A
female
age
36-40,
*aisha
writes:Hello dear cupid, my problem may sound really weird but it matters to me a lot.My boyfriend is a very perfect guy, he knows everything, really calculative about everything. He is mature, understanding, loving and caring. We both love each other a lot. Can't imagine our lives without each other but the problem is that I'm a carefree girl, I'm not perfect but I love it that way.Now whenever he is around I try to be as perfect as possible but I think I just act like someone else. I feel suffocated and very awkward. I don't wanna change but I can't help it. I love him too much and can't break up with him. He knows about this... but is still the same. What do I do???? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Dear girlfriendOnce i read something do beautiful that it remained with me till this day, and i'd like to share it here with you-it may help towards your dilemma.It said,that the much of the vitality in a friendship lies not in simply enjoying the similarities but in honouring the differences.I always find this inspiring and i hope you will too.You must accept who you both are and appreciate your friendship first of all.If you can be true friends then all else is possible.You are still young, and life will bring you new experiences that will continually shape you and add to your maturity.Look after your happiness and you will be so rewarded.Take care
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