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I want to ask him out but afraid he'd say no. What should I do?

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Question - (17 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well i think this lad may like me, we have known each other for about 2 years, he was always trying to sit next to me, hes always smirking at me, i get some dirty texts but he says its his mates, we can stay on the phone for 3 hours when i go to bed talking about random stuff,

hes always finding ways to touch me and he now whips me with a bendy stick, it hurts but i always get him back ten times harder lol, hes always making hints about kisses and other girls (this confuses me a bit), we play fight like wrestle, hes very cute and i like him alot,

i dont want to ask him out in case he says no, i dont know what to do, please help me...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009):

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We are now dating, 3 weeks today lol, thanks for all advice, he is such a nice lad...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

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UPDATE

Thanks for all your advice....

Okay, well last night we sorta had a sleep over with my cousin (who did not drink), we stayed up all night... drinking but not that much, he hid his face from my cousin and said "i love u" and he kept winking at me and everytime i whiped him with the bendy stick he would do a sexy growl, he does this most of the time even when i dont do anything, somtimes he plays with my hair and then we would play wrestle, i really do like this lad so im gonna start flirting abit more and then ask him how he feels about me, hopefully i dont clam up when i do...

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A female reader, BethBabes United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2009):

BethBabes agony auntask him how he feels about you and tell him how you feel if you both like eachother then go for it.

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A female reader, Ms. Tearious United States +, writes (17 April 2009):

I don't think you're at the point yet where you should ask him out. Maybe take a little more time in flirting with him, being more suggestive about how you feel about him, like dropping some pretty big hints and seeing how he reacts. If he reacts positively and his emotions seem to be pretty strong for you, then maybe ask him how he feels about you and go from there.

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