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writes:Well you know there are times when you want your boyfriend to like you for what you are and not for who you are.. the same with meI am 20 and my boyfriend is 21 and we were really attracted to each other from day 1 and we still are.. so basically it was the physical attraction.I thought it would get deeper and not only be the physical attraction but I think my boyfriend takes me as a trophy you know something that he shows off..? His best friend had a major crush on me and he knows that but still he gets too touchy in front of his best friend. I think that's just being inconsiderate and many a times when we are partying he just goes like pointing at me 'look what I have here with me can you guys beat that, she is gorgeous and she is all mine.' I mean it's nice in a way but there is more to me than just beauty and I have spoken about it and he was go like baby love come on now you know I love u.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 April 2009):
I had a boyfriend once who admitted that he mostly went for girls that would "look good on the arm" and come and watch him play rugby.
He wasn't my boyfriend for very long.
If you don't feel there is any connection there then it may just be that your relationship is lust and the fact you get on fairly well.
It's up to you if you stay with him or not, but for me, there has to be more than physical attraction, and there are guys that are out there who can make you laugh and who you will able to talk to about anything and everything.
The trick is to find the one who you have the deepest connection with PLUS the physical stuff. That's the one you marry.
If you think you are wasting your time with MR Wrong rather than looking for Mr Right, then chuck him and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (17 April 2009):
 You're boyfriend sounds like he is very proud of what he has achieved (going out with you) he is flaunting you and if you don't like him you need to tell him. Why not try writing him a letter telling him what he does, give him examples of when he does it, and tell him how it makes you feel. By doing this he will be able to digest the information as it is ordered correctly and he cannot just ignore it. X
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