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writes:HiI have been facing a peculiar problem. She is my office colleague. We started dating about 10 months back. However, during this period, we could not spend more than 20 hours so far. Every time I ask her out she seems to have an engagement. I told her that this relationship is not working and we should put an end to it. She immediately told me that I am the best person she can ever find and she really loves me.but still she continues to avoid meeting me and even if we go out once in a month or so, she keeps herself busy talking about her friends and attending to her phone calls. At last I decided to end all this facade, but she still insists that she loves me.I am confused not that I want to restart the whole episode, but why is she insisting that she loves me when she could not even give me 20 hours of her time in 10 months and even during this time she seems preoccupied with other concerns rather than enjoying our time together?Does anyone have an answer?Anzario
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009): i think she loves you but she might also love someone else ... she will be thinking that you are a good person and u deserve a good girl ... which she is not thinking about herself
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reader, theguy  +, writes (17 April 2009):
hey man. I can relate. there is many possibilities for her actions. please don't jump to a conclusion and go with it. she couldve had many troubled relationships and is not spending time with you or getting close to you out of fear. but no matter what her previous cituation was the best thing to do is sit down and have a heart to heart. yes she hasn't shown you much appreciation or affection but if you feel she is worth it than show her that you want this relationship to work. so ask yourself do you want it to work?
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