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writes:i am dating a guy much older then me for 7 months now, but it s not a normal relationship, he lets me see him once maybe twice a month...and it s mostly sex, he is divorced, lives alone, and i believe doesn t want anything serious, but i feel he cares about me, he just keeps the distance....it s killing me but i can not let it go...please help, what s the best to do here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): You have to move on and break this relationship as soon as possible. It is very clear that this man just want to be with you for the benefit of the sex. You are young and it is very normal that you think this man care about you. He cares because you are giving him what he want's. He keeps the distance, so you don't get involve or think he wants anything serious with you. He is with you just when is needed. Always think you are a great person and you deserve a man that really cares about you. Don't waste your time with this sick relationship that at the end is just hurting you and only you.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 Stop being available for sex for him, you will then see just how much he cares for you. It certainly sounds like you do all the work in the relationship!
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 I think the age thing probably bothers him more than it does you. He is keeping his distance (while still enjoying the benefits of seeing you at least part-time). Yes he is probably using your for sex on some level. And don't be too sure he's actually divorced. Just because he has his "own place". That could be his week-end place, or the place he stays during the week, and then it's home to the wife on the week-ends. I think it's strange that he only sees you now and then. Leaves you less chance to figure things out or ask too many questions about his need for privacy. Enjoy it while it lasts but don't count on anything permanent with this guy. Not until alot has changed. Best of luck.
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