT (NO NAME USED HERE)(AKA CREEPY OLD MAN)ENJOYS DOING WITH HIS SPARE TIME:

1)Taking advantage of people that are depressed over the loss of a child.

2)Breaking up marriages.

3)Taking fathers away from children.

4)Being a jerk to kid's.(Ex. spanking,yelling, not letting them have anything at all.)

5)Getting women pregnant, waiting until their 6 months then forces them into getting an abortion.

6)Cheating

7)Talking to women on the internet and requesting naked pictures.

8)Takes naked pictures of drunk girls then stores them in a shoe box over at his mommies house so he can jack off to them later becuase he doesn't get laid very often.

9)Has sex with drunk girls that are passed out.

10)Takes weird pictures of himself which will be posted to the internet ASAP.

11)Having sex with men, preferably the neighbor.

12)Doing meth.

13)Watching all his teeth rot out.

14)Bashing the windshield out of his ex-girlfreinds car.

15)Being an alchoholic.

16)Getting so drunk he passes out in the bathroom with his pants down.

17)Playing the victim in relationships.

18)Destroying lives.

19)Being an old,nasty,creepy,perverted,weirdo.

20)Being a lowlife.

It's all true and I feel like I have some closure now since everybody knows what kind of creep he is.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (13 January 2009):

Basschick agony auntYes, he was definitely keeping his options open and you were wise to break up with him. He is still acting like a single guy, while getting the benefits of sex from your relationship. Don't look back. You did the right thing. Myspace is just another way for people to cheat on their mates. Best of luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):

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Thank's for the advice. I think he is addicted to the internet but like you said he can have his Myspace account and I can live the real world! Thank's.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (13 January 2009):

Griffo agony auntDon't care back! You're way better than that!

Be strong :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):

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He told me he would set up an account for me! He act's like he doesn't even care. He told me that he forgot about the pictures on his phone but yeah right.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (13 January 2009):

Griffo agony auntMaybe, but you will never know. It sound as though he had a lack of communication with you and not giving you the peace of mind you needed to hear from him in the first place. he's left you on the edge it seems.

Another thing is: Dont bother playing his game if he wants to play games let him do this but show no care, if he play's this kills a player! but its a foolish wast of time playing games anyway so just enjoy your life your time and do what makes you happy.

Myspace and these online communication systemes tend to also percieve false imagery of a person, you need to interact with a person in reality to have a real depiction. so these peopl on myspace, might not be what they seem when he meets them. ive god thousands of top women who make friends with me on there too and i make friends with them, its usally a model simply building a fan base or somthing playing him on for a fool.

I wouldnt worry too much its his loss anyway, live the real world, not myspace etc.

Cheers :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):

myspace is the devils playground. you need to ask him why he still has those pictures on his phone. maybe you should get a myspace account too and make friends. play his game.

he wouldn't like to discover half naked men sprawled allover your phone/ myspace friends list.

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