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writes:Dear Cupid,My boyfriend (14) and I (17) have been together for about two weeks short of six months. Despite our age difference, we have a GREAT relationship. We never fight, and we're always totally there for each other. The half-year mark is obviously a pretty big milestone. I want to do something really special for him, but I don't know what to do. I've been considering giving him my class ring, but I don't know if that would be a good thing to do. I mean, I don't want to seem all overly-cheesy and romantic-movie-ish. Should I go through with giving him my ring? If not, does someone have any better ideas? Any help is greatly appreciated.Thanks,~Stumped~ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust wondering: Alright...when did I ever mention anything about sex??? I said NOTHING about sex. I happen to be a virgin, he happens to be a virgin, and we happen to be keeping it that way. We are always very careful to make sure that we don't get all "caught up in the moment", and it's working out fine. And as far as "hanging out as friends" goes, everybody already knows that we're more. And they happen to be completely okay with that. Our friends are cool with us because they know that we make each other happy. Our parents are totally fine with it because they know the kind of people we are. Both sets have already given us their blessing to continue our relationship into the next year as long as we don't have sex. And since neither one of us wants to lose our relationship, sex isn't going to happen between us unless that class ring on my finger is replaced by a wedding band. Soo, yeahh. If you want to bring sex into the picture, there you go.
anonymous: Umm...I think you're a little bit confused...lol. What I said was that I'm considering GIVING him MY class ring on our six-month anniversary. But thanks for your advice on taking things slow...I'll be sure to remember that!!!
irishgirlm: That does sound like a neat idea!!! Thanks for your help!!!
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reader, just wondering +, writes (17 April 2009):
Wow three years difference and dating. He has barely hit pubardy and his growth spurt.In some states next year if you have sex you can go to jail for stagetory rape. You are hanging out as friends now and label it that for his sake and yoursMore than friends is five to ten.A ring is to much give a friend something small stuffed animal, laser pointer, if he is into sports, music but not more than ten dollars.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): That's good he gave you a class ring,just take it slow and get to know everything about each other and if 3 years go by and you guys still together then you know its real love!!!
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reader, irishgirlm  +, writes (17 April 2009):
 a hoodie that way he can wear it and think of you and wear it if he's proud in front o friends too :D
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